This time of year our family gets to do an extra bit of celebrating. My hubby is a Christmas baby. Yep, he was born right on December 25th. As cool as it might sound to be born on Christmas Day, my hubby didn’t get to really enjoy his birthday. He was never really able to have birthday parties as a kid as everyone was busy hosting and going to holiday parties. You’d think he’d get twice as many gifts but for most of his life he’d get a single gift that was meant to cover both his birthday and Christmas. There’s also the problem that not only did he have to wait a whole year for Christmas to roll around again but he’d be waiting for his birthday as well.
When Hubs & I first started dating I was able to see just how his family worked his birthday and Christmas. To be honest, it made me sad for him. The two events were basically lumped together. I started making sure I bought him separate gifts for each day. To try to make his birthday more special for him I’d give him his birthday gifts on Christmas Eve. I know it made him happy to have his special day acknowledged.
Once we were married and starting our own traditions I politely informed both sets of parents that we were going to start celebrating Hubby’s birthday on Christmas Eve and that he was going to be supplying us with two separate gift lists. I made sure they all realized that we weren’t going to be letting his birthday get lumped into Christmas any longer. I told them all in the Summer that we were going to be doing things differently and told them that should give them some time to prepare. There was some grumbling at first but I reminded both sets of parents that we ourselves were just starting out and that money was tight but that I had been saving up little bit by little bit all year to give Hubby his own day.
I made sure to set the tradition properly by getting Hubby a birthday cake that had nothing to do with Christmas. I made sure to wrap his presents in birthday bags and birthday paper. Our son (my son who Hubs became a father to when we married) loved helping me get things ready for his Dad’s birthday. He’d make sure to hand draw him a birthday card to make his day more special.
The parents were able to really see just how happy Hubby was that we celebrated his special day. While Hubs did enjoy getting more presents, he enjoyed just having his own day even more. As time has gone on we’ve added some more traditions to celebrate his birthday.
No matter how our family has changed over the years – losing some loved ones and gaining some – we’ve always made sure to keep the tradition of giving Hubby his birthday.
My Hubby & Son both live on Amity with me (Brody is me) so here we are celebrating my Hubby's birthday on Christmas Eve. Hubby's in the center clapping while our son & I sing "Happy Birthday".
(I wasn't sure if I was supposed to include my screen name so I added it using the "Add Text" feature in the Album on the Switch.)