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Jarrad said:
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How are you feeling today? Like a T, B, G, or S? It must be whatever way the wind blows with you, eh?
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Umm, I don't know whether or not you meant it this way but your comment towards Lovemcqueen comes off as quite rude, at least to me.
 
Jas0n said:
Not quite.

The House of Commons has approved the Marriage Equality bill but it's only on the second reading in the House of Lords. If it passes the third reading in the House of Lords then same-sex marriage will become legal.

They have until the end of July to make a decision, that's assuming that the House of Lords doesn't make any amendments to the bill, in which case it'll have to go back to the House of Commons to be passed by them again. Theoretically it could bounce back and force between houses for a while.

So, same-sex marriage is still pretty far from legal, but it's closer than it's ever been in the UK.
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even then like it doesnt really affect me that much, but any way woo i guess

altho like, i love hopw some dumb people are like "Slippery slope! Polygamy!!" which is like saying eating ham could lead to cannibalism.

and thats dumb anyway because i literally see nothing wrong with polygamy either. and funny the choice wording is polygamy, not polyandry. because the stigma lies with some weird religious sexist dude having 5 wives, rather than a group of individuals being happy in love and supportive of each other.

Jarrad said:
How are you feeling today? Like a T, B, G, or S? It must be whatever way the wind blows with you, eh?
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FUN FACT: Sexuality is fluid, because over time people change in tastes, and explore new genders, body types and fetishes they enjoy.

dont flippantly disregard someone as confused or immature simply because they're being human and changing.
 
Jas0n said:
Not quite.

The House of Commons has approved the Marriage Equality bill but it's only on the second reading in the House of Lords. If it passes the third reading in the House of Lords then same-sex marriage will become legal.

They have until the end of July to make a decision, that's assuming that the House of Lords doesn't make any amendments to the bill, in which case it'll have to go back to the House of Commons to be passed by them again. Theoretically it could bounce back and force between houses for a while.

So, same-sex marriage is still pretty far from legal, but it's closer than it's ever been in the UK.
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Well I'm misinformed then. Politics goes straight over my head.
 
ON A DIF NOTE THO

Would i be weird in saying that ladies are sometimes more fluid/comfy with their sexuality than dudes? Like i know lots of girls that freely dabble around, change, and make exceptions. and i dont see this nearly as much in boys for whatever reason.

This is like a super sweeping generalization but i see it in my personal life quite a bit. like my internet friends change quite a bit, both my sisters have expressed change and stuff, and my two and only best friends have weird sexualities and change n junk. And im the same but i dont really see other boys doing that. idk maybe its just me.

but then again i dont really have any male friends.

or even really know any queer boys.
 
gorgonara said:
ON A DIF NOTE THO

Would i be weird in saying that ladies are sometimes more fluid/comfy with their sexuality than dudes? Like i know lots of girls that freely dabble around, change, and make exceptions. and i dont see this nearly as much in boys for whatever reason.

This is like a super sweeping generalization but i see it in my personal life quite a bit. like my internet friends change quite a bit, both my sisters have expressed change and stuff, and my two and only best friends have weird sexualities and change n junk. And im the same but i dont really see other boys doing that. idk maybe its just me.

but then again i dont really have any male friends.

or even really know any queer boys.
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From what I have seen, this is true. Just from personal experience. I have been intimate with all of my straight girlfriends LOL. I have never seen or heard of my boyfriends or guy friends experimenting with other guys :p

I am sure it's just I haven't seen it though, not that it doesn't happen. Maybe not as often though as with ladies?
 
Jarrad said:
How are you feeling today? Like a T, B, G, or S? It must be whatever way the wind blows with you, eh?
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That post is so old. Why are you bringing it up now? Also, to answer your question I'm feeling G today. I changed again but I have my reasons and it's not because I feel like changing it for fun. I have had complications with my sexuality and religion which is why I changed so much but I'm gay now and forever.
 
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gorgonara said:
ON A DIF NOTE THO

Would i be weird in saying that ladies are sometimes more fluid/comfy with their sexuality than dudes? Like i know lots of girls that freely dabble around, change, and make exceptions. and i dont see this nearly as much in boys for whatever reason.

This is like a super sweeping generalization but i see it in my personal life quite a bit. like my internet friends change quite a bit, both my sisters have expressed change and stuff, and my two and only best friends have weird sexualities and change n junk. And im the same but i dont really see other boys doing that. idk maybe its just me.

but then again i dont really have any male friends.

or even really know any queer boys.
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I notice this a lot in groups, everyone is either rigidly straight or rigidly gay. But in private you get different stories. I know a lot of gays who have had sex with women multiple times, and I had a funny moment with one of my straight housemates. So it happens, they just don't talk about it / do it openly it seems.

