What's Bothering You?
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thats actually a really good idea, ill try that! thank you
Katzenjammer
♫Cat that Jams♫
Just a minor annoyance, but my throat is super duper dry due to the heater running so much lately and allergies, and I hate that "sore throat but not a sore throat" feeling and it's so foggy I can't see across the street as of really early today around 5pm or so, wow.
Every autumn/winter I feel dizzy and horrible every day 
They're my favorite seasons, but I don't feel well at all every single day for months now. Yet in the summer, I feel mostly alright, so this is definitely a seasonal issue. I've been much less productive lately than in the summer because of this.
Not sure what's up given that I've already been to a sinus specialist before and they don't know why this happens. I guess maybe it's not sinus related and could be allergies or something else? Would be nice to know
They're my favorite seasons, but I don't feel well at all every single day for months now. Yet in the summer, I feel mostly alright, so this is definitely a seasonal issue. I've been much less productive lately than in the summer because of this.Not sure what's up given that I've already been to a sinus specialist before and they don't know why this happens. I guess maybe it's not sinus related and could be allergies or something else? Would be nice to know
There is a drip coming from my bedroom ceiling and I don't know where it's coming from. My upstairs neighbor says it's not them and both the landlord and building owner won't answer their phones so there's literally nothing I can do. I hope it's something they can fix without coming into my apartment bc I'm immunocompromised and TERRIFIED of covid but that's not usually how life goes for me. 
Reginald Fairfield
Senior Member
Maybe if you lay down some paper towels you can see where to put a bucket.There is a drip coming from my bedroom ceiling and I don't know where it's coming from. My upstairs neighbor says it's not them and both the landlord and building owner won't answer their phones so there's literally nothing I can do. I hope it's something they can fix without coming into my apartment bc I'm immunocompromised and TERRIFIED of covid but that's not usually how life goes for me.
I have a bucket underneath but I'm worried about mold, sewage, etc in the ceiling.
I dunno. Just sad I guess 
I’m okay and I should probably just go write in my journal but it’s not in my room right now.
I’m just sort of bummed sometimes about being gay. I know, I know, supposed to love yourself and ****. But sometimes it sucks. I know my dads homophobic. I know I’ll lose him when I come out. And it sucks because my mum was just ... not a mum so when I lose my dad I just I won’t have any family. And it sucks. It always pops up more around the holidays because I love him and I love Christmas and it sucks knowing one of these Christmas’ is gonna be the last.
“Maybe it’ll be different when you come out!” It won’t be. I don’t want to get into it but I know that it won’t be.
There’s also that part of me that’s upset about being gay because it’s just so tiring. I mean I look straight so it’s not like people homophobic towards me out of the blue but it’s just like. “So, when are you getting a boyfriend?” “Any boys in your life yet?” “Oh you’ll understand when you have a husband.” Just having being straight be the default assumption is so tiring.
Not truly knowing how people will treat you if they knew you were gay is tiring too. I worked a job once where my coworkers were generally lovely but they would let homophobic comments and slurs slip out. We’re a small town, it’s common. Every time it happened though it would just make me freeze and be like “ah. Right. Forgot for a moment that’s how you feel.”
My previous job I worked at a Christian preschool that catered to rich folks. I know there would’ve been a stir if people knew a lesbian was teaching their kids because that’s just how some people are.
It sucks. Sometimes it just really sucks. And so many people think LGBT+ rights have come so far in Canada that we don’t need to worry or have a conversation about things anymore. But that’s not the case. Especially not in small towns.
When I was still in school and coming to terms with my sexuality it was terrifying. I never went to sleep overs or hugged my friends out of fear that like... they’d notice something was off about me. It’s been isolating and that’s on me but I would intentionally distance myself from people because I was afraid they’d realize I wasn’t the same as them.
I’m just tired. Nothing to be done about it I just needed to write it out.
I’m okay and I should probably just go write in my journal but it’s not in my room right now. I’m just sort of bummed sometimes about being gay. I know, I know, supposed to love yourself and ****. But sometimes it sucks. I know my dads homophobic. I know I’ll lose him when I come out. And it sucks because my mum was just ... not a mum so when I lose my dad I just I won’t have any family. And it sucks. It always pops up more around the holidays because I love him and I love Christmas and it sucks knowing one of these Christmas’ is gonna be the last.
“Maybe it’ll be different when you come out!” It won’t be. I don’t want to get into it but I know that it won’t be.
