Hi, i just want to post something and get help..

[Yuyunyaw]

Also, does he hang around other girls himself? If he does then tell him I don't want you around other girls then. See how he will react then.

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He does this and you can't talk to guys? oh please. JUST GET RID OF HIM.

i don't talk with boys for myself, he says "i don't like that guy" , for me is something like "get away from him" i only have man friends on internet my only man friend in real life is gay, so.. no troubles with him


I've told him thousand times "i hate when you hang out with other girls" "i hate when you talk with Deli (his ex girlfriend), don't talk with her"

i've blocked her ex girlfriend of his facebook, i hope that works in something

 

[P.K.]

Seriously. Dump him.
That guy is just a ticking time bomb.
Don't wait until the situation gets worse.

 

[Ghost Soda]

i don't talk with boys for myself, he says "i don't like that guy" , for me is something like "get away from him" i only have man friends on internet my only man friend in real life is gay, so.. no troubles with him


I've told him thousand times "i hate when you hang out with other girls" "i hate when you talk with Deli (his ex girlfriend), don't talk with her"

i've blocked her ex girlfriend of his facebook, i hope that works in something

clearly it's not so for the love of madokami JUST DUMP HIM.

 

[penguins]

don't let it escalate into something serious
dump his butt

 

[Yuyunyaw]

clearly it's not so for the love of madokami JUST DUMP HIM.

When i see him again i'll walk about this, we have many problems and we can't find solution to them. and then more problems and more problems and more problems.. (sorry again with my bad english, i have problems with verbs :I )

 

[Ghost Soda]

When i see him again i'll walk about this, we have many problems and we can't find solution to them. and then more problems and more problems and more problems.. (sorry again with my bad english, i have problems with verbs :I )

have you tried talking to him before about things?

 

[Yuyunyaw]

have you tried talking to him before about things?

About other things, yes. but about this.. No, i've saw him 6 days ago (in his birthday) and the last time than we talked.. it was in.. october of last year i think

 

[Ghost Soda]

About other things, yes. but about this.. No, i've saw him 6 days ago (in his birthday) and the last time than we talked.. it was in.. october of last year i think

well in that case talking would be good. but if things don't change then it's best to drop him. just my 3 cents.

 

[Yuyunyaw]

well in that case talking would be good. but if things don't change then it's best to drop him. just my 3 cents.

I know, if the things don't change.. i'ts better to be alone .

 

[Ghost Soda]

I know, if the things don't change.. i'ts better to be alone .

or...y'know, get friends?

 

[Yuyunyaw]

or...y'know, get friends?

sure! i've forgot that, in all ways, i don't like so much have friends of my age (16). all thinking about sex and girls, or things like that (the girls think same things: sex, boys, make up, being beauty or thinks like that) i just wanna play AC and Pok?mon

 

[Punchyleaf]

It sounds like you're in an abusive relationship with a little boy who is very insecure with himself. My mother is currently in the same issue. He always calls her saying she is cheating on him, he blatantly gets other women's phone numbers and calls them / text them in front of her. I've even given her the option of moving in with me if she would just leave him. But it is very very hard emotionally to let the relationship go. But it is better for you in the long run if you do. You deserve someone who cares for you and treats you well and actually treats you like a partner, not a possession.

 

[TheGreatBrain]

I've been with my husband for 20 years. He was very controlling, kept me from having friends, made me feel guilty for visiting my family,or even going to wal-mart.Always thought I would cheat, even though I gave him no reason to believe so.

Things are better now, but I often feel resentful and wonder why I tolerated it for so long.I am often very angry with him and myself for allowing it.

I know that you feel he loves you, but this is not healthy. Maybe you need to take a break for a while. I would say that you should dump him, but I know what you're going through and it's easier said than done. Although, I do think that a break up is for the best. Take care of yourself and don't let him push you around.There are great guys out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. You deserve it.

 

[Tao]

K...I got to page two and decided I had read more than enough about your boyfriend...

i don't have many friends because of him, i don't want troubles.. and for that reason i can't have many friends (man friends exactly. he doesn't trust in me, and for that he think horrible things about me with other guys *cheating maybe.* ) [/COLOR]

No! Bad boyfriend!

Your social life shouldn't be suffering because of his insecurities.

He loves me, but when he's angry he isn't like my boyfriend, he is like.. a devil, or something like that.. I wouldn't find never someone like him when we are okay. thank you so much for the advice . i don't want to be alone in this trouble it hurts so much can't tell to someone my pain and be heard.. thanks so much again

"But he loves me!"

Ahhh...That old line...

Again, he shouldn't be doing this. He shouldn't make you feel like this. He certainly shouldn't be making you have feelings like you're "alone in this trouble", that's the exact opposite of how you should feel in a relationship.

Sorry! i think the same thing. i mean, what type of guy talks with him ex girlfriend when he is angry with his girlfriend? and hang out with other girls?

Exactly.

Even if he isn't cheating on you, he's a massive hypocrite and again, you shouldn't be with him.





At the very least you've got a 'bad boyfriend'. I think most of us will agree you're in an abusive relationship.
Contrary to popular belief, an 'abusive relationship' doesn't just mean he physically hits you. In fact, he doesn't have to hit you at all for it to be an abusive relationship.


Just get rid of him now. Seriously. He doesn't sound like he deserves to be in a relationship in the first place.

 

[Mango]

dump him
shut up and DUMp him

 

[ThomasNLD]

Communication is everything. A relationship can only work when both feel free to be themselves. The fact you have to share this here and can`t discuss/resolve it with your boyfriend is a sad reality.

I think a person has to be at peace with him/herself, before being able to be a good partner for someone else. The way you describe him, doesn`t sound like he is a very balanced individual. I wont tell you to dump him, but if you feel restrained in your relationship, you can`t sit idly by. Life is to precious for that and friendship to valuable.

 

[ellabella12345]

Its obvious you are complaining about him so they're flaws. If you're considering it ending it, then you don't really love him and you know he isn't the best for you. You deserve way more. You are so much better then him. Go show him how strong you are and tell him you want your own ways and want to have you're friends and not be locked up by him controlling and telling you who he doesn't want you talking to and who he doesn't like.

 

[Minene]

ahh he is very abusive. keeping you from friends is already a red flag. no one should be controlling you like that, especially in a relationship. i would honestly go ahead and dump him. you don't deserve it and you've done nothing wrong. i know you may want to discuss it with him first and that's okay, but if he isn't going to change or atleast try to, don't stick around.