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Who do you get along with/trust more in general? Men or Women?

Who do you trust/get along with more?

  • Men

    Votes: 30 34.9%
  • Women

    Votes: 56 65.1%

  • Total voters
    86

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Women for me, I tend not to trust men due to past experiences and that's something I really hate.
I don't want to judge men based on what the men in my past have or haven't done.

I forgot to add who do you trust more and who do you get along with more as separate options on the poll...
 
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To be completely honest, I've always gotten along more with males even since a child I'd have more male friends than female friends. It's not that I prefer one over the other, that's just how it's been and there's no real reason for it. Some admit that it's due to females being more "dramatic" and therefore prefer to have male company instead, but I don't believe that's the case for me. Don't take this the wrong way, I have had female friends (and still do) in the past but not as many who are male.
 
Men I guess, most of the time they are geekier and more easy to talk with if you meet the right people. But yeah women if they are like 40+ lol
 
women/girls in general bc i grew up around girls and ive noticed they seem to be a lot less limited emotionally/to having fun bc they dont feel so stressed to be masculine most of the time. its really annoying when boys cant just relax and have fun or enjoy something out of the sake of preserving a masculine bravado. my closest male friends happen to be gay, as well, and thats likely bc they dont feel as stressed to be masculine either and are more fun in general. not to generalize people*, but there are societal expectations put on boys that might result in them being less fun to be around, imo. same for women, too, depending on your person enjoyments/preferences in people.

i phrased that wrong. yes, to generalize people based on societal expectations
 
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i tend to find more things in common w guys and stuff but im always way more nervous around them than w girls??? so idk but my friends tend to act more like guys i guess
 
I used to have only guys friends in elementary and middle school, but now I mostly hang out with girls
 
I have more things in common with women but judging by the friends I have I guess I still get along better with guys. I'm a bit more intimidated by women for some personal reasons but I'm still not really sure who I trust more in general. I've encountered my fair share of both terrible women and terrible men so it's hard to say for those reasons, plus it depends on what I'm trusting them with.

When it comes to just my friend group though it's easier for me to talk with the guys.
 
i don't really get along with ppl to start off with so, like, i mean...,,. we lp.

most my friends have been girls tho. generally i feel really unsafe and insecure around guys honestly. it's probably because the way masculine people are supposed to act or something idk?? or that i'm not very used to it? i'm a really nervous person and in my experience large groups of girls are generally a Lot less scary than large groups of boys. idk why really but i assume it's because of gender roles/stereotypes that make people act certain ways and because of my own opinions and thoughts that make me view boys as more scary.
i guess it's bad to be scared of men because of their gender but idk ......
 
I get along best with other gamer women, aside from that I usually get along better with men, simply because I know more men than women that share my interests.
 
I think I trust women just a tiny bit more, because there's like some sort of imaginary bond or whatever between people of the same gender, it seems. Like when birds flock together. Imagine each gender as it's own species of bird, and the majority of a species will stick together. But in general I don't trust people at all. And I'm definitely less trusting irl than online. But, I've been screwed over by both men and women, so...
 
In the past I'd have said girls but now I think I don't really have a preference. I have more girl friends than guy friends, but it's more dependent on their personality and such. It's not down to their gender necessarily.
 
I get along with Both Very well, I don't judge people based on Gender it's all about their personality, if you're a chill easy going person who isn't easily offended by the smallest thing, then we'll get along just fine​
 
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i have friends of both genders, but i guess i tend to become closer and better friends with girls. it's usually more goofing around with the guys than deep life stories and bonding. xD
 
i don't know why but i've always had more male friends than female friends since i was a kid . i don't know , i just don't usually relate with other women because of my interests or personality maybe ? or maybe it's just the people that i surround myself with .
 
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