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What good advice do you have for fellow forum goers?

Is this thread supposed to be a sarcastic game thread oooor...? Like my god looking at some of the FIRST PAGE REPLIES JESUS. Idk maybe there really was alot more mean people back in the day but, wow.

That said, some of the people here have posted... not such great advice. Or maybe that advice hasn't stood the test of time idk. Yes there will be mean people, yes there will be people who simply do not like your 💫v i b e s💫 (cough me) and yes it really does seem like chibi art style gets EATEN UP here (eaten up as in frequently bought compared to all the other lovely art styles that are featured in the museum shop) but I think some people are blowing those things out of proportion. Except the chibi thing. That isn't out of proportion.

This forum overall has lots of nice people who can engage in 'touchier' topics in a civil way instead of outright being a butt like in other places. Yes there will be those people who are being a butt however you gotta admit it takes a couple of posts. Compare that to somethin like Twitter, full of toxic people ready to start chaos at a moment notice over somethin so stupid and insignificant.

As for actual advice, do NOT come into a thread about a certain 'touchy' topic and derail it with your negative opinion. If you don't agree with that topic there a little somethin called ~ignoring it and moving on with your day~. It really is so annoying when someone makes a thread about somethin and others come in saying 'you're wrong the game is like this I don't support your topic'. It's called imagination and open ended stuff. Not everythin is set in stone. Let people have these things, cause what ends up happening like every. Single. Time. Is that someone says somethin that goes directly against the thread and a bunch of 'drama' starts and the thread has to get closed. Every time. Which is why those threads don't stay popular. If you go into a thread like that people will call you out.

One thing I see newer members do alot is bumping really old threads. Like, 2015 old. Which is technically not a problem unless they bump the 'wrong thread', like a thread asking for advice. You really think that member still needs that particular advice YEARS later? Do you really think that member is still active on tbt? It's really just a pet peeve of mine but still.

Last one, which relates to someone's overall character, people will take notice if you act childish in a bad way. They will notice if you constantly bring down others in threads. They will notice if you make negative threads all the time. I certainly do not mean when someone posts in the 'What's Bothering You' thread alot. They can do that. What I mean is when someone makes thread after thread or post after post of 'this is whats wrong with your thing' 'everything wrong with *subject*' or you straight up complain about a common topic others talk about and call those people ride things, even if dummies.

TL;DR don't say somethin that directly goes against a thread that's supposed to be a positive space. Y'alls know what kind of threads I'm talking about. Please LOOK at what thread you're bumping and see how old it actually is. Don't call people rude things.
 
Just remember that if you get left negative feedback you don't deserve, try not to let it get to you.

Some people are very spiteful, but there are hundreds that know and see the truth.

Remember that it's only a forum, and it only matters what the real people in your life think of you. ^_^
 
the first page replies i- ,, not sure if this thread was meant to be a joke but uh,, i’ll throw my two cents in, anyway lmao. this stuff could probably go unsaid since we’re a smart, kind bunch of folks unlike in 2015, apparently o_0 but;

please be careful about what sorts of personal information you put out on the internet. tbt members are wonderful but there really are some sick people out there who can do awful things with even the simplest of information.

• if a thread or comment of yours doesn’t get much traction, don’t feel discouraged. i know how easy it is to take stuff personally but i promise that no one is intentionally ignoring you - some stuff just gets more attention than others and with how dead the forums have been lately, that holds even more true imo but i promise, your input is valid and appreciated. <3 as long as it’s respectful!

• lastly, this should go without saying, especially since you guys are all wonderful but please, please be kind to others. it can be easy to be mean, especially over the internet, but please remember that words do hurt and even if someone else isn’t being the nicest, that doesn’t mean that you have to stoop down to their level. you can’t control what others do but you can control what you do. :’)
 
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LOL the first page...

I wouldn't participate in all of the surveys on the forums that collect your face/name/where you were born/exact birthday. That's like a recipe for getting doxxed so you should try to be more careful... just my two cents. It takes like one creepy person who has bad intentions to totally find out where you live, who employs you, who your parents are... etc.
 
If you get an infraction don't freak out like I did the first time. Or even the second or third time cause there will always be someone with more warnings/infractions. As long as you're trying your best to follow the rules just know everyone makes mistakes. I've seen friends leave the site after not being able to handle getting in trouble with the mods. Even if you got banned for a few days, it's all good you'll be back soon enough.
 
