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Have you ever liked someone you shouldnt?

ahahah.... yea r e a a al y gr os s on e that scared me for li f e ha a a

god i just regret even talking to him. He's the one reason i can't ever be happy with anything with myself anymore i just fe e l sick and i hear his words just burned into my mind.

Note to anyone dating anyone older: dont ****ing do it you'll regret it trust me i liked him back and he did this to me d o n t. leave.

yeah bluh.
 
Used to hang out with the wrong crowd when I was a teenager. Sometimes I wonder where their lives have gone since then even though it's not difficult to imagine. :p
 
Nope. I can honestly say that I got lucky. I've only ever liked one guy and he hit on me first and now we're together. lol
 
not romantically, i dont like people like that

but ive definitely liked people i shouldnt have liked, mostly friends who treated me really badly but who i liked too much to leave. cant think about any people i like that i shouldnt like atm tho
 
Romantically? Sort of? I didn't realize (or accept) that I was a lesbian until I turned 20, so I spent a lot of time having "crushes" on guys I knew would never really be interested and then lamented why I never had a date. All while side-eyeing my female friends. Oh, youth! Now, it takes a lot for me to actually like (let alone love) someone and I'm pretty busy with more important things than dating, so I tend to be the heartbreaker more than the heartbroken, which isn't really much better.

Friendship-wise...Probably 80% of my friends were/are horrible people. Still working on that, lol.
 
not... really, now that i think about it. if i manned up i would probably be dating that person i like by now, so i guess it isn't much of a shouldn't i prob could but i don't got enough guts.
 
i have a hard time figuring out if i love or just like a person :c
maybe a teacher once but maybe it was just a like? i really don't know
 
I don't like or trust anybody until they give me a reason to do so.

So no, I'm very cautious of people and I only hang out with those who I think are good people unless they prove otherwise.

I have never had any form sexual or emotional attraction to someone because I think people are gross.
 
I've had a few interests but then my thoughts tell me I shouldn't because:
"You're not good enough"
"You don't have a chance"
"Probably taken"
 
I really like my best friend's ex, and I'm getting the sense he likes me back. :eek: He's a rather quiet guy, but he always makes a point to talk to me and he's very sweet towards me. Oh well, looks like I'm going to get over him eventually, but I so wish the circumstances were different. He's the only boy I've ever really liked :/
 
Note to anyone dating anyone older: dont ****ing do it you'll regret it trust me i liked him back and he did this to me d o n t. leave.

I've had the opposite experience actually. My worst boyfriends were always a year or two younger than me and thought they could always "pull" someone hotter than me and ended up cheating on me with two of my friends for half a year before either of them told me. Really shouldn't have liked those losers but what can you do??\_(ツ)_/?
 
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I went for this bad-boy I really thought was my soulmate type of deal instead and he brutally broke my heart lol and thus making me stop being such a dumby and go what was right there in front of me (my boyfriend now). BUT I will say whenever i pursue someone i really shouldn't like, I never know that from the beginning, but I always gain something
 
This is going to be really, really weird... but you asked!

Yeah, I have had crushes on many of my male teachers growing up and also my older managers.. idk I don't think I have daddy issues or anything. I was/am just into older guys.

It's still taboo though and weird lol
 
couldn't: straight girls, gay guys all the time.
shouldn't: the few guys I dated who were a lot older than me and I was still in high school
 
Yeah. I kinda fell for a hoe back in early Autumn.
 
Yes I have. I do regret it but I've moved on from it now. :') In those cases it wasn't really true love anyway - just infatuations / crushes. However, I do *sort of* like someone now who's kind of treated me a little badly, even if unintentional, just messing me about and my feelings and not making it clear how he feels about me. Why do I always get stuck with guys like this?!? I deserve so much better!
 
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