Yeah, I totally agree that the personal attacks on this site have been getting worse lately. I was actually thinking of taking a break for a few days because a lot of the members have been mean and nasty towards me. Just today I got a VM that just said "ARE YOU GAY," nothing else. That was more confusing than insulting, but it's still annoying as heck. Then someone else took something I said to a member in a VM months ago and tried to use it against me. I love this site to death, but I'm afraid not all of the members have been very friendly towards me in the past few months.