I didn't state it in my first post, since I forgot, but I agree with what some of previous users said: Everyone should really be careful with what type of personal information they give out on forums (and the internet in general), as that could potentially lead to problems.

PS: If some users don't like it when others bump up old threads, then they should just simply not click on them and abstain from posting in them (the ironic part is that they're only bumping those threads up even further by doing so).
 
bruh the first page of this thread is so damn toxic lmao 💀

I know this place was pretty bad in terms of politics and stuff back in 2015/2016 and I'm so glad to see that all the rude ppl have left and this place is quite pleasant to visit now.


one piece of advice I can give is don't let people here get to you. someone here said that people who reply in Brewsters Cafe all the time are really rude, but then that person also called themselves a ***** so? that kinda answers that question lol. I personally spend like 90% of my time here lurking in Brewsters Cafe and The Basement nd I wouldn't say I have a rude bone in my body (unless we talkin about my dad) :)
 
- be kind :)
-be wholesome :D
- cover yourself in oil

actual advice: this isnt directed at the person who bumped this thread but please be aware or what you are bumping. i wouldnt advise bumping a thread with sensitive topics such as abuse back up (which has happened before) or mental health threads from years ago. i saw a thread come up from half a decade ago where someone vented heavily about their issues asking for advice on what to do and if theyre a monster. it got bumped with "..." by a newer user. why? wtf good r u
also, villagers arent worth 280 TBT. dont do what i did
 
LOL the first page...

I wouldn't participate in all of the surveys on the forums that collect your face/name/where you were born/exact birthday. That's like a recipe for getting doxxed so you should try to be more careful... just my two cents. It takes like one creepy person who has bad intentions to totally find out where you live, who employs you, who your parents are... etc.
I had someone here try to get my address multiple times. :(
 
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wow blast from the past

for anyone wondering, yes 2013-2015 or 16ish tbt was absolutely cutthroat
 
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the first page, oh my goodness. well im glad to see its changed !! this is the nicest platform ive ever been on and im thankful to be here.
 
wow blast from the past

for anyone wondering, yes 2013-2015 or 16ish tbt was absolutely cutthroat

Your original post from 2015 is extremely underrated.

you're most likely going to get unjustified and anonymous hate no matter what you do, so instead of caring about what people are saying, take a step back for a moment and realize that most of the hate is coming from raging, hormonal tweens.

:lemon:
 
That first page-

I don't have that much advice, but I'd say for sure to be yourself on the forums! And, don't be afraid to comment on a thread or anything of the liking. I know I was intimidated at first, but there's actually super kind people here!

Along with the fact of, don't share too much personal information. :)
 
Stay hydrated, eat well, wash your hands.
If you aren't sure how something works or what someone prefers, ask so you don't end up being a derp.
 
the first page, oh my goodness. well im glad to see its changed !! this is the nicest platform ive ever been on and im thankful to be here.

lol. I do like the OP's use of "dinglefricks." I think back in my mom's era, the Silent Generation, they were called dinglefritzes. lol.

Which reminds me...Gen Z uses a lot of new slang I've had to catch up on. I see it a little less here than some other places, but for example, a hot dog/gun is called a "glizzy," "dead***" means serious, "no cap" means no lie, "I got drip" means the person thinks they are attractive (I thought it meant they had a disease of some sort)...I'm always Googling these terms when I have to Discord with this generation. :ROFLMAO:
 
lol. I do like the OP's use of "dinglefricks." I think back in my mom's era, the Silent Generation, they were called dinglefritzes. lol.

Which reminds me...Gen Z uses a lot of new slang I've had to catch up on. I see it a little less here than some other places, but for example, a hot dog/gun is called a "glizzy," "dead***" means serious, "no cap" means no lie, "I got drip" means the person thinks they are attractive (I thought it meant they had a disease of some sort)...I'm always Googling these terms when I have to Discord with this generation. :ROFLMAO:
yes, less slang here since its actually very tame. most slang we use are highly inappropriate haha. "drip" means more like ur fit (fit being an abbreviation for outfit, its kind of slang too) being good/cool.
 
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