Do you get more excited giving gifts to people than receiving them?
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Giving, it's more fun looking for gifts when you know what people like and surprise them. 
I don't really like surprises much and I'd rather get money or gift cards unless I specifically asked for something. (Not to sound ungrateful or anything but I had some **** experiences lol)
I don't really like surprises much and I'd rather get money or gift cards unless I specifically asked for something. (Not to sound ungrateful or anything but I had some **** experiences lol)
Halloqueen
Senior Member
I enjoy both giving gifts and receiving gifts in their own ways.
While it can be stressful sometimes trying to find the gift that I expect the recipient will really like, it's worth it when they open it and express their happiness with the item.
As for receiving gifts, I can't deny that I enjoy it.
If I absolutely had to choose one, I'd say that I enjoy giving gifts more than receiving gifts, but it's honestly close. As such, I voted for the third option of liking both equally.
While it can be stressful sometimes trying to find the gift that I expect the recipient will really like, it's worth it when they open it and express their happiness with the item.
As for receiving gifts, I can't deny that I enjoy it.
If I absolutely had to choose one, I'd say that I enjoy giving gifts more than receiving gifts, but it's honestly close. As such, I voted for the third option of liking both equally.
I'd have to say I'm more excited receiving them. It's always nice to receive gifts, especially when it's things I want. Giving gifts is stressful tbh, regardless of whether or not the recipient ends up enjoying the gift I can't help but dread that I'll end up disappointing them in some way.
michealsmells
Professional Lalafell
This question is either a no or the same for both for me. I LOVE giving gifts, don't get me wrong, but I couldn't consider me getting more happy to give them simply because there's SO much anxiety that goes into gift giving for me. Will they like it? Do I know them well enough? Long-term gratification is probably moreso than receiving a gift but I'm an anxious little bundle of goop so I have to say I get more excited when receiving gifts (my standards are low I like getting stuff)
DarkDesertFox
Your Typical Trickster
As a kid, I got more excited receiving gifts since I didn't have the money to get a lot of the stuff I wanted on my own. However, now as an adult with an income, I get more satisfaction out of giving gifts than receiving them.
I am going to be honest.
I am more of a receiver than a giver, and I love the joy of wondering what a wrapped gift is. However, I am at the age now where I mostly want to get money that I can spend as I please. I also do not want to be in a situation where I don't know what to give someone, if I am ever on the giving end, I would probably just give money.
I am more of a receiver than a giver, and I love the joy of wondering what a wrapped gift is. However, I am at the age now where I mostly want to get money that I can spend as I please. I also do not want to be in a situation where I don't know what to give someone, if I am ever on the giving end, I would probably just give money.
Dunquixote
Semi-Hiatus
I haven’t had a job for more than a couple of years, so giving gifts hasn’t honestly been the same as it was when I had the job. I’d normally would say that. Receiving too has been a bit painful since I feel guilty not being able to afford anyone’s gifts on my own and ashamed that I can’t get anyone to hire me yet or find a place where I can function properly.
I have to say, I'm actually quite surprised at the number of people who find giving gifts to be stressful. I don't claim to know the sorts of social or familial circles of anyone on this forum or elsewhere, so pardon me if there are circumstances that may make anything I say irrelevant, but I really don't think you should be worried about whether or not the person really likes what you give them. I can understand if the gift has a very high level of importance or is intended to communicate a very specific sentiment that you don't wish to be misinterpeted. I can also understand if it's a gift that you made yourself, because if they don't like it, that represents more than hurt feelings, but also time and materials wasted. However--and I appreciate that this sounds really cliche--unless the recipient is an actual child, I feel the overwhelming majority of the time, it really is the thought that counts for most people.
Of course, if it's a store bought item, it never hurts to keep the receipt. But I've also learned that someone returning a gift is not a sign of failure, and if anything should be taken as a learning experience. Really, it's not that big of a deal, and I say that as someone who takes very poorly to rejection.
