What's Bothering You?

My cat died. I adopted him two weeks ago. He was sick, but never get well. I already lost 4 newborn, and now a 2,5 kitten. He's name was JinJa. Yesterday I was bullied, and now this... September isn't the best month for me.

Omg. I’m so sorry; sorry doesn’t even explain half how I feel. :( I hope you’ll accept my condolences and also my deepest sympathy. I was never really bullied per se but people would always spread rumors and talk about me in high school. Even now, I can’t let high school go or really think of anyone but some of my teachers fondly. I hope things get better for you, though i understand that it probably feels like it won’t after losing a cat; I’m not over losing two of mine they died almost exactly three years ago. Hearing about this makes me so sad :(.

This might be weird coming from a stranger but if you want to talk, feel free to dm me. Not sure what I can say to help you, but I would be happy to listen if you need to talk.

Hang in there.
 
Hey there! I’m sorry to hear about your kitten. He sounds like he was a really sweet cat. Also, bullies are so annoying and cruel. They usually just do it to feel better about themselves or they have nothing better to do. I wish you relief from this and a bright and better October!
Thank you, your reply made me feel better. I hope you have a great life

Omg. I’m so sorry; sorry doesn’t even explain half how I feel. :( I hope you’ll accept my condolences and also my deepest sympathy. I was never really bullied per se but people would always spread rumors and talk about me in high school. Even now, I can’t let high school go or really think of anyone but some of my teachers fondly. I hope things get better for you, though i understand that it probably feels like it won’t after losing a cat; I’m not over losing two of mine they died almost exactly three years ago. Hearing about this makes me so sad :(.

This might be weird coming from a stranger but if you want to talk, feel free to dm me. Not sure what I can say to help you, but I would be happy to listen if you need to talk.

Hang in there.
Thank you very much, for the offering and reply. I hope you have a great life too.

Bless you guys <3
 
You're Asian? My Aunt's Chinese Mother in law paid them a visit once. They noticed the cat was acting weird, turns out their visitor was giving the cat panic attacks.

Unfortunately yes, I am LOL

And that poor cat! ;;
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ALSO JFC WOULD IT KILL YOU TO JUST SHUT UP ABOUT THE DAMN POLITICS AND FAMILY GOSSIP AND JUST. BE INVOLVED. IN MY STUDIES????

It would be so nice of you guys to just ask how I'm doing with college or in general, really. Whatever. Don't rain on my parade *****es
 
scared for my exam tomorrow. idk what to expect at this point since it's online, the quizzes were damn hard but the samplex questions were okay so idk dhjsjdks i just wanna sleep this off

also whyyyy does my family push through with plans a day before my exams. I was free for a few weeks and kept asking about all those plans but they seriously only pushed it today when I have a pathology exam tomorrow. and mom's getting mad at me for stuff when I explicitely told her not to bother me today because i needed to focus. ugh
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also lmao random thing but i forgot to reply to my boyfriend the past 18 hours and he's sad. not that he's bothering me that much, tho i feel bad for being too fixated on my study goals to take a minute to reply to him LOL
 
What’s bothering me is nowhere as concerning or important as everyone else’s posts. I just want to post here to let off some steam.

I play this gacha game OPTC and I really hate how they make these additional lb nodes and the super evolution crystals for some units available in these really hard invasions (highest difficulty) battles. Tap timing is extremely important in this game and I suck at tap timing and can’t find or build a team that doesn’t require to hit all perfects. I like challenges but not challenges that i can’t do because my brain process is slow and I can’t follow the text well to time my tapping.

I kinda want to ask on the subreddit if anyone has a team and written walkthrough (not a youtube video since I can’t watch and play at the same time and i can’t keep track of what is happening and remember by the time i get to the point in the game) that is either easy to hit perfects with or doesn’t rely on perfects, but I just know I’m going to get downvoted ><.

I also want to add that i think the downvote button needs to seriously be removed.
 
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I literally just figured out a style I like but I keep getting criticised for anatomy mistakes ;;
Don't let it get to you honestly, anatomy is not everything unless you are lika a realistic full-body portrait painter or stuff. Keep going what you feel is nice and I've a feeling a lot of anatomy critics do it to make them feel better...
 
I’m not on the today’s birthdays widget :,( even the bell tree doesn’t care LoL

oh no!! happy birthday! i care and i hope you have a great day💙💙
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My cat died. I adopted him two weeks ago. He was sick, but never get well. I already lost 4 newborn, and now a 2,5 kitten. He's name was JinJa. Yesterday I was bullied, and now this... September isn't the best month for me.

oh my god. i’m so, so sorry. my pms are always open if you ever need someone to talk to; i can’t imagine how horrible everything must feel for you rn💔
 
My cat died. I adopted him two weeks ago. He was sick, but never get well. I already lost 4 newborn, and now a 2,5 kitten. He's name was JinJa. Yesterday I was bullied, and now this... September isn't the best month for me.
oh no I'm so so sorry to hear about this 😭😭😭 I've lost many cats in my lifetime and it's never an easy thing to go through, especially when they died really young/from some health conplication.
 
oh no I'm so so sorry to hear about this 😭😭😭 I've lost many cats in my lifetime and it's never an easy thing to go through, especially when they died really young/from some health conplication.
He was really young, and smart. We don't need to potty training him, he already know where to go. He didn't poop everywhere like many kittens do, He knows where to drink too. And this is my first time actually taking care a cat. Usually my mom is since I'm too busy with school.
 
"Why did grandpa call him?? Besides, he's not normal anyway!"

Alright, that's just RUDE. I bet you're referring to his depression, are ya? You may defend yourself by saying **** like "well us asian families like to tell the truth and its our culture" but bullcrap man. Saying that he's not NORMAL means that you guys don't know any ****ing thing about mental health. I don't think you meant anything by it since you're used to calling people with mental illnesses "crazy" or "not normal", but NEVER. EVER. USE THAT LINGO. *****.
Omg I swear, East Asian perspectives when it comes to depression, and mental illnesses in general is absolutely ****ed up. One time I asked my mom to see a therapist once because my friends said I was showing some serious signs of depression and she said that "therapists were for crazy people". Nowadays she gets super offended when I tell her I don't trust her to help me with my problems anymore lol.
 
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