What's Bothering You?
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that’s awful. i’ll keep her in my thoughts - sending many good vibes your way!
Thanks xara, it's really appreciated and the good vibes too.
So sorry to hear this. Your poor wee niece
. Been through quarantine with A and it is frustrating just waiting . More good vibes from this side of the pond 
Looking for a new apartment is stressful
So moving apartments is stressful yeah ~ but here's the real scoop for anyone who cares to read this and mostly just for me to vent
Told my landlord back in November we were going to be moving this summer for sure because this place isn't working out (too small otherwise it is nice here). Landlord already found a new tenant for after our lease so we gotta go by the end of May, there is no option to sign on for more time here. Sounds all fine, I didn't want to stay here any longer anyway BUT THEN our situation changed and now we might have an opportunity to move back to the city we were living in previously. But we would need some more time to coordinate a move between cities and my partner would need to get a transfer through his work and all that. So that all kinda puts us in an annoying spot where I've already committed to leaving this place, but it's too short of notice to try to move cities so we are just going to have to sign on to a new apartment in our current city which is not my fav :/
As far as the actual searching.. it seems that everything that is posted at the moment is all from those giant rental companies that want your entire life story for the rental application. I get why they do that and all but I feel like I don't look great on paper because it seems like all they look for is $$$. I always pay on time and don't break anything, any of my references would tell them that but I don't make the big bucks so I guess that isn't appealing. All of my previous landlords have been great people and not giant rental companies so I am hoping to find a good person again but it seems like it's a lot more difficult this time around for some reason.
Aaaaaand my mental health is just garbage lately which makes acting all functional and cheery in all of these interactions with the landlords, building management, etc., just extra exhausting. I can't even really pinpoint why I've been feeling so low lately but it has sure come at a bad time. I've tried to get my partner to help out more with the email communications and stuff but he's just really bad at emails lol which is not usually an issue but currently it is
Told my landlord back in November we were going to be moving this summer for sure because this place isn't working out (too small otherwise it is nice here). Landlord already found a new tenant for after our lease so we gotta go by the end of May, there is no option to sign on for more time here. Sounds all fine, I didn't want to stay here any longer anyway BUT THEN our situation changed and now we might have an opportunity to move back to the city we were living in previously. But we would need some more time to coordinate a move between cities and my partner would need to get a transfer through his work and all that. So that all kinda puts us in an annoying spot where I've already committed to leaving this place, but it's too short of notice to try to move cities so we are just going to have to sign on to a new apartment in our current city which is not my fav :/
As far as the actual searching.. it seems that everything that is posted at the moment is all from those giant rental companies that want your entire life story for the rental application. I get why they do that and all but I feel like I don't look great on paper because it seems like all they look for is $$$. I always pay on time and don't break anything, any of my references would tell them that but I don't make the big bucks so I guess that isn't appealing. All of my previous landlords have been great people and not giant rental companies so I am hoping to find a good person again but it seems like it's a lot more difficult this time around for some reason.
Aaaaaand my mental health is just garbage lately which makes acting all functional and cheery in all of these interactions with the landlords, building management, etc., just extra exhausting. I can't even really pinpoint why I've been feeling so low lately but it has sure come at a bad time. I've tried to get my partner to help out more with the email communications and stuff but he's just really bad at emails lol which is not usually an issue but currently it is
Can my body PLEASE stop waking up half an hour to an hour before my alarm is supoosed to go off? I can't go back to sleep ffs.
Also lately my left knee has been bothering me again, thou idk. Which is why I call it my stupid knee.
Also lately my left knee has been bothering me again, thou idk. Which is why I call it my stupid knee.
me on both ugh.
this bothers me too, i feel like an idiot ; o ; was hoping the warning would disappear when it expires but i guess not :c
Yeah, it’s crazy. The city I’m going to is supposed to be relatively cheap, too.It’s absolutely disgusting what apartments charge. Especially considering how difficult it is to own a home these days.
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I took a shower and thought it would help with my allergies and i came out ridiculously itchy. I took some Benadryl and I’m still really itchy. What the heck
I hope your allergies got better! They’re so unpredictable sometimes.
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I don’t like this username~
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So sorry to hear this. Your poor wee niece
Thank you Roxxy, your thoughts and good vibes are really appreciated too.
I'm sure she'll do fine, thinking positively.
Thank you! Good luck looking for places!
I am so terrified of my ex sending threats or making something angry about me. They already made a bitter breakup playlist with songs about me supposedly cheating and how they want wanting revenge (even though I was blocked first)... who knows what could happen? They used to check my Spotify playlists and Discord statuses religiously, so I’ve purposefully left them empty.
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I can’t go into the details here but my feelings were hurt about something just now. I really wanted to say something but I didn’t want to get in trouble.
