What's Bothering You?
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Katzenjammer
♫Cat that Jams♫
@Midoriya, I am so gutted to hear about your mom. I cannot imagine what you must be going through right now. My heart breaks for you and my deepest condolences to you and your family right now. If there's anything I can do, please don't hesitate to throw a DM my way <3 Keeping you all in my prayers <3
A bit late but I'm so so so sorry
Just saw this now and I can't imagine how devastating this must be... Take your time to mourn and heal and remember you are not alone <3
A bit late but I'm so so so sorry
Thank you all so much. I really appreciate it. All of the people that have replied to me and even the ones who haven’t on this site are so, so sweet and I love you all.
Cosmic-chan
✩ ˗ˏ✎*ೃ˚ My Melody.
Oh jeez my boyfriend is as sick as a dog ;-;
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Why can't you just ever stop plummeting my mood? Why doesn't the family take my side? Why are they siding with someone who goes after not just me, but every other person in the house? I need to be doing stuff, but I'm not in the mood. There's finals and assignments, but I'm not doing so hot. Car broke down, so I'm stuck in the house. I don't like it here.
Lady Timpani
sway
I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you and your family are doing as well as you can right now. May she rest in peace.
Thank you, Lady Timpani. I really appreciate it as well as the Black Hybrid Rose you gifted me. We’re doing our best.
saucySheep
I've frikin' LEFT the forum :D bye!! won't miss ya
Hey brother
that legit sucks so hard im so terribly sorry for you ;-; no one deserves pain like that
i shall be praying
spawnpoint
Take a chance! 🎲
@Midoriya I'm sorry for your loss, man I couldn't imagine going through that I hope you and your family will be ok ;;
trashpedia
🌟🌊
Oml I am so sorry for your loss ;o; take as much time you need to mourn
I usually come back to this poem when someone I love and care about pass away, so maybe it'll help you too
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Thank you, everyone. I really appreciate your kind words and the lovely poem. < 3
i'm so so sorry you had to go through this
your mother sounded like a truly lovely and incredible person.
DinosaurDumpster
You're watching Disney Channel
totally haven't been crying for the past 2 hours because my hopes keep being shut down
Dunquixote
Hiatus
I want to know this too. Every time my dad or sister (when she is here as well or if I’m at her place since she has her own house now) criticizes me or disagrees with me, the other gangs up on me and my mom doesn’t say anything. When i try venting to her then, she tells me not to start anything. It is times like those I have intrusive thoughts though I honestly never mean any of the thoughts (partly because I’m a coward).
I’m so sorry that you are going through that and that you’re not feeling good. :/ Hang in there as best you can; I’m sorry I have nothing better to say since I don’t know how to deal with the situation except when at home, hide in my room. i can’t do that at my sister’s though :/. my mom is okay if i take a time out but usually my dad intrudes in the room to get something or idk.
Welcome to another episode of 'JP is only 21 but physically feels like they're in their 40s!'
I was crouching down and when I went to stand back up I felt something hurt in my left knee, aka the stupid knee I've had problems with since high school. Fr thou why do I have pains like this, this is supposed to be my prime (physically). Knee pains, back shoulder area pains so much that I can't even give myself a massage anymore, it hurts to press that area. There are times where it literally feels like someone is pinching my nerves and other times that it feels like it burns. Not like a hot heat burn like my muscles are on literal fire, but just weird. At the end of a work week my back shoulder area is killing me.
To the 40 year olds reading this, I in no way mean this as an insult. I use 40 cause my parents are in their 40s and complain about pains.
I was crouching down and when I went to stand back up I felt something hurt in my left knee, aka the stupid knee I've had problems with since high school. Fr thou why do I have pains like this, this is supposed to be my prime (physically). Knee pains, back shoulder area pains so much that I can't even give myself a massage anymore, it hurts to press that area. There are times where it literally feels like someone is pinching my nerves and other times that it feels like it burns. Not like a hot heat burn like my muscles are on literal fire, but just weird. At the end of a work week my back shoulder area is killing me.
To the 40 year olds reading this, I in no way mean this as an insult. I use 40 cause my parents are in their 40s and complain about pains.
i'm so so sorry you had to go through this
Thank you, pochy. I appreciate your kind words. < 3
I offer you my deepest prayers and condolences for you and your family. I know the pain of losing a loved one... My grandfather passed away last year on February 1st. And last night, on December 1st, I was overcome with a grief for him that I hadn't felt in months. I even thought about how interesting the timing of it was, being almost exactly a year and ten months. And then, today, I saw your comment. If that's not more than coincidence, then I don't know what is. So, just know you are not alone, friend. ❤
Thank you, Aly. I really appreciate it. I’m sorry to hear about your grandfather. I’ve never had anyone this close to me die before so it’s taking awhile. I didn’t sleep well last night and I’ve felt cold, tired, and depressed all day. Thankfully my dad and other family have been giving me hugs to keep me warm, and I’ve been able to talk with the person I care most about today and relate to them, and they’re helping me feel a lot better. I can’t wait to go to sleep tonight. I think I’ll sleep well because I’m tired. Once again, thank you so much.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
I'm sorry your family is that way as well. It hurts. Thank you for your kind words and advice - right now I'm just having the blues still, though. I'll try and manage - you do the same as well. <3
