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What's Bothering You?

I think I mentioned this before, but it's still relevant.

About a year ago I confessed to a friend and she reciprocated. We decided to put off a relationship since she didn't feel ready. After a few months I lost interest and was too afraid to tell her. Now she's calling me cute via text. Should I tell her the truth directly or should I just not show interest anymore? I still value our friendship. I just can't force myself to return feelings that are no longer there.
 
Neb said:
I think I mentioned this before, but it's still relevant.

About a year ago I confessed to a friend and she reciprocated. We decided to put off a relationship since she didn't feel ready. After a few months I lost interest and was too afraid to tell her. Now she's calling me cute via text. Should I tell her the truth directly or should I just not show interest anymore? I still value our friendship. I just can't force myself to return feelings that are no longer there.
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while it’ll likely be a rough conversation, i highly recommend telling her the truth. she’ll be hurt but it’s a better alternative to pretending that the feelings are still mutual or just abruptly showing lack of interest without an explanation, which could hurt her more. good luck and i hope everything turns out okay. ^^
 
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Neb said:
I think I mentioned this before, but it's still relevant.

About a year ago I confessed to a friend and she reciprocated. We decided to put off a relationship since she didn't feel ready. After a few months I lost interest and was too afraid to tell her. Now she's calling me cute via text. Should I tell her the truth directly or should I just not show interest anymore? I still value our friendship. I just can't force myself to return feelings that are no longer there.
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she's your friend and you respect her
so i say be honest! if i were her i would prefer that to being led on, not that that's what you're intending to do but it might come off that way. good luck to you neb <3 you are a really sweet person so i think it'll go over ok.
 
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I hate the kind of people who always expect you to be working when you're on the clock. Like...I'm a good worker. I pride myself in that. But, when there is no work to be done, I can't just make up things to do. I also live by the mindset of not wasting energy. It's better to save your energy for the bursts when you need it, than it is to just burn it steadily for no reason. I don't know...it just makes me angry sometimes. Last night, someone made me feel like I had somehow not done a good enough job...and the more I thought about it, the more I was like "I did that job more efficiently than anyone could have asked". It really is true sometimes that the more efficient and good at your job you are, the easier it is for people to overlook you. Is it better to pretend to be busy and take longer doing something just to trick people? I hate that. That's not me...
 
Please just SHUT. UP. If you’re not quiet for five goddam minutes I think I’m going to explode.
 
LuchaSloth said:
Definitely possible. And normal, actually. It's probably just water weight.

Your body can retain water for a whole bunch of reasons.
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it's not that. the scale isn't calibrated properly and idk how to calibrate it. and it only said it one time, then jumped back down to the 176 range which is more likely what it is. I also happen to be wearing heavy sweat pants today 😂
I'm about to just start using Wii Fit to weigh myself cause at least that can be calibrated.


also my plushie is supposed to arrive in two days and I'm just so impatient 😔
 
so i've stopped talking my only friend because she's just been so horrible to me lately and my mum is now worried because she thinks i'm gonna be lonely
but surely i'd be happier without someone being so negative all the time for literally no reason

sorry i complain about everything...
 
I hate it when people put you in an uncomfortable difficult position and then later get mad at you for it. Take responsibility for yourself and stop risking my job because you can’t get your **** together. I’m tired of crazy people lately.
 
bit of a tiny bother, but how come every single one of my friends is a weeb? how did it all come down to this? i have zero escape ;v;
 
Can advertisers please stop making me feel guilty for being single this time of year? I already feel bad enough without it.
 
Dawnpiplup said:
I'm, well, a bit depressed at the moment. I believe it's due to all the coursework that I've yet to do. Lots of reading and things to get done. How do people manage this?
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make schedules for you homework, really. or decide like "today i'm gonna write 2 pages, or read 100 pages etc." and let it take all day if it does. no need to make stressful 1 hour goals or stuff.

also focus on the positive such as being away from your family :)
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also neopets beta layout fanpeople and ninty fanpeople...pls.
 
i hate chronic pain so MUCH!! my hips feel like i strapped weights to them omg omg i sat on my stairs for half an hour omg
 
I’m sick (not with COVID) and it just feels weird after not feeling like this for a year. My throat hurts and every time I sneeze it kind of hurts.
 
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