PaperLuigi3
CCR
All you people get so unhealthily attached to your boyfriends, it's kind of scary almost.
"Feed me, Seymour! "
"Feed me, Seymour! "
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Liquid Ocelot
dead + tired
Someone just told me that femininity is equal to weakness and that feminine things were all around bad for young men / boys to be exposed to.
F* them. Women have been some of the strongest figures in my life, there's NOTHING wrong with being feminine, and he's a f*ing idiot. If he were closer, I'd punch his teeth in. People keep telling me he's not worth arguing with but this is hitting a sore spot for me.
Literally livid rn.
F* them. Women have been some of the strongest figures in my life, there's NOTHING wrong with being feminine, and he's a f*ing idiot. If he were closer, I'd punch his teeth in. People keep telling me he's not worth arguing with but this is hitting a sore spot for me.
Literally livid rn.
IncendiaryPyro
Senior Member
I'm so goddamn tired of my family trying to shove paperwork regarding college down my throat. Every single day there's another form I have to read and sign or apply for something. I have enough problems to deal with and don't want more thrown at me constantly.
Please excuse me, for language and caps.
My STUPID FRIEND, JUST LIKE, TOLD ME, THAT IF I KEEP TELLING HIM ABOUT MY **GAY** SHIPS, WE ARE NOT FRIENDS. SO, I stop seNDing him gay pictures, just some cute Eremin holding hands. And NOW, HE FLIPS HIS CRAP. HE IS LIKE, NO! THATS IT! WE ARENT FRIENDS. HE SAID THESE WORDS "See, because yo are a girl, you like gays. But I'm a male, so I like lesbo porno and stuff." AND SO THIS F*C*E* DECIDES TO BE LIKE "STOP LIKING GAY THINGS AND GETTING TURNED ON TO GAYS, EVEN IF I LIKE LESBIANS F******!" Does that make ANYONE ELSE upset? That someone is THAT rude to me? AND I JUST FINALLY TOLD HIM I WAS PANROMANTIC, NOW HES BAGGING ON MY SEXUALITY AND OTHER PEOPLES SEXUALITY????????????? I AM SO. SO. SO. SO. PISSED. RIGHT NOW.
My STUPID FRIEND, JUST LIKE, TOLD ME, THAT IF I KEEP TELLING HIM ABOUT MY **GAY** SHIPS, WE ARE NOT FRIENDS. SO, I stop seNDing him gay pictures, just some cute Eremin holding hands. And NOW, HE FLIPS HIS CRAP. HE IS LIKE, NO! THATS IT! WE ARENT FRIENDS. HE SAID THESE WORDS "See, because yo are a girl, you like gays. But I'm a male, so I like lesbo porno and stuff." AND SO THIS F*C*E* DECIDES TO BE LIKE "STOP LIKING GAY THINGS AND GETTING TURNED ON TO GAYS, EVEN IF I LIKE LESBIANS F******!" Does that make ANYONE ELSE upset? That someone is THAT rude to me? AND I JUST FINALLY TOLD HIM I WAS PANROMANTIC, NOW HES BAGGING ON MY SEXUALITY AND OTHER PEOPLES SEXUALITY????????????? I AM SO. SO. SO. SO. PISSED. RIGHT NOW.
Liquid Ocelot
dead + tired
I think I'm depraved.
It sounds like you were pushing it on him. Not everyone is that comfortable, and if he says he's uncomfortable hearing about that sort of thing- which is perfectly normal for a young, presumably heterosexual man you need to stop making a thing of it. Talk to him about other things that don't involve "shipping" or whatever.
He's a straight guy. He just doesn't want to hear it. And that's okay. There comes a point where you're imposing your sexuality on someone else, and while he does need to be accepting of you, he doesn't need you making him unreasonably uncomfortable.
If one of my friends kept bombarding me with yaoi shipping crap, I'd probably want to have a word with them, too. And I'm bisexual.
Point is, I think you need to lay off him. He might not even know what panromantic means.
It sounds like you were pushing it on him. Not everyone is that comfortable, and if he says he's uncomfortable hearing about that sort of thing- which is perfectly normal for a young, presumably heterosexual man you need to stop making a thing of it. Talk to him about other things that don't involve "shipping" or whatever.
He's a straight guy. He just doesn't want to hear it. And that's okay. There comes a point where you're imposing your sexuality on someone else, and while he does need to be accepting of you, he doesn't need you making him unreasonably uncomfortable.
If one of my friends kept bombarding me with yaoi shipping crap, I'd probably want to have a word with them, too. And I'm bisexual.
Point is, I think you need to lay off him. He might not even know what panromantic means.
