Are You Indecisive?

[Dawnpiplup]

Just created this out of curiosity. So, are you guys indecisive? I definitely am. I feel like I often have trouble making decisions, even the smallest ones.

 

[okaimii]

Definitely. I'm that person that takes 20 minutes to decide what I want to eat haha

 

[Sonny Resetti]

Hm... Well, I'm usually decisive. On the other hand... some things I can never decide on.

I guess I can't decide whether I'm indecisive or not.

 

[iovis]

I can't decide whether to pick yes or no...

jk. Yeah, I'm pretty indecisive. I'll spent a week trying to pick a simple choice.

 

[furbyq]

I definitely am! I've heard it's a trait of major depressive disorder, which I have. Of course, I've been indecisive since before I was diagnosed with that disorder.

 

[KaydeeKrunk]

I'm really mad that there isn't an "I'm not sure..." option

 

[Chicha]

A lot, yes. I get that way especially when it comes to ordering food or picking out what to buy when shopping.

 

[glow]

yeah and so is my bf u should hear when we try to go get lunch

"what do u want"
"idk what do u want"
"i chose last time can u pls"
"but idk"
"ok what don't u want"
"uh..."
"ok let's just drive and go somewhere"
"ok where should I drive to"

 

[Iwaseleanor]

yeah and so is my bf u should hear when we try to go get lunch

"what do u want"
"idk what do u want"
"i chose last time can u pls"
"but idk"
"ok what don't u want"
"uh..."
"ok let's just drive and go somewhere"
"ok where should I drive to"

Basically me

 

[Blythetastic]

Sometimes. If I'm not decisive, it's usually over where to eat. If I'm eating alone, it's usually easy to pick. It's when I'm trying to igure out where others want to eat.

 

[visibleghost]

idk i just dont have opinions about everything so thats why idc about stuff. if i have an opinion i tend to not be indecisive.

 

[Darumy]

I used to be, then at one point I basically started forcing myself to make decisions. If people are throwing the "where do you want to eat" ball around, I just throw the first thing that comes into my head out. boy you can't complain. I do tend to just go with whatever I can manage when I can, though. even about major life decisions haha.

I actually get fairly annoyed when people dodge a simple question. I don't take turn-downs personally but I do take wasting everyone's time by not giving me a clear answer somewhat personally. I'm totally okay with people just saying "I don't know" or "I can't decide" too, but no answer kills the man.

I think the side effect of doing this is being incredibly flaky about my decisions. I'm not a reliable person at all, which is a little hypocritical.

 

[AquaStrudel]

YES VERY

 

[mogyay]

I basically haven't made a decision in ten years

 

[Mari-Golds]

hmm i cant decide how to answer this

 

[Daydream]

yeah and so is my bf u should hear when we try to go get lunch

"what do u want"
"idk what do u want"
"i chose last time can u pls"
"but idk"
"ok what don't u want"
"uh..."
"ok let's just drive and go somewhere"
"ok where should I drive to"

Omg the exact same thing happens with me and my gf everytime

 

[nintendoanna]

yeah but only bc i dont wanna pick smth i don't like??? bc then i will complain for years

 

[Rasha]

no I'm not

 

[KaydeeKrunk]

I basically haven't made a decision in ten years

Me af.

 

[seliph]

Yes and I tend to be dependent too which is a really ****ty combination