Immediate family, I get along with my dad and brother. As for my mother, I don't speak to her.
Extended family, it really just depends on the person. There are people I get along with and people I don't.
I'm grateful I have a loving family sometimes i get into heated arguments w my mom or dad but it's never been relationship-shattering so it's cool. i have a weird relationship w my dad's immediate side of the family, my mom doesn't like them at all so i've kinda not liked them too growing up, but recently i've been a little kinder to them esp my grandma :c idk i dont have it in me to completely hate them the way my mom does even if my mom has valid reasons for not associating w them
That really is true though. It's totally fine not to get along with family, especially if they're not good people. Someone bring related to you doesn't mean you owe them your time if they don't treat you with respect as a minimum. I wish more people realized that instead of having their feelings hurt over and over again.
Yes, we have our moments. But other than that, it's fine.
For extended members, I get along most with my elder aunt.
For others I don't see anymore because they're not around me anymore (moved away, dead or too busy with their own lives.)
My family is mostly older people over the age of 65. I have no immediate siblings and all of my cousins are least a decade older than me. Because of that I don’t much in common with any of them. Despite some people on my adoptive mom’s side having some personality issues I always got along with them well and they never treated me poorly.
I’m close with my parents, grandparents, and one of my uncles, but the rest of my family I rarely see. I go years without seeing any of my cousins.
I get along with all my immediate family, but I haven't spoken to one of my sisters because she moved out ages ago and I'm terrible at contacting people. I feel kinda bad about it, the only time I contact her is for Christmas/her bday because she won't visit my parents, who I live with and idk where she lives.
sometimes i get into heated arguments w my mom or dad but it's never been relationship-shattering so it's cool. i have a weird relationship w my dad's immediate side of the family, my mom doesn't like them at all so i've kinda not liked them too growing up, but recently i've been a little kinder to them esp my grandma :c idk i dont have it in me to completely hate them the way my mom does even if my mom has valid reasons for not associating w them
