I've had a burning sensation in my stomach for the last few hours, hopefully eating helps but if this pain doesn't go away by tomorrow I'll have to call the doctor. I really hope it's not an ulcer, my mom said it could be since I've been so stressed out lately
Ugh, revenge rating? I hate when people do that. It makes ratings seem not so accurate these days. I’ve never experienced a revenge rating myself, but Nookazon seems filled with those.I will never understand why people on Nookazon give me and others 1 star reviews just because they made a mistake and they have no idea how to deal with criticism. Now I remember why I quit that site last year. I had to file several reports because of abusive 1 star reviews. They damaged my mental health and really made me step away from trading for good.
It was a miscommunication I had with this seller who posted a review, before we did the trade. I was saying to them "I hope you have the diy" basically I was giving them 100 nmts for a Golden Slingshot DIY and I was hoping she did not trade it away to the wrong person. Thankfully when I went to their island they apologized for their mistake and they gave me the DIY. I gave her a 4 star review saying that although they made a mistake the trade went well. Then for whatever reason she just went crazy and give me a 1 star review, just because of the rating I gave her. Ugh! It really bothers me when people do that.Ugh, revenge rating? I hate when people do that. It makes ratings seem not so accurate these days. I’ve never experienced a revenge rating myself, but Nookazon seems filled with those.
As most of you know, I currently live with my dad. He is letting me stay with him for free to save money and leave the state. Unfortunately, my mom is back at it with the negativity. I hate to say it, but I can’t stand being around her sometimes because she always says things like “it didn’t work out last time” or “why don’t you just stay here?” I’ve been wanting to leave for upwards 7 or 8 years, and I’ve been trying to pursue it since graduation. I don’t think that many years is “just a phase.” I blame my own negativity for the reason it didn’t work out the past two times I tried. The negativity from my mom and my uncles were killing my mindset. I actually blocked out my uncles and I haven’t seen them in over 4 years. However, it’s really hard to do that with my mom and somehow it makes me feel wrong to cut contact with her temporarily? It would just be until I get approved for an apartment and moved in. I can’t listen to “when are you coming back” or “you’ll be back where you belong” much longer. I feel this is the right time for the leap of faith. I have a whole month booked in an AirBNB to look for a job and a place, and savings in case I need more time, and for the rent down on a place. I finally have the confidence I need and I don’t want the negativity to bring me down, but I think cutting contact for the beginning of this journey is absolutely necessary.
The negativity got so far into my mindset that I couldn’t even find the motivation to call apartments to attempt to find a place…
Still depressed about things and can't get a good job. There's no point in trying anymore...
Also I realized that people on Nookazon are way too perfect and relying on the 5 star rating. The person who gave me a 1 star review had 133 reviews and all of them were 5 stars and the moment I gave her a 4 star because I was trying to point out the mistake and even though I was being nice and genuine she lashed out. Maybe sometimes people feel "pressured" to give others a 5 star review because if they don't they will start to get what you call "revenge reviews" even though you are being honest and pointed out mistakes that can be improved.Ugh, revenge rating? I hate when people do that. It makes ratings seem not so accurate these days. I’ve never experienced a revenge rating myself, but Nookazon seems filled with those.