What's Bothering You?

just realized how much work this semester is and i've been kinda slacking on long-term assignments this first month and i start working again tomorrow and i'm just so terrible with managing my time
 
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I am worried about so many things right now: that I annoyed someone and not just once but on many occasions without knowing. Anxiety never gives me a break. I keep forgetting to take deep breaths like my mom suggest which surprisingly helps when I remember.
 
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Where is my damn motivation.

How the hell am I supposed to get outta here if I don't believe in myself and pass my college classes.
well, think about you hopefully don't have to deal with your wack family if you actually get away from there. hope u can go back to college campus soon btw.
 
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I am worried about so many things right now: that I annoyed someone and not just once but on many occasions without knowing. Anxiety never gives me a break. I keep forgetting to take deep breaths like my mom suggest which surprisingly helps when I remember.
It’ll be ok. People are pretty understanding. I annoy people all the time on accident, but they always forgive me 🙃
 
It’ll be ok. People are pretty understanding. I annoy people all the time on accident, but they always forgive me 🙃

Thanks for that and for making me smile reading that :); yeah I know. My problem is that even though I know I shouldn’t care what others think of me and I tell myself that I don’t, I actually do. I probably am not being true to myself because of that but it’s is hard to control my thoughts and anxiety.
 
Edited: NM the first part.

I am worried about so many things right now: that I annoyed someone and not just once but on many occasions without knowing. Anxiety never gives me a break. I keep forgetting to take deep breaths like my mom suggest which surprisingly helps when I remember.

anxiety’s awful; i’m really sorry that you have to experience it. but if it makes you feel any better, i don’t find you annoying at all and enjoy seeing you around the forums and reading what you have to say about stuff :)
 
anxiety’s awful; i’m really sorry that you have to experience it. but if it makes you feel any better, i don’t find you annoying at all and enjoy seeing you around the forums and reading what you have to say about stuff :)

Thank you so much for the kind words; that really means a lot to me 😊. No need to be sorry; ^^ I wasn’t trying to make anyone feel bad for me. Just needed to take that deep breath like my mom suggests that I do. Talking to you all about these things though helps a lot, so thank you @xara & @Reneezombie both for listening and replying 😊. It means a lot. I enjoy seeing you both around as well and reading your posts. :) I just am really self conscious even though I feel like I’ve gotten more comfortable posting here.
 
unemployment anxiety just kill me pls : )

i swear being a high-functioning asperger's person and being squeezed between chairs really suck.. can i just get sick money or a job i can do but yeah either ain't happening LOL : )))))

I’m in the same boat and I have asperger’s. My problem is also the fact that I can’t do anything that any of the jobs require me like heavy lifting cleaning or food related since the smells make me nauseous and even seeing gum or spills of any type disgusts me. I’ve tried medical billing and have taken all the classes just no certification since it’s too expensive. I can’t drive either (i have a license but still scared to drive because of past accidents and no confidence in not getting lost). I also have social anxiety and can’t come up with answers to questions in even a few minutes.

I hope things work out for you. :/ It sucks not having money or a job. Sorry if this isn’t much help but I just wanted to let you know I’m in the same boat.
 
I’m in the same boat and I have asperger’s. My problem is also the fact that I can’t do anything that any of the jobs require me like heavy lifting cleaning or food related since the smells make me nauseous and even seeing gum or spills of any type disgusts me. I’ve tried medical billing and have taken all the classes just no certification since it’s too expensive. I can’t drive either (i have a license but still scared to drive because of past accidents and no confidence in not getting lost). I also have social anxiety and can’t come up with answers to questions in even a few minutes.

I hope things work out for you. :/ It sucks not having money or a job. Sorry if this isn’t much help but I just wanted to let you know I’m in the same boat.
Heyy! Of course it's helps, it's always good to talk to people in the same boat and to be honest it's a nice change from all those overly positive parents and people who basically force you to try. Ugh.

Yeah, I could probably have a job, but it would require some adjustments that are probably too "minor" to be considered that you would need help for (aka. crystal clear instructions, routines, not skipping to tell you anything, from how to fill in attendance to the final day etc.) because people never told me about that stuff how it's done. I tried applying for a regular job once but the employer was really fake and not serious so yeah no lol. And yeah I can't get sick money either cause "lol try for jobs and also u had a couple so **** you" basically when you try apply for it.

I dunno if I could even cook since that'd be a bit stressy but yeah I couldn't do heavy lifting or stressful jobs. And yeah no driving here either, I tried once but it's too much to keep track of tbf.

The job I had before I got unemployed was a good level of stress and good routines etc. but yeah it was just luck it fitted me so well..
 
I hate when someone talks about their problem and I (or anyone with introversion/autism/etc) talk about an experience I had that was similar and it's viewed by that person as a "competition of dialogue." like no, it's basically a way for us to put into words the high level of sympathy/empathy we feel for you. we're not trying to make your problem any less valid than it is. people who see that as a challenge and think that "oh they're making it to be all about themselves and not listening to me" are just being ridiculous and ignorant.
 
I hate when someone talks about their problem and I (or anyone with introversion/autism/etc) talk about an experience I had that was similar and it's viewed by that person as a "competition of dialogue." like no, it's basically a way for us to put into words the high level of sympathy/empathy we feel for you. we're not trying to make your problem any less valid than it is. people who see that as a challenge and think that "oh they're making it to be all about themselves and not listening to me" are just being ridiculous and ignorant.
Ugh yes i hate this so much, or when people casually compete about whose experience is the worst etc.
 
It hurts my heart to see how many people are going through so much. My heart goes out to everyone here in a big way in this thread. If I hit like, it simply means I sympathize/empathize very much with your situation and am trying to show support and that you're not alone. I just wanted to say so.
 
It hurts my heart to see how many people are going through so much. My heart goes out to everyone here in a big way in this thread. If I hit like, it simply means I sympathize/empathize very much with your situation and am trying to show support and that you're not alone. I just wanted to say so.
Same here, I just like pretty much every post here to support people ^^; I always hope that it doesn’t come off as creepy lol 💕
 
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