What's Bothering You?

[Dunquixote]

Hope you feel better tomorrow.

Thanks so much!

I was hoping to forget, but it was the first thing I remembered when I woke up to give my cat her medicine. Not going be a good day. Jaw is still hurting and my head is throbbing still.

Incredibly annoyed also at my internet if it is that. It was taking forever to load first the site and then whatever I clicked on.

 

[jiny]

i wake up so early now just so i can have more time to talk w this friend i made but we don’t even really talk that much im just so tired but i rly want to talk to him so i stay up hoping he’ll reply soon

 

[VanitasFan26]

Throughout my life I was told that I was "too fat and needed to lose weight" eventually I started to get tired of it and work on myself so hard to lose weight. For the past 5 months I have been doing daily exercise, eating healthy, and cutting out so many junk foods. I was on the right path, but the moment I go to my doctor he "fat shames" me because of how high my weight is instead of telling me how my blood results were improved.

I really wonder why Doctors continue to weight lecture people because its something that really happens too often where they often criticize your weight constantly to the point where it affects your mental health. I suffered so much from the advice that doctor gave me to "do better" it really made me feel worthless about all my hard work for nothing. I do not want to be around doctors who continue to fat shame or weight lecture you all the time, I just want to have a doctor who is supporting me on my health and not trying to worry so much about the weight.

 

[_Rainy_]

Throughout my life I was told that I was "too fat and needed to lose weight" eventually I started to get tired of it and work on myself so hard to lose weight. For the past 5 months I have been doing daily exercise, eating healthy, and cutting out so many junk foods. I was on the right path, but the moment I go to my doctor he "fat shames" me because of how high my weight is instead of telling me how my blood results were improved.

I really wonder why Doctors continue to weight lecture people because its something that really happens too often where they often criticize your weight constantly to the point where it affects your mental health. I suffered so much from the advice that doctor gave me to "do better" it really made me feel worthless about all my hard work for nothing. I do not want to be around doctors who continue to fat shame or weight lecture you all the time, I just want to have a doctor who is supporting me on my health and not trying to worry so much about the weight.

I hope you can find a new doctor if you’re feeling better health wise from being healthier isn’t that the main point of it all?

It’s so hot where I’m working today. They have ac, but they aren’t using. Their kids showed me where it is and told me to turn it on if I get too hot, but idk if I’d be over stepping. Plus I like to clean more than I should because I like to stay busy and also they can’t do a lot of it. Also their daughters both have MS so they can’t do a lot of it either, they have their own houses to clean.

 

[King koopa]

I'm freezing cold... the ac in my room is way too cold but I don't know how to turn it down

 

[Dunquixote]

I still want to hide on a corner. Just woke up and feel like crap. I have to see my family though who are here visiting and have a trade to do.

My head is throbbing still and my jaw hurts so bad.

So pissed and embarrassed; feel so stupid even though I know this happened to at least two other people I know. I’m stupid for forgetting. Still depressed too though my mood has picked up more.

 

[Princess Mipha]

Still no news about the person that I bought the Tamagotchi from..

Also one of my cats just decided to try if my headphones cable is eatable.. I'm lucky that I had another cable leftover for some reason.
Goddamnit, I hate when she does that >->

 

[-Blue-]

I don't know what is going on, but if your head hurts drinking some water can alleviate the pain a bit. I know that's probably a moot point with everything that is happening. I do hope you feel better! Again, probably not what you want to hear. Sorry that your day is so rough.

@Vrisnem Yikes, that sounds painful about all those extra needles and the such. I read a comment of yours here about being too tired to get out of bed. I am guessing that is because of this. Hope you can feel better as quickly as possible.

@Princess Mipha How long has it been and did they take your money already? Or is it like stuck with some bad carrier service? I've never had any good luck with FedEx. It's always super late and the boxes always looked like they took turns kicking it.

Also what about like spraying some bitter flavor on the cables that are pet-safe? That's a thing right?

 

[Princess Mipha]

@Princess Mipha How long has it been and did they take your money already? Or is it like stuck with some bad carrier service? I've never had any good luck with FedEx. It's always super late and the boxes always looked like they took turns kicking it.

Also what about like spraying some bitter flavor on the cables that are pet-safe? That's a thing right?

I have sent the money two days ago and after she finally understood to send it as a letter (the same day) she said she printed everything and sent it and since then she didn't answer anymore.. I could understand that someone is busy, but you can see on the website when someone is online and read your message.. also she didn't bother removing the ad either, that it's sold.. I will still wait until Monday to see if she will answer and if not I guess I have to see with my bank, if they can do anything. Her bank account, etc. looks legit and she doesn't has bad ratings, so I don't really understand what's going on.

And yeah, there are sprays like this, but out of the three cats, the only one that is biting cables is also the only one that doesn't bother about this kind of stuff. I even tried to rub and place orange peels around cables once, as she absolutely hates this smell.. didn't work, cable tastes too good I guess.

 

[-Blue-]

It's also a holiday weekend. So they may have sent it and it's just backed up with the mail carriers now.

I'm still waiting on a package that was supposed to be delivered like Monday or Tuesday and it just kept getting switched around until now it's just pending without a confirmed date. Happens every time I order something from someone who deals with FedEx. I really should pay more attention to who they use as a carrier and then opt out if it's FedEx lol.

 

[Princess Mipha]

It's also a holiday weekend. So they may have sent it and it's just backed up with the mail carriers now.

I'm still waiting on a package that was supposed to be delivered like Monday or Tuesday and it just kept getting switched around until now it's just pending without a confirmed date. Happens every time I order something from someone who deals with FedEx. I really should pay more attention to who they use as a carrier and then opt out if it's FedEx lol.

