I don't hope to come off as rude but isn't it carpe diem & per aspera ad astra? I'm a bit worried about you having the wrong spellings tattooed on you.
Anyway, my life philosophy just boils down to: stop caring so much about little things & it's fine to be antisocial and come off as cold irl.
The first one cuz I have a tendency to over worry and stress over ****, second one cuz I often feel bad for not being like the majority of others and coming off as cold, since I have a lack of interest in socializing.