Bah, another day of resetting and after a while they decide they're not coming. Whelp, eventually, day 7 I believe it is, they'll have to move in because I only have 8 villagers. The 25th should be the 7th day so hopefully they'll decide to move in then because I'm tired of resetting everyday for a dozen times just to have them not come at all.
I reset five times today for my ninth villager: first was a villager I disliked (Annalisa); second was nothing; third was a cute villager (Gala!) but in a spot that would hinder me getting to/from my house easily; fourth and fifth resets had no plots. At that I just decided to stop for the day and began playing normally. So you're not alone!