I didn't expect this post to get all this attention. I used to write on forums 10 years ago and now I've forgotten everything, but I'll try to answer to everyone, hoping I don't mess with things.
Before I answer, I'd like to thanks everyone who took the time to read my post and answer and I'd like to say that I'm glad to hear that someone is feeling the same for some of the things I mentioned.
And most of all I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one who really can't play with sound turned on in this game.
I started to think that something was wrong with me and for some reason, I was not able to enjoy this game, but reading your answer makes me feel a little better, even if I still feel bad because I can't enjoy the game like I used to do with NL.
I think maybe either take a break, or pick the game up again once lots of updates have rolled out so you come back and have more to work with, since you said you feel anxious about planning if you don't know what's coming. I completely understand this.
I don't really have much more to say other than saying the other games are still available to you. I might go check on my GC/NL town even! Maybe play these games for the next couple of months if you feel like it and come back to NH once more things have rolled out to see if you still like it? And if not, you could maybe sell it.
I also felt the same way about the HHD buildings, I even remember posting on here that I hope restaurants and grocery stores make their way into NH just like in HHD. The music too, with how relaxing the WW and NL soundtracks were, I really was not happy with the NH soundtrack. At this point I'll mute and play other games' songs during the night instead.
I think right now a break for you is most ideal.
I think I'll totally take a break from the game and start playing HHD again or Dragon Quest Builders 2. I really enjoyed it before NH came out and after playing it, I think NH has lots of things to learn from that game (even if even DQB2 has lots of mechanics "taken" from Zelda BOTW and AC).
I'm so glad someone has put into words how I've been feeling recently!
The game has just gotten.... boring?? After like a month of gameplay?
I understand that they're adding new events and things gradually and all that but for the meantime the game just feels so hollow? I have over 400 hours and I think half of that is just me staring at the screen, willing myself to find something to do because I don't want to admit the game is lacking.
It's a gorgeous game and was so fun in the beginning, but there's just not enough to do man.
I also think you got the topic of villager dialogue SPOT ON!!!!!
I've got mostly wolves on my island so I have quite a few crankies (by my own choice) and I can basically recall every single thing a cranky villager can say to you. I feel like they could take the villagers out of the game and it would more or less be the same - they don't seem to be the main focus unlike previous titles.
Feel comfort in the fact you're not the only one feeling like this. Maybe a break is needed?
I've been limiting how often I play now and it gets me more interested in the game.
You've brought up some really good points here though, for which I'd have to agree to most if not all of them.
Gosh, seriously, I too spend hours staring at the screen because I don't want to admit that I need to turn the game off because I run out of things to do. The fact is that I used to play the exact amount of hours every day in New Leaf when it came out and I never had this feeling, that's why I think that there's something wrong with NH.
While I agree that the game is incomplete, I'm actually a fan of this update model. In New Leaf era, everyone had everything in the first week with agressive time traveling and it completely ruined the social and trading aspects of the game for me. I prefer the content be gated by updates so I don't feel miles behind everyone else, as someone who doesn't time travel and hasn't at all in NH.
I prefer this "slow burn" style of animal crossing being enforced a little more than in New Leaf, where you couldn't even have anything worth trading unless you abused your system clock immensely. However, that doesn't mean this comes without its problems. I will admit I wish this game had more content at launch. The "slow burn" as it is is a little too slow. and I think every Animal Crossing fan is worried that their favorite character or feature might just... not happen. That's something that does worry me.
Events so far have been mundane, but your idea for events is quite frankly unrealistic. Especially since they're doing events for minor holidays and pumping out 2-3 a month, the amount you expected from the Easter event is pretty ridiculous to hope for, frankly. the Easter event sucked, but it's not like Bunny Day was everyone's favorite holiday in New Leaf either. Bunny Day furniture has always been awful, and quite frankly the fact that they saw complaints and hotfixed egg spawns I think is a testament that they're committed to this game.
I'm not a rabid fanboy who thinks this installment is above criticism by all means, and while some of your complaints (tedious crafting, lack of items in stores, 8 ramps limiting creativity quite a bit, shared design slots (currently my biggest problem, I invited my two little siblings onto my island and it's been a nightmare them filling my inventory with awful designs) some of your criticism seems silly or some expectations seem set too high.
Yes, they had 7 years to work on this game. But this game needed MASSIVE graphical enhancements from New Leaf, on a whole new system which might not even have been conceptualized when New Leaf was released. the game looks gorgeous, and I feel that was their main priority. So far they've been good at addressing complaints and releasing frequent updates, for now let's hope they keep the streak going.
Just wanted to share my own thoughts, since I really resonated with some of your complaints and really disagreed with others. I still enjoy the game, and I could see myself playing the game in its current state with no more updates at least until the end of the first year, when I stop getting seasonal DIYs and such. I have high expectations that Nintendo can make that 1 year into 4 or 5 with a few updates.
I'm honest, at the start I was really excited about the update model, because I didn't like the fact that time travelers were able to spoil the entire game in 3 days, but I think that they managed the thing in the wrong way.
I think the best thing would have been to release the game with only basic New Leaf things and then add later all the other staff. But they took away too much to make the game last more than 3-4 weeks.
Same thing for special characters. I think they all will be added one day, but the fact is that NL had like 60 special characters, while here we only had 20 in total (without counting the events ones).
Plus, NL had 28 special characters always available in your city (buildings, shops, Tortimer island etc) while here we have just 10 special characters always available...
Regarding the events, I was the first saying that I wasn't expecting something as big as I dreamt, but this doesn't mean that it's impossible. It could be impossible for an event that take 1 day to be completed (so it doesn't make sense to put all the effort to just make an event that lasts 1 day), but they changed the duration of the event from 1 day to 2 weeks, so you can't propose to me the exact same event as the previous games (even if they introduced diy, mechanics were really similar to the original event).
I don't think that problem is about my expectation. I mean, I always had high expectations for every AC game released, but this game in particular took 7 years to be released and I'm surprised to see that even if it introduced new things (the only real new things are terraforming, pre-determined mystery islands and the possibility to move buildings, if you count that most of the new things introduced in this chapter were already seen in HHD), it feels like an incomplete game.
The biggest change in the game is regarding graphics as you mentioned, but I always didn't care about graphics but more of what the game has to offer. To be honest I would prefer a game with Amiibo Festival graphics style (at the end it is New Leaf graphics in hd) but with more longevity, instead of new improved graphic and lack of contents, but in this case I'm aware of the fact that I'm probably the only one thinking like this.
No problem with your thoughts, we are all different so it's obvious that we all can't think the same! I'm glad you are still enjoying the game regardless of the updates!