What's Bothering You?

[Lightspring]

Despite English being my first and only language, English Composition at college likes to make me think that I don’t know how to speak properly. Fun.

 

[Dunquixote]

brrrooooooooo sorry if i roused insecurity and doubt within you from pointing that out agh i feel bad now lol
keep on giving people thumbs up if it makes you happy honestly it's not creepy it's a pretty good way for people to know that someone has bothered to read their post.... can't tell you how many times i've made posts and wonder "is anyone going to read this and benefit from it?" lol

No need to apologize; I didn’t mean to guilt trip you either ><. I’m the one that should apologize; I didn’t mean to make you feel bad. It’s okay, really . It was actually nice of you to bring it to my attention on my wall. i have severe anxiety so even if you had not mentioned it, I still would’ve eventually worried about it. The whole possibility of creeping people out with my comments or likes have been at the edge of my mind for awhile.

 

[oak]

I’m sorry ; I am a bit jealous myself even though I am sincerely happy for all of the winners. I thought my design was good but only got a couple of likes (all of which I really appreciated)

I loved your design; it was seriously so clever and cute since Gaston has a terrible home and I loved seeing a good home remodel. I thought it stuck to the theme well too . Gaston is a favorite and I love Claude too.

Don’t feel bad for feeling this way. It’s normal; we all feel that way from time to time. It hurts when you put a lot of thought and effort into something and not get as much likes or votes as you hoped. I also can tell that you’re a really nice person from reading your posts and that you’re not being petty

Sorry if none of what i say help. I just want you to know that there is nothing wrong with the way you feel and I am a huge fan of your designs and screenshots.

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This is a minor worry: I just found out that it was noticeable how much I like people posts or ones I am tagged in. Now I am worried that I creeped out or annoyed everyone on the forums ><.

Aww thank you for being sweet. I'm already feeling better about it, I just needed a moment haha. I'm glad you liked my design btw!

Also I don't mind you or anyone liking my posts. The notifications popping up makes it feel like the forum is more active somehow idk why. I only ever have a few notifications at a time so it buffs up the number haha

 

[Dunquixote]

I’ve noticed, but no worries, it’s very nice of you to take the time to like so many posts. I appreciate them. Your fine don’t stress it.

Thanks ^.^. I honestly thought that’s what the like button was for and didn’t think of it as weird to like every post that I liked or agreed with or appreciated it some sort of way.

reading about other people's experiences dealing with people who don't understand autism or treat it as some kind of disease/debilitation, and thinking about experiences that I myself have had, just makes me so mad. like seriously why are people with autism seen as weird/childish/dumb?? maybe the neurotypical people are the ones that are weird.

(im not trying to insult anyone, I just wish people would stop being so ignorant about people with autism. it gets really annoying and frustrating to deal with.)

I appreciate this tremendously. Jobs aren’t very accepting of anyone with even anxiety or at least I’m having very bad luck. :/ My psychiatrist seems to not take it seriously (he supposedly suspected i had asperger’s for awhile yet he never brought it up to my mom) or anxiety for all that matters (doesn’t want to help me get disability since he obviously doesn’t think anxiety is an impairment). We’ll eventually be looking for a different psychiatrist.

 

[spawnpoint]

I don't know what to think about my relationship with my best friend anymore...

 

[Midoriya]

I just spent a bunch of time with my family and now they want me to spend even more time with them doing something I don’t want to do. They keep pestering me about it too.

Ughhhhhh...

Imagine if I could actually converse with other people besides my family and this virus was gone. Yeah, too bad that’s only in my imagination...

 

[ali.di.magix]

I took my dog for a ride with me while I was running some errands and my mum got a phone call from the SPCA saying about a dog panting in a car with no windows down in a carpark...I was literally only in the store for 10-15 mins while picking up some stuff. I did forget about windows, but then idk if I trust my dog with the windows down, especially if a kid went past my car and stuck their hand in because my dog would've probably bit them since she's overprotective. The only reason I took her with me is that she was being very clingy this morning, and when she goes out with someone she calms down a lot once she's home again. And she freaks out for a bit when I leave the car, making her pant a lot. But now I feel like a bad dog owner, and my mum probably thinks that too

 

[Ananas Dragon]

Ah, my mother is calling, time to lie about missing her and all of my feelings

calling her is a chore honestly and puts me in a **** mood

 

[Dunquixote]

I just spent a bunch of time with my family and now they want me to spend even more time with them doing something I don’t want to do. They keep pestering me about it too.

Ughhhhhh...

Imagine if I could actually converse with other people besides my family and this virus was gone. Yeah, too bad that’s only in my imagination...

I can relate to this in both ways. When i have to stay out of my room and socialize with family (before my dad and i stopped talking), i feel awkward even with my family.

I wish the same as well. I hope it’s okay for me to send well wishes your way and hope things get better for you in the social aspect and with other things you might be dealing with.

 

[DarkDesertFox]

It's hard to believe tomorrow is Monday already. Lately I really keep wondering how I am able to make it through another 5 days. Work has just been so unpredictable it's wearing me out. I'm trying to tough out the rest of the month since I only have 5 days of PTO left. I'd like to use one or two to do something for Halloween.

 

[Midoriya]

Nevermind.

 

[Poppytea]

Graduating soon to a poorly performing job marketing, struggling to find a job after I'm done with school
Hoping that doing well in my last semester will improve my chances of landing a decent job!

 

[skarmoury]

im always so SLOW in studying fhfksjf i swear normal people could finish this chapter in maybe 2 hours but ive been sitting here almost 3 hours and im nowhere near done : (

 

[Mr_Persona]

Do l have covid? I don't know...have to wait in the morning and also l can't sleep.....l need to draw more

 

[Neb]

I accidentally phrased a question in a romantic way to the person I like and they replied with no lol.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

I can't seem to keep track of what generation we're in in pokemon.

 

[Seastar]

I'm having a hard time sleeping because of intrusive thoughts again.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

I'm having a hard time sleeping because of intrusive thoughts again.

I like to detox with nonsense.

 

[Clock]

I wonder how much longer until, I can get an offer to date trade my yellow fragment, since whats bothering me is that its going to take a lot of bumps and time until I get it.

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Another thing bothering me is that I missed out on some things

 

[xSuperMario64x]

im always so SLOW in studying fhfksjf i swear normal people could finish this chapter in maybe 2 hours but ive been sitting here almost 3 hours and im nowhere near done : (

I can relate, our history prof wants us to read a 300+ page book and I'm honestly stressing so bad about it because I can never focus on reading. so what might take a normal person 30 min to read could easily take me 2-3 hours or more. it really sucks.


woke up even earlier today, right around 7am. I don't have to leave for class for about 3 hours, I could do homework but I really hate doing homework at all outside of class. ugh idk I'm just getting really tired of being in school. wish i could spend my morning doing something I enjoy rather than stressing about homework.