Obviously, this isn't an infallible frame of mind, either. There are definitely times when some gifts are inappropriate to their circumstances or to the person in question. And of course, there are some people who are not very pleasant to give gifts to, whether because they're overtly-sensitive or just entitled brats. But I feel the majority of the time, most people (or at least, adults) have an easier time parsing if a gift was given with good intentions or just apathetically thrown together out of obligation or with ulterior motives.
I'm not under any delusions that my saying this is going to change anybody's feelings, just thought I should share.
Of course, if it's a store bought item, it never hurts to keep the receipt. But I've also learned that someone returning a gift is not a sign of failure, and if anything should be taken as a learning experience. Really, it's not that big of a deal, and I say that as someone who takes very poorly to rejection.
Obviously, this isn't an infallible frame of mind, either. There are definitely times when some gifts are inappropriate to their circumstances or to the person in question. And of course, there are some people who are not very pleasant to give gifts to, whether because they're overtly-sensitive or just entitled brats. But I feel the majority of the time, most people (or at least, adults) have an easier time parsing if a gift was given with good intentions or just apathetically thrown together out of obligation or with ulterior motives.
I'm not under any delusions that my saying this is going to change anybody's feelings, just thought I should share.
Mr_Keroppi
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I love getting gifts and stuff but just.... giving some something is a whole different feeling. I love seeing them so happy and excited!! It brings me great joy for both but I think I love giving more just because of the whole surprise for them and smiles I get!! Either way though we can all agree its kind how everyone does nice things for each other or atleast tries ^^
Absolutely. I'm admittedly difficult to shop for and generally dislike surprises and gifts, but I love the creative aspect of picking out personalized gifts for people and seeing their reaction when they open the package(s). I try to put a lot of thought into the gifts I buy and knowing I surprised someone in a positive way is a really awesome feeling.
I like giving gifts more than receiving them because I’m such a great gift giver. I’m not even trying to be like “I’m the best” but I really am. I always go all out for my gifts and as sad as it sounds I don’t think I’ll ever meet someone that would truly give me a gift (and the meaning behind it) and me be satisfied with it. I would have to gift it to myself and what’s the point in that?
tiffanistarr
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I personally LOVE giving gifts. Christmas is my favorite time of the year because it’s just an excuse to spoil your loved ones. I also pride myself on being an excellent gift giver. Im always listening to what people like so when the time comes, i know exactly what to get. I always try to do thoughtful gifts that they will actually appreciate. However, if people don’t like receiving gifts and they tell me, i will keep that in mind so it’s not awkward for them. Im not huge on getting gifts myself.
Cosmic_Crossfade
•~You are my sun, moon and stars~°
I'm pretty sure one of my love languages is gift giving lol I've always spoiled my family and friends with gifts whenever I felt I could. I try to not overgive mind you, but I would offer a nice gift, pay for dinner, etc. whenever someone needed a hand or not. I feel making memories with those you love is important and that money can't go with you into the next life so give to those who you love or who may need a smile I say.
KittenNoir
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I always get way more excited giving gifts to others especially giving gifts to my husband.
I already have all his xmas gifts ready to placed under the tree when I take it out in December.
I already have all his xmas gifts ready to placed under the tree when I take it out in December.
i get more excited giving gifts, definitely! i’m equally as nervous to do it though as i’m always worried about people’s reactions, if they’ll like the gift, being awkward or weird about it etc, but it always makes me feel good and i love seeing the people i care about happy because i gave them something/did something for them. 
i wish i could give gifts more often.
i love receiving gifts as well and appreciate every one, but i never know how to act then, either.
i always feel so awkward and like no matter what i do, i can never express my gratitude adequately. i could offer my firstborn child, and it still wouldn’t feel like enough LOL.
i wish i could give gifts more often. i love receiving gifts as well and appreciate every one, but i never know how to act then, either.
i always feel so awkward and like no matter what i do, i can never express my gratitude adequately. i could offer my firstborn child, and it still wouldn’t feel like enough LOL.
