• Guest, can you feel the love in the air? Valentine's Week at The Bell Tree has begun with a new mini-event featuring four activities to enjoy -- new and returning collectibles are up for grabs! Dive in to the love here.

Your First Love.

Draco

Advance Wars Grand Master
Joined
Aug 4, 2013
Posts
2,022
Bells
53
Love Tokens
0
Cupid Coins
0
Heart Dust
0
Switch
7661-1167-9999
New Horizons Token
Valentine's Rose
Pavé
White Cosmos
森
Cake
Pear (Fruit)
July Birthstone (Ruby)
ど
May Birthstone (Emerald)
Easter Egg
So Who was it and how did it Happen?Why did it happen? And how did it change you as a person?
Ill share my story soon but was just wondering other peoples story also.
 
Probably some stupid kid infatuation with random boys in my classes when I was like idek 7-9 lol or something.
 
First love was a few years ago when I dated this guy named David, a really handsome upperclassman who was at the top of his class and played football/baseball. He was going to join the US Navy and graduate 1 year early but had to continue school as a senior because of health problems. He's just the type of guy that I am always really attracted to so I developed a huge crush on him during freshman year. In my sophomore year, he asked me out to a haunted house and we dated for several months. We broke up when he left because he became very stressed and busy and he had just recently found out his ex died from cancer and it messed him up a bit. I'm neighbors with his family and I see him drive by every now and then, I guess we're still friends, but I'd be lying if I said that I don't miss him.
 
Excluding random crushes, my first love is my current best friend! I imagine we will stay good friends forever, even if our relationship doesn't develop into anything more. Would rather not go into details, for their sake.
 
I've had crushes on a few girls before, but I didn't really truly fall in love for the first time until earlier this year, and I can only hope that I'll fall out of it soon. Turns out I don't like being in love very much when it isn't reciprocated :p
 
I've had little bursts of infatuation with some boys, when I was like 11/12, but I never properly LOVED someone until I was like 14/15, I think. They were my best friend, and I still consider them one of my best friends, we just broke up due to personal reasons. It's a shame because, I think had my mental health not screwed me over, I would have been dedicated enough to stay with them for a long time. I'm just that kind of person. I still liked them for a very very long time after we broke up too, and that hurt me a lot, we were very uncertain on our feelings for each other for a while but now I guess, there are still some left over feelings (although that's only natural I guess, it's just from the memories), but I don't let that interfere with our friendship anymore.
 
I fell in love twice in my life with two ass holes. the first one took me on a date then said he wouldn't marry me and brought up half assed excuses, the second one turned out to be married and I knew after we spent a lot of time together and I was so blind I stayed with him for 2 weeks after I knew because I'm so stupid, he lied to me about his interests and pretended to have a lot of things in common with me, later he admitted little by little that he basically lied about everything he told me before...just as I thought I've finally found some one who understands me. I hate myself
 
Depends by how you define love. I remember one of my elementary school crushes that some people my consider it love. I consider my first love to be with my soon-to-be husband.

We met when we were sixteen at Dairy Queen, where we both worked part-time. It wasn't until about a year we started talking more, and I developed a crush on him. Unfortunately, that's when he started having a 'fling' with another girl that worked there. That didn't bother me, per se, but I just moved on. I started dating another guy for about three months, and it just didn't work out for me. He was a friend of mine, and I just couldn't see him as a boyfriend vs. the friend.

The fling between the guy at work and the other girl stopped, and we started talking again. Well he started using pick-up lines on everyone, and I found them to be hilarious. We started talking, then flirting, then hanging out. This went on for a few months. I really liked him. Eventually he asked me out.

From there our relationship grew, and two years ago he asked me to marry him. I love him with all my heart, and I can't wait until I can call him my husband.

Essentially I was a girl that was picked up by pick-up lines. At dairy queen.
 
We met in junior year of high school. He was new to my school and by Oct or Nov we had some mutual friends. He said he saw me in the cafeteria and really wanted to get to know me so he added me on facebook. Haha, we were so innocent back then and were our firsts for everything. Still together now over five years later :blush: Yeah, I'd say he changed me as a person; I mean it can't be helped if that makes sense.
 
My first love was with my best friend of high school. In the second year of college we very awkwardly came out with liking each other. I had already come out to her months before then, but didn't really think she would ever date another girl. It's interesting because only around when I came out to her did I start liking her, and it was around the same time she did.

She was the first person I came out to outside of family (and internet lol). She was the first IRL acceptance I got. We were so similar, too. Loving many of the same anime, video games, sharing non-belief in religion, sharing so many views, and loving music and playing the bassoon. I thought she was the one.

...But I guess I was wrong, she broke up with me pretty quickly. So many years later, thinking there was still a chance (there was real reason to believe so a few years ago), I'm now stuck wondering... Does that person even exist for me? =(
 
My first love was when I was like 7 and it was Seto Kaiba from Yu-Gi-Oh 'cause he had not only one dragon but three and how could you go wrong with that
 
My first love was a guy I met when we were both 15. And he's also my current bf so he's my first and only love :lemon:
 
i've had crushes on some boys, but all of them have been jerks to me so I'd say I don't have a first love yet
 
I met my first love more than 4 years ago, when I was 14. We're still together and I'm really happy with him. Both of us hate the same things and we make each other laugh so much. Of course, no relationship is perfect but the important thing is we're both happy.
 
some guy friend in the 2nd grade...didnt do anything to me, and i hardly think about him now


but i don't think i've ever actually been in love...i've had crushes on people, but i've never been in a relationship, so i dont think i've had my first love yet
 
The first girl I liked I began liking when I was 10, and I liked her for over two years, from February 2010 to March 2012. That, over time, proved to be a disaster.
That time I liked her was from towards the end of my 4th grade year to the end of my 6th grade year (the 2009-2010 school year was my 4th grade year, and the 2011-2012 school year was my 6th grade year). However, I knew from the day I began liking her in February of 2010 that it was a long shot. I had only known her for six months (we never met until we were in the same gifted class with the start of the school year in August 2009), and I had hardly talked to her at all during that six month period in 2009 and 2010. And, by the spring of 2010, problems became visible.
First, in April that year, just a month before my 4th grade year ended, I had said something that I shouldn't have said to this guy in my class (it's a long story, so I won't bother going into the details), and that significantly damaged my reputation in the class, and she started being mean to me. Also, around that time, one of her friends came up to me and started talking about how I liked her (even though I had never told anybody since when I began liking her two months earlier), and even though she wasn't around to hear it, it was really weird and awkward as I figured that since I had never told anyone (and never did until after I stopped liking her in 2012), no one would be able to know.
The fact that this had all been happening just two months after I began liking her were signs that a disaster was coming. Although no one confronted me about it for over two and a half years after April 2010, the idea of being in a relationship with her was just becoming more and more out of reach, and that's part of the reason I gave up on her in March 2012. She and I were of different "stereotypes" after all, and eventually, although no one asked me about it between April of 2010 and December of 2012, after I gave up on her, it seems like a lot of people found out. During my 7th and 8th grade years (the 2012-2013 and 2013-2014 school years, respectively), we had Christmas dances at my middle school, and after the one in 2012, this guy came up to me asking if I took her to the dance, and I had to explain to him that I had given up on her nine months earlier, and it was so awkward, bizarre, and annoying...
That wasn't the only crush that ended in a disaster, either.
 
Last edited:
Back
Top