What Brings You Down The Most?

[Cosmic Moonlight]

What is the thing that makes you feel really low and down (In some cases triggers depression if you have it) ?
For me it is definitely people, one individual in particular who I care too much about. Anyway that is not the point, I'm interested in what your guy's criteria are. List as many things as you like, but try to specify the one main thing if there is one.

Dont feel like you have to share! This is a public forum with no rules regarding forceful posting. If you are just here to observe that is perfectly okay too, who knows? You might find something in common with somebody that might make you feel better about the situation anyway ~

 

[visibleghost]

my never ending depression

 

[Kitsuragi]

gravity.
jk, whenever my friends get depressed i also feel a lil depressed with them, especially if it's stuff that you cant help them with. makes you feel pretty bad. i always love being able to help my friends feel happy but sometimes its just not possible.
thats ok though.

 

[Bunnilla]

my ex best friend >: ( she used me, idk I feel like kinda sad, kinda mad, and kinda I deserve better than that sad excuse of a human being .-.

 

[LinkToTheWorld]

I suffer with depression and anxiety, I'm on good medication at the moment but it has its side effects like with anything.
Not sure what sets off a really low mood for me...it could be anything I guess. Just getting up in the morning some days.
I try to avoid people in real life where possible, except for work I don't socialise a lot, so I can't really say making me feel low is down to anybody else. Difficult question for me....

 

[Cosmic Moonlight]

I suffer with depression and anxiety, I'm on good medication at the moment but it has its side effects like with anything.
Not sure what sets off a really low mood for me...it could be anything I guess. Just getting up in the morning some days.
I try to avoid people in real life where possible, except for work I don't socialise a lot, so I can't really say making me feel low is down to anybody else. Difficult question for me....

Awh the fact I can actually relate to this makes me feel sad and happy at the same time. Knowing somebody goes through what I go through is sad to think about, but Im happy that Im not alone. I hope you feel the same way about that too because its true. Oh how true it is. I dont know what triggers me either, its just recently (well I say recently but its been going on for 9 months) that I have had a crush on somebody and well anything they do which is negative or passively aggressive (probably isnt even that but its my anxiety yet again yay) just gives the lowest of the lows. I suppose its good that it is just one main thing that triggers it but it is something that cannot really be solved...

But anyway, if you need somebody to talk to who ACTUALLY knows what its like I am here for you, okay? ~

- - - Post Merge - - -

my never ending depression

Same goes for you too, although you weren't being specific. But I understand why sadly

 

[Alienfish]

my parents when they act like i'm 10 years old or something

 

[thatawkwardkid]

I don't know why but whenever I do the dishes, I get really depressing thoughts, so its why I try to avoid doing the dishes. Its weird.

Also, whenever I think about school or the "friends" I made it also brings me down.

 

[CometCatcher]

Whenever I hear about the news. It's been so depressing lately...sometimes it just hurts my heart, hearing about how hateful the world is. It gets harder every year. I have to remind myself that there is good in the world, even when there doesn't seem to be any left.

 

[Fleshy]

everything but a few things in particular that I won't mention. one thing that really brings me down is my family being upset. Seeing my mum or one of my siblings being really upset or going through a hard time is really upsetting, I wish I could make them happy and content at all times, they're amazing and don't deserve to suffer.

 

[Albuns]

It always makes me sad when I'm not doing anything productive. Whether it is something actually beneficial to my life and future or just accomplishing a task in a game.

 

[Xara]

My depression and anxiety. I feel ridiculous for not being able to do things that I should be able to do, and just..it's really hard, especially when my family (grandmother and father, specifically) make me feel like some sort of freak.

A friend of mine also is really good at bringing me down. Whenever she's upset, it's basically game over for me. And recently she's distanced herself from me, and she hasn't tried to contact me in 3 days. There's also a bunch of other stuff that has happened, such as she's said things to me before that she really shouldn't have (she's told me that I'm unwanted, that I'm heartless, and she even said once that she forgot about me). She says that she says things before she thinks about them, but a part of me can't help but feel there's some sort of truth in what she says. It's a rather toxic friendship, one that I think I'll have to end, since I'm tired of feeling this way. She doesn't make me happy anymore.

 

[Bunnilla]

My depression and anxiety. I feel ridiculous for not being able to do things that I should be able to do, and just..it's really hard, especially when my family (grandmother and father, specifically) make me feel like some sort of freak.

A friend of mine also is really good at bringing me down. Whenever she's upset, it's basically game over for me. And recently she's distanced herself from me, and she hasn't tried to contact me in 3 days. There's also a bunch of other stuff that has happened, such as she's said things to me before that she really shouldn't have (she's told me that I'm unwanted, that I'm heartless, and she even said once that she forgot about me). She says that she says things before she thinks about them, but a part of me can't help but feel there's some sort of truth in what she says. It's a rather toxic friendship, one that I think I'll have to end, since I'm tired of feeling this way. She doesn't make me happy anymore.

omg I know how you feel, she said I'm too weird and awkward for me to have friends, but at least I have an awesome friend now who likes me for who I am and shares a lot of interests with me

 

[himeki]

gravity is what brings me down

 

[Cosmic Moonlight]

gravity is what brings me down

 

[Bowie]

Foreign rain.

 

[Sanaki]

thinking of stuff from 10 months ago and memories that I miss, I get deep into thought and my mood can just snowball easily

 

[Mink777]

Politics brings me down the most.

 

[Kaleidoscopes]

I just have way too much trouble trying to make friends with anyone. Even the few people that have gone out of their way to talk to me I've felt really awkward and nervous talking to to the point where I've sort of just backed out of the conversation and never talked to them again - despite the fact that I am lonely and want to make new friends.

I used to be in a close group of friends, but they all sort of just drifted away from each other and only left me and my best friend who I've also sort of drifted from due to depression and anxiety. It's gotten to the point where I have no plans on going back to them because I have a terrible trend of disappearing for months at a time, reappearing for one or two months, and then disappearing again; and I know they must be getting sick of it or eventually will so I'm just cutting off communications right now so I don't disappoint them any longer and so they can move on and find a better friend than I have been. :/

 

[Mega_Cabbage]

Having to smell or look at food but not being allowed/able to eat it.