Unfortunately, yes. The thing that gets me with it is that the game wants you to be playing every day. It wants you to play on one day, but then wait for the next day for a lot of things. The chores don't seem like it at first, but eventually it just becomes a drag to be doing the same thing day in, day out. At the start of the game, NL just keeps making you wait. During the mid-game, you're waiting but you're also doing set things each day. Towards the end-game, you're running out of things you "need" to do, and if you stop playing as much, your villagers really make you feel guilty about it. It gets on my nerves sometimes. If the game wanted me to play every few days, that would at least be acceptable. Sometimes I just don't want to play, maybe I'm too busy, or I just want to play other games. If you don't play the game for a week or so, it's entirely possible that you'll be punished for it by losing your favourite villager because for whatever reason, no one else but you can convince them to stay.
I love the game, I really do. The beautiful town ordinance really takes the stress of watering your flowers away, especially once your town is covered in them. Eventually you'll pay off all of your home loans and you'll be pretty much set with how your PWPs are, taking away the need for a lot of money. You won't need to make it as often, and you'll probably just play each day to talk to your villagers and check the shops in the end. You'll donate every single fossil and you just won't need to dig up any new ones or hunt for the money rock. The gem rock is the only thing you'll be interested in if you still want the gems. The same thing goes for harvesting your perfect fruits - once you've paid off everything that you want to, you won't even need to harvest them anymore and they simply become decorations.
It's still fun to me and I enjoy it when I do play it... but I don't want to play it because I feel like I have to. I want to start the game up and play it because I chose to, not because I feel obligated to. If there is an AC game on the Wii U, I really hope there's some kind of system that will let you be able to take a break from the game or something. I honestly don't believe that the town cannot function without you, especially considering the only thing you're even needed for is the final say-so in the building of projects and setting of ordinances. You have no say on villagers moving in or where they move in, and you're still the one that has to get your hands dirty.
I'm still going to have fond memories of the game. I played it every chance I could when I first got it, but now that the initial excitement and hype has worn off, I just want to play it when I feel like it. :/