What's Bothering You?

Just stressing about my job interview on Wednesday. I always struggle in the questions for, “Why should we hire you?” That and “Tell me about yourself.” I always struggle to advertise myself.
 
So sick of constantly getting headaches on my days off, or right after I get home. - - I just want to enjoy my meagre free time.
 
I've had a headache for 24hrs now. Don't know why it persists. Had one last night, figured it was probably from playing video games on the TV for too long, maybe eye strain. Idk. It kept me up when I was tryin to sleep (also had some anxiety last night so that didn't help either).

Wake up today. Still there. All day its been here. Go away.
 
My best friend's been talking smack about me, and it's circulated around to the point where my parents heard about it. Now they keep coming up to me and questioning me about the things my best friend said, even though I keep telling them that none of it is true. I don't want to confront my best friend about it 'cause I don't wanna cause any fights or more drama, but I'm still pretty pissed about the situation so I don't know what to do.
 
My best friend's been talking smack about me, and it's circulated around to the point where my parents heard about it. Now they keep coming up to me and questioning me about the things my best friend said, even though I keep telling them that none of it is true. I don't want to confront my best friend about it 'cause I don't wanna cause any fights or more drama, but I'm still pretty pissed about the situation so I don't know what to do.
I think you’re better off just ending the friendship. Sounds like petty drama to me. I personally wouldn’t want to associate with someone that’s comfortable talking smack about anyone, including myself, behind my back. That’s a red flag to me in any friendship or relationship.
 
These past two days at work have literally been the worst. Everyone else's problems has sucked the life out of me.
 
my dad probably probably didn't call the bank about removing our old accounts and i can't get rid of them alone sigh.
 
It's snowing and my neighbour's still won't bring their cat inside so I went out there with a blanket & threw it on Juice the cat to try and bring him into my place and he had a meltdown lmao. I picked him up and carried him to my place but he was making some wild hisses & noises. I ended up leaving him on the porch & made a tent out of blankets so hopefully he stays there

Update: He was shivering so I picked him up and put him in my only bathroom so he's away from my cats. He was mad af & left a serious bite on my arm but at least he wont freeze tonight. But now it's dangerous to pee so I bring a blanket with me to be a barrier between us. He's stretched out asleep on a blanket in there so at least he calmed down. I'll put him back outside first thing in the morning.
 
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Two days until my mom's two year death anniversary. Haven't been feeling too great lately.
 
Two days until my mom's two year death anniversary. Haven't been feeling too great lately.
I’m sorry. I hope that you will feel better eventually. 🫂




I did terrible in my interview. It was a panel interview, which I’ve never done before. It brought out my stage fright.
 
if i see my dead grandmother in my dreams one (1) more time, i’m simply going to stop sleeping. she’s literally haunting me.
 
My best friend's been talking smack about me, and it's circulated around to the point where my parents heard about it. Now they keep coming up to me and questioning me about the things my best friend said, even though I keep telling them that none of it is true. I don't want to confront my best friend about it 'cause I don't wanna cause any fights or more drama, but I'm still pretty pissed about the situation so I don't know what to do.
This is your best friend you're talking about. Ideally, your best friend would never talk ill of you behind your back or try to get you into trouble. Whether what they're gossiping about is true or not. Especially because in this case none of it is true.

People change. Sometimes for the worst. Honestly, you're better off without them. I don't know what's going on, how long you have been friends, if this is a new side or you're now just seeing the signs, but your own health is just as important. Take care of yourself. It's not your job to be your friend's crutch. I see so many times where people tell someone bringing this situation up to talk things through with their friend and it's like why? Why should you have to go the extra mile to someone who is being manipulatively toxic. From the little bit of times I come across your posts here, you come across as a fun, kind, and great individual. You deserve better.


I ended a friendship when someone I knew became alarmingly toxic. It was a slow build-up and I stayed longer than I should've. But I am better without them. The times I kept them in my company and or did anything with them I always left with my mood worst. And friends shouldn't be doing that to you mentally or physically.
 
My best friend's been talking smack about me, and it's circulated around to the point where my parents heard about it. Now they keep coming up to me and questioning me about the things my best friend said, even though I keep telling them that none of it is true. I don't want to confront my best friend about it 'cause I don't wanna cause any fights or more drama, but I'm still pretty pissed about the situation so I don't know what to do.
Why can't people just enjoy the friends they have instead of causing stupid drama with them? I just don't get some people. This person does not sound like any kind of friend I would want around. I think you should end the friendship for your benefit. You can do way better than a petty person like this.
 
Why can't people just enjoy the friends they have instead of causing stupid drama with them? I just don't get some people. This person does not sound like any kind of friend I would want around. I think you should end the friendship for your benefit. You can do way better than a petty person like this.
Exactly. It's the reason I left my one friend. I tried to be supportive of them and all they were going through, but after a while I had to step back, walk away, and focus on myself. Especially because the last year or so they would gaslight, name call/insult, and start wild accusations/one-sided arguments.

It's crazy that people like that can even get friends. I still sucks because I don't really think I had as close as a friendship as I had with them with anyone else, but it wasn't worth sticking around with how it was turning out.
 
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