What's Bothering You?

there’s this person i know who has made it very clear that they don’t like me, and i literally can’t figure out why lol. it’s completely valid, sometimes you just don’t vibe with a certain person, but i’m pretty sure we’ve never interacted, so... i’m not sure how i’ve given them a reason to dislike me. i’ve tried to be nice to them and break the ice, but they continued to ignore me. it’s not really a big deal, but them acknowledging literally everyone else around us while completely ignoring my existence kinda hurts. i don’t think i deserve that. :/

i wish they would just tell me if i’ve done something to upset them so that i can try and fix it. if i haven’t actually done anything and they just... don’t like me, that’s fine, but the least they could do is acknowledge that i exist? them ignoring me is honestly starting to make me uncomfortable and create a hostile environment, because they’re so obvious about it. like please just communicate with me lol.
 
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xara said:
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I felt this on a personal level. I would like everyone to like me, but that’s just not how life works. Sometimes the dislike is justified, but sometimes it just isn’t. You can’t change how someone feels about you. Ignoring hurts more than being openly disliked, because at least when you’re being disliked they’re showing you attention and acknowledging you. Being ignored just seems like you aren’t real… That isn’t a good feeling. It sucks feeling detached from reality.

I’d try not to show that it bothers you, but I understand how hard it can be to hide it. If they’re being obvious about it, I’m sad to say they are likely looking for a reaction. I’d love for the people that dislike me just remain cordial with me, but I understand people are just going to feel some type of way.
 
Croconaw said:
I felt this on a personal level. I would like everyone to like me, but that’s just not how life works. Sometimes the dislike is justified, but sometimes it just isn’t. You can’t change how someone feels about you. Ignoring hurts more than being openly disliked, because at least when you’re being disliked they’re showing you attention and acknowledging you. Being ignored just seems like you aren’t real… That isn’t a good feeling. It sucks feeling detached from reality.

I’d try not to show that it bothers you, but I understand how hard it can be to hide it. If they’re being obvious about it, I’m sad to say they are likely looking for a reaction. I’d love for the people that dislike me just remain cordial with me, but I understand people are just going to feel some type of way.
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thank you for responding. ♥️ i really want everyone to like me, too, though i know it’s unrealistic. but it’s not even the fact they don’t like me that’s messing with me, it’s that i don’t know why. we’ve never interacted, and i don’t think i could’ve done or said anything that upset them, so i’m honestly confused lol. i’m not the type of person to dislike someone for no reason, so i can’t understand them disliking me for seemingly no reason. makes no sense to me.

i’m doing my best to just go about my business, but being ignored definitely does hurt. my instinct is to be nice and try to be friends with everyone, and this person hasn’t even given me a chance. i wish they would just communicate with me, letting me know if i did do/say something that upset them, or if they just don’t like me. or at the very least, i wish they would be cordial to me. i’m not asking for us to be friends, but some decency and them not pretending i don’t exist would be nice lol. oh well.
 
I really love Christmas, but it feels like this year I’m the only person in my family who’s excited about it. We used to be the family that went all out every year for every holiday, but one wrong thing happened after another, and now everything’s just off. I’m trying my hardest to keep the magic alive but I’m only one person. I don’t know what to do.
 
my grandma: *sees that i tried press on nails for the first time* “your nails are ugly!”

me: “well it doesn’t matter what you think.”

my grandma: 51B1AD6F-3F76-4E4E-A4B7-1087E541BFE5.png*gets offended*

this is how 95% of our arguments happen, she can insult me whenever she wants for no reason but i can’t defend myself.
 
Sometimes I truly hate the person I've become.

Years ago, probably 10 years ago, I used to be so different. I used to be organized, motivated, tidy, and willing to learn.

Nowadays it feels like I'm a different person. I'm disorganized, extremely forgetful, untidy and have no real goals in life.

I don't know what's caused the change. Was it me not achieving my goals in the past that's made me not care? Was it because I was under so much stress at the time that it changed me? Was it because I unwillingly changed my mindset?

I've been searching for so long to find out what's wrong with me. Do I have ASD? Do I have a bit of ADHD? Do I have executive dysfunction? Or is my anxiety the root cause of everything. Has my anxiety truly ruined my life? Maybe it has. I'm just lost at this point.
 
random tangent, but people who make fun of tone tags weird me out. why is a simple accommodation so funny?
sorry I have problems with tone?
been seeing a lot lately. . . super annoying, like just me let exist.
 
xara said:
there’s this person i know who has made it very clear that they don’t like me, and i literally can’t figure out why lol. it’s completely valid, sometimes you just don’t vibe with a certain person, but i’m pretty sure we’ve never interacted, so... i’m not sure how i’ve given them a reason to dislike me. i’ve tried to be nice to them and break the ice, but they continued to ignore me. it’s not really a big deal, but them acknowledging literally everyone else around us while completely ignoring my existence kinda hurts. i don’t think i deserve that. :/

i wish they would just tell me if i’ve done something to upset them so that i can try and fix it. if i haven’t actually done anything and they just... don’t like me, that’s fine, but the least they could do is acknowledge that i exist? them ignoring me is honestly starting to make me uncomfortable and create a hostile environment, because they’re so obvious about it. like please just communicate with me lol.
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I’ve encountered people like that on Discord who are clearly ignoring me and seem to hold a grudge even though I didn’t do anything to them personally. Although in your case maybe they don’t know what to say. That’s entirely possible.

Reaching out to them on the subject might be a good idea if you have the chance.
 
My legs are killing me. I mean they hurt this morning some, but I needed to clear out some stuff and dust today and now they really hurt, and one swelled some on me 🙄. I can't wait for winter to end. I know it's still "fall" but it is winter weather now and the trees have been bare for a couple weeks now. They hurt less in warm weather. There's other thoughts about my legs, but no point in going there.
 
I feel a lot more detached from everyone on the forums and a lot of my friends aren't active anymore. It makes me sad to realize I'm not a regular anymore😔
 
tessa grace said:
I feel a lot more detached from everyone on the forums and a lot of my friends aren't active anymore. It makes me sad to realize I'm not a regular anymore😔
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god this is so relatable :[ i used to be alot more active back in 2020 but a lot of stuff went down and i went inactive this year and was less active last year, and now things are just so different and it kinda sucks
 
garbagetosaka said:
god this is so relatable :[ i used to be alot more active back in 2020 but a lot of stuff went down and i went inactive this year and was less active last year, and now things are just so different and it kinda sucks
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omg traumatized twins🥰 but fr, I really wish the site was as active as it was when I first joined. I also wish I wasn't depressed, that would probably help lol. I used to be so invested in events and I can hardly bring myself to get the patch collectible.
 
tessa grace said:
omg traumatized twins🥰 but fr, I really wish the site was as active as it was when I first joined. I also wish I wasn't depressed, that would probably help lol. I used to be so invested in events and I can hardly bring myself to get the patch collectible.
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dam im depressed too i guess we're in the same boat 😭
 
looks like my phone has finally kicked the bucket. put it on charge last night, woke up today to find that it won't turn on whatsoever. (yes, i've tried all the button combinations.) the green light indicating that it's fully charged is on, even off the charger, but the display itself isn't responding. nothing happens when i connect it to my laptop either. fun! last resort is just to leave it off-charge and see if the green light eventually disappears, then try putting it back on a charger, but i doubt it'll do anything, and god knows how long that would take anyway even with my ballsed battery.
 
Mustard is (typically) not white

It does not go on bread white and soggy

It does NOT taste like someone dipped the mayo knife into tuna and used that to spread the mayo on bread either
 
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