What's Bothering You?

There’s a really cool breeze and I’m cold. I wish it was later in the day so it would warm up.
 
I have a weird unfair/unreasonable feeling that I don’t “deserve” to be bi or maybe even romantically/sexually inclined at all because I’m really thinking and I’m not seriously crushing on anyone from characters to celebrities. I should be excited to see some of them. I also have some dysphoria tonight. Less than before, at least that’s progress.
 
Thanks for your input guys. I have poor social skills so I realize I cross the line sometimes, and my boss is a control freak so I never know if he's being reasonable or not 🥴 Or conversely, if I'm being reasonable lol.

It's a bit different in my industry since I'm in construction/contracting, and we're very casual between each other, but I have to remember to be a bit more formal with external clients/suppliers.
 
I need to quit obsessively checking social media. It’s made me feel like garbage for days. Keeping my phone in another room might help…
 
Yeah, that’s a tough one. I’m not sure how Pinterest even works, but typically with social media platforms you can search a person’s name and they’ll pop up — granted, it’s not a fake name, weird punctuation or something. It wouldn’t be out of the ordinary to find someone this way, but I think it’s different with Pinterest unless she has a real name attached to it.

In this situation I would have asked her if she had any social media accounts and just obtained the link that way. I’d hate to come off as creepy, so I wouldn’t just message someone out of the blue on an account that can’t be connected to someone’s real name, unless it was given to me. As like you said, how would you have found it?

Anyway, hope it’s not as awkward for you and it goes well.
 
Niantic sneakily raising PoGo in-game coins prices for Sweden and a number of other regions and countries. Like.. come on I doubt you are doing that bad and raising prices just because everything else is inflated wtf.
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i wish my friends would stop making fun of my speech impediment :(
Ugh.. this absolutely sucks. I have some articulation problems with some languages/words and people just need to stop :(
 
i seem to have a reading issue lately. I can't ever get it right when reading the first time. I keep miss understanding. Guess its what I get for having a disability.
 
i wish my friends would stop making fun of my speech impediment :(
Have you told them this? Some people think that because they're your friends that they can get away with things, not realising that they're actually hurtful. It's always worth addressing if it's making you feel bad.

My girlfriend's solution to this one is to raise it before the other person can. On our first date she asked me to get her a pint of the Caribbean Rum Cask—it's the letter R she has difficulty with—then immediately commented on her pronunciation before I had even clocked it.
 
I think someone’s hacking my social media accounts. I opened Tumblr the other day and it said my account didn’t exist. After reinstalling the app twice I got it to work. Then I opened Instagram just a minute ago and it said my friend blocked me. I logged out and then logged in and now it says they’re still following me. What a way to scare someone twice.
 
i go back to my volunteering job tomorrow after being away for at least two months. even though the guy i was friends with is going to meet me at the door and take me to get my vest and boots, i'm still bricking it; it's partly why i've been putting off returning recently. the work was already starting to take its toll when i left, and i'm worried i'm not going to be up to it tomorrow (it's manual labor; a fair bit of lifting) because i feel like my fatigue issues have only worsened recently. (and the work gets a little monotonous, which is a nightmare to me.)
 
so I'm gonna be on hiatus indefinitely. if there's a Halloween event I will pop in occasionally to participate, but I've got way too much to deal with rn and socializing really isn't helping. if any of my friends want to chat you can DM me here or message me on Discord :>

also may or may not be breaking off w my SO and it really sucks 😞
 
also may or may not be breaking off w my SO and it really sucks 😞
I'm really sorry to hear that. I think you said somewhere that this was your first relationship? If you want to talk about it, I'm happy to listen. I've 16yrs dating experience under my belt (all genders) and 6yrs advising young people on relationships and sexual health.
 
I'm really sorry to hear that. I think you said somewhere that this was your first relationship? If you want to talk about it, I'm happy to listen. I've 16yrs dating experience under my belt (all genders) and 6yrs advising young people on relationships and sexual health.
to be honest there are so many parts to this equation and it's pretty complicated (which is a big reason why I'm so overwhelmed), I've talked to my mom and a friend abt it quite a bit so I don't feel like I really need to get anything off my chest. I really appreciate the gesture though 🥺💞
 
not looking forward about going to school tomorrow especially because i must attend my least favorite class, chemistry. i dislike the teacher tbh but i hate the subject in general. im also not looking forward to math, it’s such a boring class and im missing like 5 years worth of the fundamentals so i don’t understand a thing.
 
I also keep getting recommendations on YouTube for edgy videos like “I’m too ugly to get a girlfriend.” Why am I getting this garbage? All I watch are videos on languages, video games, books, psychology, and geography. Does anyone else get terrible recommendations on videos that have nothing to do with what you watch?
 
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