I never did, I just originally never got why suddenly non-ill people think it's alright to go outside with smelly/dirty pants they've worn working inside just cause it's sudden some acceptance because it's a pandemic or whatever. If you want to stride for healthy people doing such, go ahead.
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daringred_
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right, but how do you know if they're "non-ill"? i'm not going to sit here and saying there aren't some people who are just lazy and do this, but i still think it's silly to judge someone on sight just because they've got pyjamas pants on. especially as there are reasons for doing so beyond poor mental health. that was my point. less disputing that perfectly healthy/secure people probably have no excuse, more disputing that it's an odd thing to judge someone for. like, fair enough if you have a friend or family member you know with come certainty is fully capable of and has the time to change but doesn't, not so fair enough if it's a random stranger you know nothing about. idk if that makes sense.
People obviously needing to go outside on an everyday basis but yet it's also "accepted" and promoted by fashion and commercials and those who have a job that needs to change otherwise.
Not gonna discuss how we do we know, my point was I don't get why it's accepted by the general audience just because someone healthy has been at home for a couple of years and think it's cool adapting lazy/lounge fashion in public because they can't suddenly just sit and use Zoom and their coding software, only showing parts of shirts. Cozy sleeping clothes are that for a reason.
Sure, if I'm home and sick/ill I probably wouldn't dress up in a fancy dress, but then I never wear PJs anyway.
ravenclaw_equestrian
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i totally agree! I thought I was the only one
Mr_Keroppi
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I like the Oreo cookies better than the frosting inside 
LittleMissPanda
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Chicken sandwiches > burgers
Nintendo > Sony
Pokemon > Digimon
Pants > skirts
Pepsi > Coke
Betty Crocker fruit snacks > Welch's fruit snacks > Kellogg's fruit snacks
Nintendo > Sony
Pokemon > Digimon
Pants > skirts
Pepsi > Coke
Betty Crocker fruit snacks > Welch's fruit snacks > Kellogg's fruit snacks
Exactly, lol. I don't believe people who say they never judge, they most likely do it silently or privately. And sure I might do but at least I speak up I guess lol.
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Back to topic, I'll join the "dry shampoo sucks" club. I've rather thick and greasy hair by nature and using it makes it worse and makes me look like a crazy clown. I'd rather wash my hair one extra time each week to look nice and presentable.
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Also, sports fashion is ugly and I'd never wear sports stuff it unless I was actively exercising and/or going to or from such exercise.
I tried dry shampoo once, and I felt so greasy. I can't stand the feeling of an unwashed scalp. It seems the dry shampoo trend is waning and I wonder if it ever was as effective as it was hyped up to be.
Yup, I tried once, twice as well and yeah same here especially since I have the hair texture I have.
I guess it could work if one has thin/fine hair and add some volume but I guess it's some lazy fix? But yeah dunno.
It really bothers me when people go in restaurants and fast food places only to use the bathroom. I see it often. One person will walk in, use the bathroom, and walk out. They also get into their car and pull away. I find it disrespectful, but what do I know? I know emergencies happen, but I always buy something afterwards, even if it’s a bottle of soda at a gas station or a drink at a restaurant. Otherwise, I find it really disrespectful to just use the bathroom and dip. 
I hope this isn’t an unpopular opinion, but it could be.
I hope this isn’t an unpopular opinion, but it could be.I'd say here it's mostly the lack of free restrooms in town, most cost like a buck or 2 and you need to pay by card which I think a lot of people won't do. I guess you could sneak into hotels if needed too.It really bothers me when people go in restaurants and fast food places only to use the bathroom. I see it often. One person will walk in, use the bathroom, and walk out. They also get into their car and pull away. I find it disrespectful, but what do I know? I know emergencies happen, but I always buy something afterwards, even if it’s a bottle of soda at a gas station or a drink at a restaurant. Otherwise, I find it really disrespectful to just use the bathroom and dip.
As long as people don't woo-hoo in them I don't care really but I love when you find an open rubber package in them
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
i don't know about "effective", but it's always been helpful to me (or talcum powder if we don't have any) as someone who usually doesn't have the spoons to have a bath. (yes, yes, gross, but i try to force myself as often as possible.) i don't apply it to my whole head though, only my bangs so they don't look greasy, and then put the rest of my hair in a bun. i can usually get away with it 2-3 times before it has no effect and i have to wash my hair if i need to go out.
i think some people (not necessarily you, and i'm not trying to shame/judge anyone here) forget that a lot of products of convenience are super helpful for disabled and mentally ill people but have to be marketed towards able-bodied and neurotypical people so that enough can be manufactured and they can be sold at a reasonable price. instead those products sadly end up being labelled and mocked as lazy or useless by a lot of people. (i.e. sock sliders, banana slicers, jar openers etc.) just thought i'd throw that out there.
As someone with IBS, I am thankful for those washrooms. Like, where else am I supposed to go when I'm out and can't hold it?It really bothers me when people go in restaurants and fast food places only to use the bathroom. I see it often. One person will walk in, use the bathroom, and walk out. They also get into their car and pull away. I find it disrespectful, but what do I know? I know emergencies happen, but I always buy something afterwards, even if it’s a bottle of soda at a gas station or a drink at a restaurant. Otherwise, I find it really disrespectful to just use the bathroom and dip.
I've been seeing a lot of small shops selling "functional art" which resembles detached female body parts...breast shaped coasters, candles that are shaped like bodacious, beheaded torsos...most of the art is woman made, and I assume it's intended to be an expression of "empowerment"...but personally, the act of buying or selling isolated body parts doesn't do it for me.
Mr_Keroppi
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That sounds scary
xSuperMario64x
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it's not okay to force a label on someone, but if someone wants to put a label on themselves then they should be allowed to. also some people don't choose their labels, as convenient as it would be to just "stop labeling [themselves]".
My only issue with labels is that people try so hard to fit different labels. Yeah, labels are adjectives to describe you as a person but the problem comes when people say they can’t do certain things or be a certain way because they are supposed to be “this label.” I think labels are good, though. They help people understand themselves and others better. I don’t use labels personally because they change and you don’t necessarily have to stick to one label. I used to struggle with whether I was lesbian, pan, or something else entirely. I came to the point where I stopped trying to find a label and just be myself. If I like someone, I like them. So when people ask, I just say I’m me.
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