I don't think it's awkward as different people will get attached to these characters in different ways and there is nothing wrong in that.
In my personal experience I had a crush on Jay way back when I played Animal crossing Wild world but that was when the villagers had some personality.
Since everyone is talking about their past crushes I hope you all don't mind me sharing about it as well. At the time I played Wild World I was in a very bad mind place so I saw in Jay and in the game a safe place where I could forget it all. I was a depressed girl who didn't want to get out of bed and this silly jock bird Jay comes around sending me on quests to find fossils for him. He made my character move around doing chores for him to exercise as he said but the timing this happened felt like he was telling me to move in real life to and be active. Simply having Jay ask me to search fossils for him felt like a small purpose in life and it made me get out of bed. It made me feel like I wasn't alone. It's a coincidence and it's virtual sure but the timing made it all the better and it felt magical. Like all characters in Wild world he wasn't very pleasant at the start but he slowly opened up and sure enough he was the first and only villager on that game to give me his picture. This progression made it feel real and that's how the crush appeared.
In New Leaf by a stroke of luck Jay was my first jock again but this time Laria Nook (my character) had competition in the form of the peppy bunny Bonbon. I remember I got jealous of Bonbon XD but when I say jealous I don't mean bad jealous I mean joking jealous. Besides, Jay was such a himbo. He didn't notice any of Bonbon's advances or show any interest. It was so funny.
In new horizons I don't really have crushes but I sure like to joke about that. I have a series of videos that I am in the process of editing about the adventures of Laria Nook in new horizons and sure enough I mention that Laria Nook and Jay are a couple. That was my idea for the series but then some animal stole Jay from me and let me tell you I couldn't be happier because it sure provided drama and content for that series.
I started to record the series convinced Jay and Laria were the OTP but then Marlo moved in. I thought "Marlo is going to be a villain on the island and Jay could even become a hero. This could be fun." and that was what happened until...the firework day! They turned from enemies to lovers.
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They kissed two times!
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Right in front of everyone. Jay is bold!
So yeah…now I ship villagers with each other more than the player character with them.
When I think about animal crushes or romances I don’t really dig to deep into it because romance isn’t only intimate stuff you know there is also a simple hug or a sweet kiss. I understand why it come become awkward as some people immeditely think of a certain thing when you mention romance which is stupid because romance is more than that. I joke around because I see it as very innocent and these characters are in a virtual world of their own in no way connected to mine. My player character Laria Nook is not me but an avatar I use to interact with the animal crossing world so in a way maybe I never had a crush on Jay but instead created a story with Laria and Jay through the experiences I went through with Jay and the games.
Anyway now I ship Jay and Marlo together and don’t know how I’m going to explain this to the internet XD