LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

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Hi friends. I just wanted to put in that I'm currently dating a transgender male [FtM transition] and I just wanted to throw out there that I'd be happy to lend support and advice on how to cope with being in a romantic relationship with someone who is transgender. I've been with him for two years now, but have known him for four. He's my best friend and I love him dearly, and he's certainly brought to light a lot about myself and this world.

As for the topic of otherkin:
I would like to put out there that though there are some that feel a sense of dysphoria due to their phantom limbs, I have to say that from a medical standpoint that attaching limbs and extensions [i.e. wings and tails] to ones body can not only be harmful to the human one they possess, but it could also prove to be very insufficient for their daily lives. That, and it's also incredibly hard, and if one would like for the appendages to work [a very big stretch and one that is likely never to happen] then they more often than not have to come from your body or ones body who is alive with the same or similar blood type. Not to mention it would require bone and etc. This includes a bunch of scarring and damage.
 
*awkward little waves*

Hi friends. I just wanted to put in that I'm currently dating a transgender male [FtM transition] and I just wanted to throw out there that I'd be happy to lend support and advice on how to cope with being in a romantic relationship with someone who is transgender. I've been with him for two years now, but have known him for four. He's my best friend and I love him dearly, and he's certainly brought to light a lot about myself and this world.

As for the topic of otherkin:
I would like to put out there that though there are some that feel a sense of dysphoria due to their phantom limbs, I have to say that from a medical standpoint that attaching limbs and extensions [i.e. wings and tails] to ones body can not only be harmful to the human one they possess, but it could also prove to be very insufficient for their daily lives. That, and it's also incredibly hard, and if one would like for the appendages to work [a very big stretch and one that is likely never to happen] then they more often than not have to come from your body or ones body who is alive with the same or similar blood type. Not to mention it would require bone and etc. This includes a bunch of scarring and damage.

hey there! welcome. are you LGBTQ yourself? :)
I'm trans and in a relationship as well so I can always lend support to YOU if you need it haha c;
 
hey there! welcome. are you LGBTQ yourself? :)
I'm trans and in a relationship as well so I can always lend support to YOU if you need it haha c;

Ah, thank you! That'd be wonderful, especially since sometimes I have no idea how to help or support him! ;;

And yes, I am. For a while I thought I was a lesbian, but I think it turns out I'm pansexual since I'm dating my boyfriend now. Not that I mind~ c:
 
Ah, thank you! That'd be wonderful, especially since sometimes I have no idea how to help or support him! ;;

And yes, I am. For a while I thought I was a lesbian, but I think it turns out I'm pansexual since I'm dating my boyfriend now. Not that I mind~ c:

it's definitely hard to support trans people during certain things!! but the way you talk about him seems like you're doing just fine :)
ahh interesting!! super cool, is it ok if I add you as a friend? :)
 
it's definitely hard to support trans people during certain things!! but the way you talk about him seems like you're doing just fine :)
ahh interesting!! super cool, is it ok if I add you as a friend? :)

Thank you! ;;"
And I'm certainly trying, haha. It's just sometimes I feel so bad, since he gets so down on himself when his dysphoria hits. I always make a point of telling him how handsome he is everyday and reminding him I'm there for him, but sometimes I wonder if maybe I should be doing a little more, ya' know?

And of course! Anyone on here can add me as a friend, at that! vuv
 
Thank you! ;;"
And I'm certainly trying, haha. It's just sometimes I feel so bad, since he gets so down on himself when his dysphoria hits. I always make a point of telling him how handsome he is everyday and reminding him I'm there for him, but sometimes I wonder if maybe I should be doing a little more, ya' know?

And of course! Anyone on here can add me as a friend, at that! vuv

It sounds like you're doing a really great job ^^

I'm also trans, so if you want to talk to anyone else, I'm here, too!
 
still honestly pissed off how two scammers got away with pretending to be a pair of siblings, big sister made post for the younger "trans" brother. they got around 5k in donations and the post got around 80k notes before it was revealed they were fake. they ran off with the ****in money.

and i cant get 15 dollars for a binder
rip me
 
still honestly pissed off how two scammers got away with pretending to be a pair of siblings, big sister made post for the younger "trans" brother. they got around 5k in donations and the post got around 80k notes before it was revealed they were fake. they ran off with the ****in money.

and i cant get 15 dollars for a binder
rip me

I would say that the positive side about that is that the support for transgenders is increasing but then again I don't think that argument is appropriate for the situation ._.
 
still honestly pissed off how two scammers got away with pretending to be a pair of siblings, big sister made post for the younger "trans" brother. they got around 5k in donations and the post got around 80k notes before it was revealed they were fake. they ran off with the ****in money.

and i cant get 15 dollars for a binder
rip me

i agree. my boyfriend has a gofundme page up for his top surgery, and he has only 1% of his goal raised. i hope you get money for a binder soon <3
 
still honestly pissed off how two scammers got away with pretending to be a pair of siblings, big sister made post for the younger "trans" brother. they got around 5k in donations and the post got around 80k notes before it was revealed they were fake. they ran off with the ****in money.

and i cant get 15 dollars for a binder
rip me

That kind of stuff happens all the time on tumblr. No one bothers to do research or look into things before jumping into them head first. Just look at Dashcon, the numerous false stories, and as of late-doxxing people who are in fact innocent. (As in, someone made up a fake status to get them in trouble via doxxing). It's a big ****hole lately. I barely go on tumblr anymore.
 
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