Though I know I like both anyway, I notice some days I heavily prefer one gender over another.
 
Jinglefruit said:
I notice this a lot in groups, everyone is either rigidly straight or rigidly gay. But in private you get different stories. I know a lot of gays who have had sex with women multiple times, and I had a funny moment with one of my straight housemates. So it happens, they just don't talk about it / do it openly it seems.

Though I know I like both anyway, I notice some days I heavily prefer one gender over another.
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~*WHACK BALLS FEMINIST/QUEER/GENDER THEORY*~

Because ladies are seen to "have weaker sex drives", aren't men't to instigate sexual contact, or actively pursue men. Or even really demonstrate sexuality, people dont assume they like anything in particular. Hence why sex and the city is considered edgy stuff for american media, and when ladies openly talk about sex toys its funny and cute. People dont really respect female sexuality, so they have a freedom to explore, there's no social pressure of female sexuality, because apparently female sexuality doesn't exist.

Men however are supposedly to have very strong, simple and masculine sexual urges, deviancy or fluidity aren't considered normal. Thus we kind of get a social pressure for men to pursue one form of sexuality, and a set standard of what men should find attractive. Skinny feminine usually white girls with big boobs, anything else is considered a perversion or particular fetish/taste.

And thus when drunk girls make out with their best friends it's nothing serious, but when boys do it's weird.
 
http://www.lohud.com/article/201306...l-H-S-cutest-couple-become-Internet-sensation

I don't know if you guys have seen them, but, they're two of my absolute closest friends. (Known 'em since sixth grade~)
They go to my high school, and seeing them at ball alongside me and my own date made my heart just. die. xD
I live in an area where there are a fair amount of people who are homophobic, and I really think this is a great stride in stopping that~ c:
Just.
They make me so happy, and I love them. c:​
 
Souhaiter said:
http://www.lohud.com/article/201306...l-H-S-cutest-couple-become-Internet-sensation

I don't know if you guys have seen them, but, they're two of my absolute closest friends. (Known 'em since sixth grade~)
They go to my high school, and seeing them at ball alongside me and my own date made my heart just. die. xD
I live in an area where there are a fair amount of people who are homophobic, and I really think this is a great stride in stopping that~ c:
Just.
They make me so happy, and I love them. c:​
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YOU ACTUALLY KNOW THEM? That's awesome!
 
I'm not sure how live this thread is but I'm surprised to find this post on here and I'm glad that I did.
I'm gay and I'm looking for MATURE and FRIENDLY people to add onto my 3DS friends list for Animal Crossing. If you're mature and friendly then please send me a message with your FC and I'll reply with mine. Thanks.
 
Some people I know in person think I'm lesbian. I wouldn't even be surprised if my parents thought that as well. But the weird thing is, any internet friends I have that still think I'm a guy, also think I'm gay. It's like I never have any chances to show off how hetero I can be in any of the said groups. Personally I'll just stick with asexual for now because I'm too young for this.
 
I'm just confused at the moment. I'm not going to push myself to pick a label, even though I know all my friends would be very supportive.

I'm looking for adivice, and I'm sure someone here must have some sort of experience.
My friend is trans* and none of his family are very accepting. The main problem is we go to an all-girls school so I can't really use his prefered pronouns or name, but I do try.
He was outed a few months back, but it never seemed to became a big issue at school 'cause everyone has serious exams at the moment, but then again I probably wouldn't find out 'cause I never hear any of the gossip.
I am being as supportive as possible, using the correct name and pronouns when not at school or his house, and avoiding the wrong ones when the right ones cannot be used.

I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of how I could help him more?
 
chiza said:
I'm looking for adivice, and I'm sure someone here must have some sort of experience.
My friend is trans* and none of his family are very accepting. The main problem is we go to an all-girls school so I can't really use his prefered pronouns or name, but I do try.
He was outed a few months back, but it never seemed to became a big issue at school 'cause everyone has serious exams at the moment, but then again I probably wouldn't find out 'cause I never hear any of the gossip.
I am being as supportive as possible, using the correct name and pronouns when not at school or his house, and avoiding the wrong ones when the right ones cannot be used.

I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of how I could help him more?
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Your doing pretty awesome atm. The best thing you really can do, is just treat the same as before, just with pronoun usage. Being weird and constantly bringing it up, or treating them like a new person is kind of iffy. But yeah, just lots of love, kindness, and pronouns.

If he looks down or bummed though, be extra darling. The first few years of transitioning are extremely rough, especially without family there. And things can go nasty. But tbh your doing pretty stellar.
 
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