I used to hate the holidays but I think I'm starting to like the holidays now.
When I was a child it was a stressful time, my parents argued a lot, and yelled at us a lot as well, my paternal relatives were always drunk and fighting, my maternal relatives were always *****y and fighting, all kids were crying, there was always someone rushed to E.R. The first Christmas I remember, I was 2yo and my father crashed the car in a bank of snow while a snowstorm, then he walked with me in the snowstorm for a while and let me at some strangers' house to get help. Being with people I didn't know was the most traumatic part lol.
I worked in retail for several years as well, and yes, it was hell. Listening to the same Christmas songs in a loop for 2 months, kids crying and throwing tantrums, costumers being difficult and disagreeable. I saw people fighting over toilet paper while a boxing day, it was like a zombies invasion.
My mom being a Christmaszilla. She has to control e-ve-ry-thing and yell all the time when it's not perfect enough.
It was not too bad last year, we agreed not to put lights and decorations around the windows, because she was losing it every time me or the cats tried to look through the window and messed with the lights. I told her that It would be fun to spend the holidays without all that yelling, I can't stand it anymore.
So we agreed to keep things simple, no gifts, food prepared in advance, nothing too complicated, everybody stay in PJ (we celebrate the eve until dawn). No more running to the stores until the last minute. Artificial tree.
When I was a kid, I was going to the woods with my father and later my brother to find a tree, brought it home (not easy with snowshoes) and we decorated it the 23th while the night. Looks super romantic, I have nostalgic memories about it too, but then I remember how cold and dark it was, strange noises around, fir gum in my hair, falling into holes, the tree being super heavy....at the time, it was not especially funny.
Now we have TBT events that makes the holidays fun, and I feel like I want to appreciate the holidays more (far from the mall)
I like snow and winter, and hope we will have some this year. Last year it was raining
(not normal in my area)