What's Bothering You?

[ali.di.magix]

I always seem to get really tired and demotivated in the early afternoon when I'm in the office at work. It's rather annoying and I don't know what to do to stop it.

I worry about what my manager thinks of me. What I think that he thinks is I can't manage time and I'm forgetful. I'm definitely forgetful thats for sure. I really wish I wasn't. And now I'm afraid that my bad traits, like my forgetfulness, are overshadowing anything good about myself.

I haven't made any friends in my current city yet, and don't know if I ever will. Do I even need friends? I mean probably since it's probably healthy for my social life/mental state. But on the other hand I'm antisocial af, probably have social anxiety, and am reasonably happy by myself, so maybe I don't need friends?? Idk??

 

[_Rainy_]

Someone just came speeding through my neighborhood in a presumably stolen cop car and drove by where we live. Lights and siren on and everything and then crashed into a house on the next street over. There was a loud scary boom so I’m sure whatever they hit they hit it pretty hard. I hope nobody was hurt. I could only tell the location by the flashing lights above our fence.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

I may have been looking at some funny mouse pads with wrist rests on ebay, then may have clicked buy it now while trying to leave the page. Now I'm committed to buy a Hanzo from Overwatch oppai pad with nipples.

 

[Alienfish]

I may have been looking at some funny mouse pads with wrist rests on ebay, then may have clicked buy it now while trying to leave the page. Now I'm committed to buy a Hanzo from Overwatch oppai pad with nipples.

Do it.

Also why is the £ so bad against my currency lol

 

[Alienfish]

UK chest sizes varying too much on certain garments, can you at least write a general advice for those in-between or with not a tall posture lol. AlsoI don't think 100% of the ladies in the UK are 5'9" lol

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I'm bored so my executive dysfunction is paralyzing me

maybe if we could go somewhere for like 45 min, that would be fun and maybe just enough to get me out of this funk

 

[TheSillyPuppy]

Thank you! And thank you to @TheSillyPuppy and @CanuckChick as well. I think I'll try for the walk-in clinic we're having later this week and if I get turned away I'll call the pharmacies. I'm also nervous I won't get Pfizer as my second dose I know that mixing the doses has been approved but I'd rather get Pfizer both times, if I can.

When I got my first dose back in the beginning of June my period was worse than normal which is mainly why I'm concerned! I had much worse cramps than I'm used to and in general had a lingering headache for a while and I've heard the second dose is usually worse. Plus I'm set to go to the Dentist July 13th (fingers crossed my wisdom teeth are fine!) so I'm nervous about getting my vaccine a few days before the appointment and having it make me too ill to go. Doesn't help that my periods usually due around July 13th, lmao. The timing of everything is just really lousy and I wish I could've gotten my second dose at the very beginning of this month or at least have the booking system be working so I know when I'm able to get it done.

But seriously thank you guys for taking the time to reply to me! I appreciate all the tips and kind words

Pharmacies are definitely the best bet if you're looking for a specific vaccine nowadays. The (now former) Pfizer-only clinic in my region just updated their part of the region's website that they would be administering Moderna to folks 18+ for all second doses. :/ Personally, I don't have the time (or energy, lol) to continuously check for openings online at the pharmacies, so I'm just going with mixing.

If you end up joining the VaxxHunters Discord, the best channel to monitor is called pharmacy-bot-on -- just as an FYI.

I hope your dentist appointment goes well, and I hope my advice helps you (thank you for giving me an opportunity to productively vent as well). XD

I slept for 9 hours last night, but I still feel exhausted between menstrual symptoms and the cloudy weather.

 

[Holla]

Realized I ordered two fairly pricey figures the other day on an account that I haven’t updated my address on. It’s not a huge deal as my parents still live at the old address but unfortunately it’s an hour long drive to get there from here once they do come. I feel dumb for not realizing sooner. Oops.

 

[oak]

Well my friend just messaged me to let me know that their husband who they got married to 2 weeks ago passed away today. They aren't telling anyone how he died yet but I feel like I'm floating in space, this was just so unexpected. No one needs to tell me their sorry cause this isn't about me, I'm just concerned for my friends mental health now.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

@oak I'll be keeping you guys in my thoughts, that's really upsetting


I'm lowkey tempted to tell my therapist about my dad emotionally abusing me and my mom and my brother for so many years. enough is enough. he's not gonna get away with it any longer. I'm tired of his ****.

