It's probably a really unhealthy way to look at things, but there are so many ways that I feel like an "other" all at once that it's no wonder I feel out of place. Asexual, aromantic, don't want kids, not trans but don't feel socially connected to my gender at all, estranged from family, more of an old-school nerd than anything, and just to add to the pile I have a really disruptive sleep disorder that typically just affects blind people, but in sighted people mostly affects men. I get that every person is different, but geez, man, how different did I need to be?