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How the heck do I give my crush a present without him knowing lmao help

You could try talking to his girlfriend about it first. If you're just being friendly, it shouldn't become an issue. I've received plenty of gifts from friends, and it never became weird. I think you'll be fine!
 
If you don't mind me asking, what's the gift? Because he has a girlfriend, it would be inappropriate to give the guy a stuffed bear with chocolate or something that can absolutely be interpreted as romantic. For example, I was already dating someone else when this other guy kept giving me red roses. It was the most painfully awkward thing ever. It put a damper on our friendship for a long time (despite being pretty good friends for a few years), so be prepared for that if your gift can be interpreted that way. I personally don't recommend giving him a gift if this is the case.

If your gift is something that is not romantic, then by all means just give it to him in person. Don't do any weird gimmicks like finding his locker location, his schedule/house, etc. It'll lead to him thinking you're creepy, especially since you're still establishing a friendship. Respect his boundaries in this stage.

Good luck. :)
 
seconding @sirena's suggestion

Personally, I would just go up to him and give it to him before/after class.
 
If the gift is simply friendly, you should just give it to him. It's fine! He'll appreciate the gift as long as it's not romantic.

Sorry, this probably didn't help...
 
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If you know a teacher who he has a class with you could ask the teacher to put it where he sits so nobody would know.
 
If you don't mind me asking, what's the gift? Because he has a girlfriend, it would be inappropriate to give the guy a stuffed bear with chocolate or something that can absolutely be interpreted as romantic. For example, I was already dating someone else when this other guy kept giving me red roses. It was the most painfully awkward thing ever. It put a damper on our friendship for a long time (despite being pretty good friends for a few years), so be prepared for that if your gift can be interpreted that way. I personally don't recommend giving him a gift if this is the case.

If your gift is something that is not romantic, then by all means just give it to him in person. Don't do any weird gimmicks like finding his locker location, his schedule/house, etc. It'll lead to him thinking you're creepy, especially since you're still establishing a friendship. Respect his boundaries in this stage.

Good luck. :)

Thanks (and everyone else of course)

I was just gonna get him a bar of chocolate or sweets because....who doesn't like that
It's kinda boring but at least he'll like it haha

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If the gift is simply friendly, you should just give it to him. It's fine! He'll appreciate the gift as long as it's not romantic.

Sorry, this probably didn't help...

Nope, it did, thank you ^^
 
just give it to a teacher that seems nice even if you haven't talked to them before, they'll understand!
 
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