 

[Dunquixote]

Spoiler: personal minor stuff

I had been bothered by something I so I messaged someone for some clarification and I’m kinda scared I’m going to get yelled at for being ridiculous. I’m sorry for being so nervous about sending messages and for the stupid stuff I ask and for my anxiety. I feel like a lot of times I am the most annoying person in the world. Also I realize I have to let things go and just move on but my mind won’t let me, so I’m worried that one of these days i’ll make more people snap at me which is why i have been trying to keep everything to myself not to mention all my friends have their own problems so I don’t want trouble them with mine. I just think it is really inconsiderate to go crying to a friend about something like not getting my way about something when they might be going through some abuse or being stalked, or who knows what (those aren’t specific examples but just are stuff that i thought of at the top of my head). One of my closest friends didn’t want to tell his cousin to not text me, which was to him picking a side, so talking to him about not only the three years of anger towards his cousin is out of the question if something that wasn’t requiring him for any stance was seen as asking him to side with me.

I think I might want to change my username eventually since they all know my username and been feeling uneasy about it and paranoid.

 

[_Rainy_]

Spoiler: personal minor stuff

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You should confide in your friends. I can speak from personal experience that keeping it in just creates distance especially when they already suspect something is wrong. You’re a good caring friend and I’m sure they would like to return the favor. I also don’t think your problems are any less valid just because they aren’t as major as someone else’s. Just my thoughts at least.

 

[a potato]

Still no call and I have a procedure tomorrow that I'm nervous about.

 

[tessa grace]

didnt eat anything when we ate out again and now im hungry

 

[Stikki]

My dog has a lesion that keeps weeping. She's on antibiotics and I think she'll be fine, but she's such a drama queen about it all that it makes me feel terrible haha

 

[Kattea]

Spoiler

My boyfriend of 10 years cheated on me last year. I've been on my own ever since and I've been doing okay. But it bothers me that when something big happens in my life, I still think about him.

 

[-Lumi-]

Cystic acne is making me want to cry. My skin isn't perfect and I usually have a few other spots and blackheads and then I usually get one cystic spot around my period. It's bothersome and I wish it didn't happen but it's always been whatever. Lately though my skin has just been Extra Angry at me because I've had so many of these terrible spots. Three on my chin and one up by my ear?? They hurt so much, I try not to pick at them but I almost always end up doing it anyways which makes them worse, and then they leave terrible marks behind. I picked up some new Benzoyl Peroxide face wash & a spot treatment but I can't tell if it's helping or not since it's so new and I've heard it can make your skin worse before it gets better. I thought I'd leave acne behind in my teens but no, I guess not

 

[Kittywulfe]

Cystic acne is making me want to cry. My skin isn't perfect and I usually have a few other spots and blackheads and then I usually get one cystic spot around my period. It's bothersome and I wish it didn't happen but it's always been whatever. Lately though my skin has just been Extra Angry at me because I've had so many of these terrible spots. Three on my chin and one up by my ear?? They hurt so much, I try not to pick at them but I almost always end up doing it anyways which makes them worse, and then they leave terrible marks behind. I picked up some new Benzoyl Peroxide face wash & a spot treatment but I can't tell if it's helping or not since it's so new and I've heard it can make your skin worse before it gets better. I thought I'd leave acne behind in my teens but no, I guess not

I sympathize with you. I'm in my forties and have been battling acne my whole adult life. I have to rotate the acne products I use every so often because I feel like my skin gets too used to them and they stop working. I started using Clean and Clear Advantage system a few months ago and it's been working rather well and also doesn't cost a lot.

I hope you can find something that works well for you.

 

[Dunquixote]

My head hurts a little but i am trying to avoid taking medicine since I’ve been taking so much painkillers the last few days.

 

[Alienfish]

I really need to renew my AQW membership but that sneaky digital VAT they add if you pay by card in the US/EU idk who's the traitor here is just..nope.