There’s also that part of me that’s upset about being gay because it’s just so tiring. I mean I look straight so it’s not like people homophobic towards me out of the blue but it’s just like. “So, when are you getting a boyfriend?” “Any boys in your life yet?” “Oh you’ll understand when you have a husband.” Just having being straight be the default assumption is so tiring.
Not truly knowing how people will treat you if they knew you were gay is tiring too. I worked a job once where my coworkers were generally lovely but they would let homophobic comments and slurs slip out. We’re a small town, it’s common. Every time it happened though it would just make me freeze and be like “ah. Right. Forgot for a moment that’s how you feel.”
My previous job I worked at a Christian preschool that catered to rich folks. I know there would’ve been a stir if people knew a lesbian was teaching their kids because that’s just how some people are.
It sucks. Sometimes it just really sucks. And so many people think LGBT+ rights have come so far in Canada that we don’t need to worry or have a conversation about things anymore. But that’s not the case. Especially not in small towns.
When I was still in school and coming to terms with my sexuality it was terrifying. I never went to sleep overs or hugged my friends out of fear that like... they’d notice something was off about me. It’s been isolating and that’s on me but I would intentionally distance myself from people because I was afraid they’d realize I wasn’t the same as them.
I’m just tired. Nothing to be done about it I just needed to write it out.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Gross. ****ing gross. I hope you get a hold of your landlord or someone soon so they can fix the issue. I'm a germaphobe myself, so I can understand how you're feeling. Though I hope you'll stay safe love ❤
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I dunno. Just sad I guess
I’m just sort of bummed sometimes about being gay. I know, I know, supposed to love yourself and ****. But sometimes it sucks. I know my dads homophobic. I know I’ll lose him when I come out. And it sucks because my mum was just ... not a mum so when I lose my dad I just I won’t have any family. And it sucks. It always pops up more around the holidays because I love him and I love Christmas and it sucks knowing one of these Christmas’ is gonna be the last.
“Maybe it’ll be different when you come out!” It won’t be. I don’t want to get into it but I know that it won’t be.
There’s also that part of me that’s upset about being gay because it’s just so tiring. I mean I look straight so it’s not like people homophobic towards me out of the blue but it’s just like. “So, when are you getting a boyfriend?” “Any boys in your life yet?” “Oh you’ll understand when you have a husband.” Just having being straight be the default assumption is so tiring.
Not truly knowing how people will treat you if they knew you were gay is tiring too. I worked a job once where my coworkers were generally lovely but they would let homophobic comments and slurs slip out. We’re a small town, it’s common. Every time it happened though it would just make me freeze and be like “ah. Right. Forgot for a moment that’s how you feel.”
My previous job I worked at a Christian preschool that catered to rich folks. I know there would’ve been a stir if people knew a lesbian was teaching their kids because that’s just how some people are.
It sucks. Sometimes it just really sucks. And so many people think LGBT+ rights have come so far in Canada that we don’t need to worry or have a conversation about things anymore. But that’s not the case. Especially not in small towns.
When I was still in school and coming to terms with my sexuality it was terrifying. I never went to sleep overs or hugged my friends out of fear that like... they’d notice something was off about me. It’s been isolating and that’s on me but I would intentionally distance myself from people because I was afraid they’d realize I wasn’t the same as them.
I’m just tired. Nothing to be done about it I just needed to write it out.
No one should have to go through that. I am sincerely sorry. I know one person specifically in my life who's been bashed for her sexuality (she's a lesbian), and I think it's heartbreaking. Just know that at least you are welcome here on the forums - I'm sure the Mods (and other members as well) will go into ass-kicking mode if someone were to target you on here due to your sexuality. <3 Stay strong.
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Reginald Fairfield
Senior Member
A coworker that could pass for a meth head keeps making me uncomfortable. Keeps touching me.
Yikes. Did you tell a higher-up?
Reginald Fairfield
Senior Member
Yep, happened after.
KittenNoir
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ATheBuoy42
Refined Trash
That is honestly so frickin heart breaking, I'm sorry. Y.Y I hope the kitty gets well. It sucks that these things happen, we can only hope to give our loved pets all the care they deserve in their life.
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What's bothering me is I'm having anxiety attacks over nothing I can control right now and I just want to sleep.
Reginald Fairfield
Senior Member
Did I know you?
you and me both...
anyway, update on that neopet. i traded with another person now for that pet and they will adopt another tomorrow. i'm sorry but i'm not waiting several days for a simple reply when i didn't even say UFA from the beginning and if stuff happens least that og dude could do is let me know. jeez.
