What's Bothering You?

[Dawnpiplup]

I feel like my mental and physical health are slowly shattering apart. Even my mum is constantly asking me if I'm okay lol and I don't think I'm the type that is visibly depressed. I don't think I am?? I'm just really tired all the time and have little energy...which is also a symptom of stress/depression/anxiety. It's also like don't be concerned for me because you're making me concerned for me ^^" I'm going to the doctor next week in hope that there can be something to help me feel less tired because it's effecting every area of my life right now; uni because I NEED to do stuff but can't because I'm sleepy all the time and work because I'm unfocused and tired. And all this just ends up effecting my physical health as my stomach and jaw are so sore ><" I don't know what to think anymore, I just wanna get on with life lmao

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope the doctor's appointment goes well. Just do the best that you can for now, and try and take things easy. I'm here if you wanna talk. Hope things get better <3

 

[Heyden]

I am pretty sure that it is working, he just doesn't want to try out to make it work. Literally ignoring all the help I provided. He just changed his mind and doesn't want it anymore and now trying to blame me for it.. u.u

I did via Paypal, he sent it with the friend option, so I don't know how it would work for that. He also went directly from "I send it back and you give me my money" to "Okay, I'll sue you then. Have fun".. .-.

I mean, if he really wants to go to court for 50€ on a item where he didn't even accept to try out my tips to "make it work", then sure, he can. If he at least tried my tips I would've accepted, but he simply didn't want to make it work. :|

Yeah, it does seem like he's not being entirely truthful. Sending money via friend and family immediately voids any PayPal buyer/seller protection, so I don't think there's anything that they can do to intervene unfortunately, even if you explain the situation. For future reference, just remember to always only accept via merchant payment (unless you're dealing with of course, trustworthy friends and family), and if they do send via F&F, then refund it. I know the merchant payment costs a fee for you, but it's always better to be safe.

If I was in your shoes, I would just ignore him if he's unwilling to cooperate as he clearly has nothing to prove. But I would contact PayPal anyway, just say you didn't know he paid via F&F or something if you're a relatively new PayPal user, but it really depends on whoever you receive for customer service, and it does take a little while.

 

[MelloDimensions]

I used to smoke quite a bit back in the day...thankfully it never turned into something long-term. I still have a smoke once in awhile though.

Congratulations

I quit 3 years ago

 

[Alienfish]

Kinda graphic, but I just watched a video where someone poked a fake squishy eye with a needle, injected weird stuff into it, and then cut it open with scissors.

Apparently it's supposed to be satisfying?? It just creeped me tf out lol #halloweeniscominearlyyall

Knowing it was fake doesn't bothering me but I wouldn't wanna watch surgical processes lol... those are icky.

Also this mmo game I'm playing is being real buggy cause the /join command refuse to work properly.

 

[Midoriya]

I feel like my mental and physical health are slowly shattering apart. Even my mum is constantly asking me if I'm okay lol and I don't think I'm the type that is visibly depressed. I don't think I am?? I'm just really tired all the time and have little energy...which is also a symptom of stress/depression/anxiety. It's also like don't be concerned for me because you're making me concerned for me ^^" I'm going to the doctor next week in hope that there can be something to help me feel less tired because it's effecting every area of my life right now; uni because I NEED to do stuff but can't because I'm sleepy all the time and work because I'm unfocused and tired. And all this just ends up effecting my physical health as my stomach and jaw are so sore ><" I don't know what to think anymore, I just wanna get on with life lmao

Hope you feel less tired/better soon, Nessa. I know I?ve felt like that before and it?s not fun... :/

?-

I got only four or five hours of sleep because apparently my roommate had to have their alarm set for the morning on a Sunday... anyway, what I really wanted to say was that last night I felt like I couldn?t be happy or sad and I had a breakdown, but my friends were there to comfort me, my real friends. I don?t know what I would do without them. I?m feeling better, but I?m going to be on a semi-hiatus and probably not long into the forums much for awhile. I honestly don?t feel like there?s a reason for me to be here now and that it would be better if I buzzed off. So that?s exactly what I?m going to do starting today. I?ll be back to being active again when I feel like it.

