This whole dream villager trading seems like you're treating the animals more like livestock than friends.
You can do that, though I think you're definitely in the wrong environment for it here. As a forum ( the absolute pinnacle of opinion-forming and opinion-stating outlet ) entirely dedicated to Animal Crossing, you will get a lot of people who feel strongly about the game and have strong opinions about every aspect of it, including villagers. In an environment that's very systematic and categorized, separating casual ACNL talk from trading-- and even separating item trading from villager trading-- people will treat most things like a serious, systematic process here.
Don't get me wrong, there are still a lot of people here who will ignore "dreamies" and will trade or giveaway very casually, as you can see from the replies in this thread. I'm just saying, this forum environment encourages a very different mindset from yours.
I agree with this. From what I've seen, you don't really have anyone on Tumblr questioning your motives. I follow villagertrade, villageradopt, and acnladopt on there. I think /r/AdoptMyVillager also tends to use the "dreamie" criterium less. Maybe you'd have better luck with those.
Also, just to clarify-- I don't think it's necessarily bad how this forum treats villagers, or "dream villagers". This is just another way that some people like to play the game. There will be people who don't like it-- just like there are people who do, and don't, like Time Traveling-- but in the end, they are just little video game animals, and if you want to spend little video game money on them, or systematically divide and trade them, there isn't anything wrong with that.
Also, just to clarify-- I don't think it's necessarily bad how this forum treats villagers, or "dream villagers". This is just another way that some people like to play the game. There will be people who don't like it-- just like there are people who do, and don't, like Time Traveling-- but in the end, they are just little video game animals, and if you want to spend little video game money on them, or systematically divide and trade them, there isn't anything wrong with that.
I agree, again. Just different ways of playing, so it's worth finding a community that has similar values to your own. And like Tina said, the "dreamies only" thing is done with good intentions. The people on this community are some of the nicest forumgoers I've come across, so I can't complain.
Just out of interest palliehallie are you a doctor? Can't help but notice your avatar
Aw good luck! I'm actually a doctor - bit old for AC but young at heart I say! Lol x
I think that being a denied a villager just because she's not on some list or selling one for millions is so unfair. It's a game and I wish people would stop treating it like a blood sport or irl uber business.
On that note though, I've met a lot of really nice players who just want to have fun and share.
Yeah I sometimes think people are far too serious about this! Yeah of course, I got Moe from someone without question
I think that's a little unfair. What's wrong with being "serious" about the game? And for that matter, why do you they're "too serious"? Wouldn't some people say that you're too serious because you're frustrated that someone got villager priority over you?
Maybe we should keep away from "people taking this game too seriously" accusations.