Yeah, that's possible. The only problem I have, is that I asked for a tracked letter and when I asked for the tracking number, she never replied anymore, but was online and even read my messages.

 

[King koopa]

It's also a holiday weekend. So they may have sent it and it's just backed up with the mail carriers now.

I'm still waiting on a package that was supposed to be delivered like Monday or Tuesday and it just kept getting switched around until now it's just pending without a confirmed date. Happens every time I order something from someone who deals with FedEx. I really should pay more attention to who they use as a carrier and then opt out if it's FedEx lol.

Yeah I don't like FedEx either. One time my mom ordered amiibo cards of Julian, ankha, ribbot and coco from some woman in Florida and we bought them on June 26 of last year and they didn't come untill July 15 so I think the next time me or my mom order amiibo cards, we're gonna have them use ups or something to deliver. It could have been a covid issue last year, but I'm still staying away from FedEx for a while

 

[oak]

Throughout my life I was told that I was "too fat and needed to lose weight" eventually I started to get tired of it and work on myself so hard to lose weight. For the past 5 months I have been doing daily exercise, eating healthy, and cutting out so many junk foods. I was on the right path, but the moment I go to my doctor he "fat shames" me because of how high my weight is instead of telling me how my blood results were improved.

I really wonder why Doctors continue to weight lecture people because its something that really happens too often where they often criticize your weight constantly to the point where it affects your mental health. I suffered so much from the advice that doctor gave me to "do better" it really made me feel worthless about all my hard work for nothing. I do not want to be around doctors who continue to fat shame or weight lecture you all the time, I just want to have a doctor who is supporting me on my health and not trying to worry so much about the weight.

Sorry to hear about this. I understand personally being shamed by doctors for being fat. One thing I've learned is that all doctors treat over weight peopke the same. They are all logic, no emotion. Probably cause they've been interacting with the public makes them less empathetic. My doctor roasted me when I almost hit 250lbs and said "let's talk about the elephant in the room, you're extremely obese". I was like daannngg girlll, that's harsh.

All of us know you've been working hard on being healthy so try not to let your doctor's words get under your skin. I bet your doctor is skinny and has never battled constant weight gain. I believe in you so just keep on trucking, and maybe think about getting a new doctor if this one isn't working.

 

[Dunquixote]

I woke up over an hour ago and still have zero energy. zero motivation to do anything either considering how I feel about everything now.

i tried doing doing this one mode in my game with a team that was posted with one replacement since I don’t have it, and I messed up but even had I not i still don’t think the unit i don’t have can be replaced. i hate when i find a team i want to use but i can’t because i’m missing one unit. i’ve tried a few other teams but did not work for me because I suck at tap timing or for unknown reasons.

 

[jiny]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

 

[Dunquixote]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

I’m sorry to hear that. I want to say to try not to waste your energy worrying about them since they don’t seem to want to give you a second thought, but I understand how hard that is to not let that bother you since I’ve experienced that at some point myself and I know it made me feel like I did something wrong even though I knew I didn’t do anything. At least you know now how committed to being a friend they are before you committed more of your energy and time on them; just would hate for you to end up being more hurt. I know that isn’t a good enough consolation. :/ Sorry. My dms are open if you want to talk more about it.

 

[VanitasFan26]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

I know how that feels. I had that happened to me many times.

 

[AccfSally]

I hate instant noodles, I got sick on Thursday and stuff and now I'm (trying) to eat them.
I can't stand the taste. >_<

 

[Dunquixote]

I still have not been able to pull myself away from twitter. An artist I like returned and I posted something first saying she didn’t need to apologize for being away and then how much she inspired me to start drawing, but now I’m nervous that I picked a bad time to post that even though I thought it might cheer her up since she has been dealing with a lot, so I want to delete it but i am trying to fight it since I delete pretty much all my replies to her stuff since i always feel like i’m being awkward. Edit: I ended up deleting the second tweet. just soundef too weird

sad about something that has been getting me down lately and i feel silly for letting it get to me this much. i knew this would happen yet i still somehow got my hopes up :/

The baby voice my dad talks to my nieces in sounds so weird.

Bothered by so much other stuff

Edit: took some medicine when I got up and my jaw and head still hurt though not as bad.

My dad just came in to tell me in 30 minutes we’re doing cat treatment and idk why, it just pissed me off.

I’m tired and dealing with depression again.

I wish my nieces would not come in to see me. :/ I just don’t feel good.

 

[ali.di.magix]

Throughout my life I was told that I was "too fat and needed to lose weight" eventually I started to get tired of it and work on myself so hard to lose weight. For the past 5 months I have been doing daily exercise, eating healthy, and cutting out so many junk foods. I was on the right path, but the moment I go to my doctor he "fat shames" me because of how high my weight is instead of telling me how my blood results were improved.

I really wonder why Doctors continue to weight lecture people because its something that really happens too often where they often criticize your weight constantly to the point where it affects your mental health. I suffered so much from the advice that doctor gave me to "do better" it really made me feel worthless about all my hard work for nothing. I do not want to be around doctors who continue to fat shame or weight lecture you all the time, I just want to have a doctor who is supporting me on my health and not trying to worry so much about the weight.

I used to have a doctor who would give me unsolicited advice about losing weight when I wasn't even trying to lose weight. He'd lecture me almost every time I went to see him. At the time I was quite sensitive about that stuff as well, so I didn't take it very well. Since then I've found a doctor that doesn't judge me or blame everything on my weight, and has even helped me with issues that I didn't think had solutions. I hope you find a doctor like that too! It's not on having such an unsupported doctor. It sounds to me that you've made quite a bit of progress with your weight loss and that's something you should be proud of!