 

[Oldcatlady]

It’s snowing so much already even though it’s only September. Transit is late //facepalm

 

[Chris]

It’s snowing so much already even though it’s only September. Transit is late //facepalm

Boo. Snow is the worst.

 

[Psydye]

Hope you feel less tired/better soon, Nessa. I know I?ve felt like that before and it?s not fun... :/

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I got only four or five hours of sleep because apparently my roommate had to have their alarm set for the morning on a Sunday... anyway, what I really wanted to say was that last night I felt like I couldn?t be happy or sad and I had a breakdown, but my friends were there to comfort me, my real friends. I don?t know what I would do without them. I?m feeling better, but I?m going to be on a semi-hiatus and probably not long into the forums much for awhile. I honestly don?t feel like there?s a reason for me to be here now and that it would be better if I buzzed off. So that?s exactly what I?m going to do starting today. I?ll be back to being active again when I feel like it.

Good luck, man!!

 

[Alienfish]

Boo. Snow is the worst.

I want it for christmas otherwise it can **** off yes.

also autumn is worse with all the rain and wind and you idk how to dress up

 

[MelloDimensions]

Boo. Snow is the worst.

But Snow isn't a mod on here.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

Still waiting on the landlady to fix something, even though she doesn't know what she's doing.

 

[Dim]

September is almost over. It STILL won't cool down. ;(

 

[Psydye]

Why is it that any time a male and female character get along so well that people automatically assume they're in love or something? Jesus ****ing Christ...I hate humanity!

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

Why is it that any time a male and female character get along so well that people automatically assume they're in love or something? Jesus ****ing Christ...I hate humanity!

Pairing Jessie and James from Team Rocket is called Rocket Shipping.

 

[Zane]

Pairing Jessie and James from Team Rocket is called Rocket Shipping.

one of the worst ships ever
just stating my onion LoL

 

[Dim]

.,'

 

[Dawnpiplup]

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I hope you feel better, Riley. Take care of yourself, alright? <3 I'll be thinking of you.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I was reminded today about how close my friendships were with two of my old friends back in 2008-2015 and now I really miss those times. I feel like I haven't had a close relationship with anyone, in person, who's non-family in forever, and it just emotionally drains me so much. I can't handle this loneliness any longer.

 

[Dim]

I was reminded today about how close my friendships were with two of my old friends back in 2008-2015 and now I really miss those times. I feel like I haven't had a close relationship with anyone, in person, who's non-family in forever, and it just emotionally drains me so much. I can't handle this loneliness any longer.

I feel this so hard... both mutuals and old classmates. And like... I tried to speak to them again but they hardly are happy to see me. Some hardly remember me...

 

[Stella-Io]

Spoiler: This got, really long

How are people productive while working nearly 40 hours a week? I get 2 days off a week and those days I wake up late and do nothing. As great as it is that I finally have more hours at work, it sucks because it makes me crankier with constantly dealing with customers day after day. The pain in my upper shoulder blade neck area hurts more and more with each continous days of work. One day off after working six in a row doesn't aliviate all the pain there, so the cycle starts again. Rubbing/hard massaging (I like hard massaging) the area isn't helping like it used to, in fact it doesn't help at all anymore. If I complain my manager pushes it off and doesn't want to hear it. Or he'll say that because I'm young I shouldn't be tired. Like, young people get tired as well.

Not only that but I feel like I waste my days off by not being productive. I should clean my room, start on some drawings and organize my desk. But on my days off I don't want to do that stuff because it's basically a chore, and I don't want to spend my off days doing boring chores. At the same time I feel bad for not doing it because I really should get to it, I don't get alot of time to do stuff for myself. It's hard for me to stick to schedules that aren't part of my minor OCD, and waking up early is another thing I hate. Even thou it would allow me to have more time in my day to do basic boring tasks, I can't bring myself to set an alarm on my day off to do somethin as mundane as chores. I just do not want to wake up to that. Alarms and nothing to look forward to in my day.

The worse part of it all, the near 40 hours is temporary. I only have that many hours because I'm covering for someone who is out for joint pain and I'm one of the only other front service clerks who knows how to close. That and my schedule is usually (was) wiiiide open, which work has used to its advantage multiple times.

TL;DR Basically I feel bad for not doing terribly boring and mundane chores I have zero interest in (besides drawing) that I should be doing on my rare days off from work.