obligatory disclaimer: i don't think NH is a bad game. i like it well enough, i just think it's mediocre for an AC game and lacks the charm/character i enjoy so much about older titles.
my biggest complaint with NH has always been the hollow dialogue and lack of charm, especially with how they streamlined things like the post office by replacing it with a tacky card stand -- which actually takes longer to use. the bulletin board is dead as hell compared to even NL, and they even removed things as harmless as goodbye letters and birthday invitations. the game isn't unplayable to me, but as someone who always enjoyed the slice of life aspect over decorating inside or outside, NH really veered too far into being a decorating simulator for me and prioritized that aspect of the series to the point where everything else suffered.
NL struck the right balance for me. i've gone back and played WW recently, and it still has a lot of charm etc. but it lacks things to do for me in the same way NH does. (that and i'm a graphics snob.) NL softened the villagers more, but i'm okay with that as someone with social anxiety and low self-esteem, and they still had more personality than they do in NH. there were also some things you just couldn't change, which echoes real life. house placements, rocks, rivers and cliffs. what you arrive with is what you get, and you have to make something beautiful with the few things beyond your control. idk, it made more sense given the nature of the series. accidental mayor felt just far enough as opposed to unofficial god given how you can now -- with the DLC -- change virtually everything in NH. it almost feels a little like the sims with an animal crossing skin than animal crossing itself, if that makes sense.
Damn. Well said. I agree. And I also don't feel that New Horizons is a bad game. It's just not really Animal Crossing anymore to me. Like a few people including you have said, it really feels more like a really cool and advanced decorating simulator more than anything now. Which has many benefits in a profound and vast amount of ways and is why the game had potential to be legendary to me, but they stripped away the core component of what made the game what it was and was always meant to be in the first place; Spirit/Charm/Soul etc. If they can bring back that initial charm and soul back to the game while maintaining and expanding on the evolutionary aspect of the game regarding more items, abilities, control, etc, then I feel that they would have a game that would literally be considered top 10 best games of all time or something like that.