just expressing myself since this is the “place your random thoughts” thread and this is a random thought i happen to have, but thank you for your advice. you’re probably right, i know im being irrational and im overthinking stuff, im hyper vigilant as well but i guess that’s how my brain tries to make me “safe”just a heads up, this probably sounds cliche, but no one really thinks, what are you doing here. For the most part, people are open to making new friends only if you are too.
You're not the only one alone. Don't be like me and assume friendships are already established. I made that mistake in school a lot, because I'm pretty shy too, and I thought people didn't want to interact with me. But I'm learning to be more open to people. Just a few days ago I learned you have to invite yourself to these kinds of things and people will most likely naturally accept you.
You might be surprised that others will welcome you when you walk in and introduce yourself. You don't have to join the club if you don't want to. But it could be a chance for you to make new friends. At the very least you'll get to practice meeting new people. And if they do end up hating you (which is very unlikely) you'll prolly rarely see them again and they'll be long gone by the time you're out of that school.
I don't know if you wanted advice from a random stranger on an animal crossing forum, or if you just wanted to express the way you felt. But I feel you and wish you luck whichever way you choose. I believe In you
Yeah, thanks for putting up with my essay lol, nobody really asked for it. but I hope school is getting better for you soon anyway : )just expressing myself since this is the “place your random thoughts” thread and this is a random thought i happen to have, but thank you for your advice. you’re probably right, i know im being irrational and im overthinking stuff, im hyper vigilant as well but i guess that’s how my brain tries to make me “safe”
lolCHANGED MY USERNAME BUT FORGOT THE .GIF PART OF IT NOOO LMAO
This is really good advice! Throughout college I isolated myself a lot and just made assumptions about people wanting to be my friend (even though I had a few people tell me they thought I was cool or nice or whatever... missed opportunity). Recently I started putting myself out there with people from work, asking to do stuff with them or whatever. And they agreed and we had fun! Putting yourself out there is really hard; I was working on it prior to Covid with some schoolmates, but then Covid came along and kind of made me have to start from scratch. But it gets a lot easier, I promise!just a heads up, this probably sounds cliche, but no one really thinks, what are you doing here. For the most part, people are open to making new friends only if you are too.
You're not the only one alone. Don't be like me and assume friendships are already established. I made that mistake in school a lot, because I'm pretty shy too, and I thought people didn't want to interact with me. But I'm learning to be more open to people. Just a few days ago I learned you have to invite yourself to these kinds of things and people will most likely naturally accept you.
You might be surprised that others will welcome you when you walk in and introduce yourself. You don't have to join the club if you don't want to. But it could be a chance for you to make new friends. At the very least you'll get to practice meeting new people. And if they do end up hating you (which is very unlikely) you'll prolly rarely see them again and they'll be long gone by the time you're out of that school.
I don't know if you wanted advice from a random stranger on an animal crossing forum, or if you just wanted to express the way you felt. But I feel you and wish you luck whichever way you choose. I believe In you
i plan to! i honestly don't expect it to be great but i'm still planning to see it!Who's gonna see the Super Mario Bros. Movie next month?
even if the writing is meh honestly the movie is such eye candy for me it prob won't even matter, I whole-heartedly think watching it will make me feel like a kid again hehei plan to! i honestly don't expect it to be great but i'm still planning to see it!
Same here.i plan to! i honestly don't expect it to be great but i'm still planning to see it!