Izzy Reincarnated
ボケ！！！！&#
THE FACT THAT THE POSTER ABOVE ME HATES ME
i studied so hard for my first exam, and i was so confident, and i ended up getting a C on it....
today is test #2 and i just....i don't know, i hope i can pull an A this time. im so exhausted....5 am :/...watch me still get a C *sigh*
today is test #2 and i just....i don't know, i hope i can pull an A this time. im so exhausted....5 am :/...watch me still get a C *sigh*
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Mephisto Pheles
Head of True Cross Acad.
My sister thought it'd be a good idea to post this question on Facebook:
and while I'm not a lesbian, I am a trans man - and a rather feminine one, at that - so I felt compelled to explain to her how masculine doesn't equal "man" and feminine does not equal "woman" ... Now, though, I'm wondering if I should have just kept to myself - my hands are trembling, my mouth is dry and I feel nauseous.
I keep thinking to myself, "This post got at least 10 likes, and many comments agreeing with her.. In fact, I don't see a single person disagreeing with her - what if they argue with me? insult me and call me names? Oh, no no no, I should delete this right away!-- But what if someone already saw? And then mock me further for trying to cover it up?"
In other words, I'm just a big ball of anxiety right now and just feel.. disgusted. Disgusted by both my sisters ignorance.. and me, for being this way. ugh...
(she also added "why not just date transvestites?" in the comments to said post)
and while I'm not a lesbian, I am a trans man - and a rather feminine one, at that - so I felt compelled to explain to her how masculine doesn't equal "man" and feminine does not equal "woman" ... Now, though, I'm wondering if I should have just kept to myself - my hands are trembling, my mouth is dry and I feel nauseous.
I keep thinking to myself, "This post got at least 10 likes, and many comments agreeing with her.. In fact, I don't see a single person disagreeing with her - what if they argue with me? insult me and call me names? Oh, no no no, I should delete this right away!-- But what if someone already saw? And then mock me further for trying to cover it up?"
In other words, I'm just a big ball of anxiety right now and just feel.. disgusted. Disgusted by both my sisters ignorance.. and me, for being this way. ugh...
Zanessa
ZanessaGaily>Zanessa
I miss my crush. I mean, even though he rejected me, he's not exactly following the "just friends" thing, seeing as he still treats me differently than he does with other girls.
We haven't talked in almost 3 weeks, but yeah, I miss him lots.
We haven't talked in almost 3 weeks, but yeah, I miss him lots.
Mephisto Pheles
Head of True Cross Acad.
Holy wow, my sister is even more ignorant than I originally thought...
I just woke up and saw that I had a Facebook notification, so I checked it - knowing that it was my sister replying to my comment to her post.
What I was not expecting, however, was her to use a lesbian slur. I was really taken aback by that.. I mean she's posted angry rants on her Facebook about homophobes - heck, she's even called herself bi a few times - and then she goes and does all this? Throwing around slurs and questioning women's identities for "dressing/acting like men" and/or being attracted to women like that?
I honestly considered her to be the only "safe" relative I have, when it comes to LGBT+ stuff... But she's proven me otherwise. *sigh*
I just woke up and saw that I had a Facebook notification, so I checked it - knowing that it was my sister replying to my comment to her post.
What I was not expecting, however, was her to use a lesbian slur. I was really taken aback by that.. I mean she's posted angry rants on her Facebook about homophobes - heck, she's even called herself bi a few times - and then she goes and does all this? Throwing around slurs and questioning women's identities for "dressing/acting like men" and/or being attracted to women like that?
I honestly considered her to be the only "safe" relative I have, when it comes to LGBT+ stuff... But she's proven me otherwise. *sigh*
Lady Timpani
sway
That sucks, man. I'm really sorry.
School starts back up in two weeks and I'm stressing too much about my schedule and all the people I'm going to have to deal with. I moved to all honors classes so I'm nervous about failing and I'm nervous about honors people judging me. I go to a strict private Christian school so everyone is really hypocritical and unaccepting, and it doesn't help that my only friends are older than I so they have different classes.
Liquid Ocelot
dead + tired
I'm so tired. So dead. Help.
RUN
RUN AWAY.
There's nothing wrong with the occasional christian, but they get touchy in large groups.
RUN
RUN AWAY.
There's nothing wrong with the occasional christian, but they get touchy in large groups.
Getting pretty sick and tired of having nothing to do anymore. No one seems to want to hire me, so I'm just sat around doing nothing all day. I have no friends so I have no one to talk to, anyone I do talk to even if it's just through private messages eventually lose interest in talking to me and I don't get replies for weeks on end, or I never hear from them again.
I'm really just lost and confused. I feel like I'm doing something wrong and I just don't know what it even is.
I'm really just lost and confused. I feel like I'm doing something wrong and I just don't know what it even is.
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