What's Bothering You?

[Dunquixote]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

I’m sorry to hear that. I want to say to try not to waste your energy worrying about them since they don’t seem to want to give you a second thought, but I understand how hard that is to not let that bother you since I’ve experienced that at some point myself and I know it made me feel like I did something wrong even though I knew I didn’t do anything. At least you know now how committed to being a friend they are before you committed more of your energy and time on them; just would hate for you to end up being more hurt. I know that isn’t a good enough consolation. :/ Sorry. My dms are open if you want to talk more about it.

 

[VanitasFan26]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

I know how that feels. I had that happened to me many times.

 

[AccfSally]

I hate instant noodles, I got sick on Thursday and stuff and now I'm (trying) to eat them.
I can't stand the taste. >_<

 

[Dunquixote]

I still have not been able to pull myself away from twitter. An artist I like returned and I posted something first saying she didn’t need to apologize for being away and then how much she inspired me to start drawing, but now I’m nervous that I picked a bad time to post that even though I thought it might cheer her up since she has been dealing with a lot, so I want to delete it but i am trying to fight it since I delete pretty much all my replies to her stuff since i always feel like i’m being awkward. Edit: I ended up deleting the second tweet. just soundef too weird

sad about something that has been getting me down lately and i feel silly for letting it get to me this much. i knew this would happen yet i still somehow got my hopes up :/

The baby voice my dad talks to my nieces in sounds so weird.

Bothered by so much other stuff

Edit: took some medicine when I got up and my jaw and head still hurt though not as bad.

My dad just came in to tell me in 30 minutes we’re doing cat treatment and idk why, it just pissed me off.

I’m tired and dealing with depression again.

I wish my nieces would not come in to see me. :/ I just don’t feel good.

 

[ali.di.magix]

Throughout my life I was told that I was "too fat and needed to lose weight" eventually I started to get tired of it and work on myself so hard to lose weight. For the past 5 months I have been doing daily exercise, eating healthy, and cutting out so many junk foods. I was on the right path, but the moment I go to my doctor he "fat shames" me because of how high my weight is instead of telling me how my blood results were improved.

I really wonder why Doctors continue to weight lecture people because its something that really happens too often where they often criticize your weight constantly to the point where it affects your mental health. I suffered so much from the advice that doctor gave me to "do better" it really made me feel worthless about all my hard work for nothing. I do not want to be around doctors who continue to fat shame or weight lecture you all the time, I just want to have a doctor who is supporting me on my health and not trying to worry so much about the weight.

I used to have a doctor who would give me unsolicited advice about losing weight when I wasn't even trying to lose weight. He'd lecture me almost every time I went to see him. At the time I was quite sensitive about that stuff as well, so I didn't take it very well. Since then I've found a doctor that doesn't judge me or blame everything on my weight, and has even helped me with issues that I didn't think had solutions. I hope you find a doctor like that too! It's not on having such an unsupported doctor. It sounds to me that you've made quite a bit of progress with your weight loss and that's something you should be proud of!

 

[-Blue-]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

Yeah I saw your one comment from earlier today. It sounded like the red flags from the one friend I mentioned here that would just ghost me and flake on plans at the last second and or just not bother to tell me they couldn't make it (or most likely didn't bother/want to)

Sucks that happened and that you have to deal with that. It's hard to do so, but you are better off forgetting about them. Just like that one 'friend' of mine, they didn't give you any respect.

And it's honestly disgusting how much we have normalized that kind of behavior. Whenever I would see one of these kinds of situations on a forum or answer site of some sort there would be people always trying to defend it. It's like no...use communication and stop making excuses for being a bad 'friend'.


I'm sorry that you're going through that right now. It may not mean much, but you're not alone when it comes to this.

 

[a potato]

I keep trying to look for tutoring opportunities, but nothing is coming up on my profile. It really stinks because I have to sit at the computer instead of being more productive.

 

[Foreverfox]

I don't know if I'd say it's "bothering" me, but I'm very anxious/excited to hear back about something and I hope I get it.

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

just annoyed at how long it took to get the color just right for my mom's business card. Even though I was working in CMYK in illustrator, every time I saved as a PDF the color would drastically change.

also i'm so cold!!

 

[Bloodflowers]

it’s not that hot here but the humidity is in the 90s, that’s just unnecessary
it’s more tolerable in the living room so i’m trying to sleep on the couch but it’s not very comfortable
central europe really needs to embrace air conditioning because fans aren’t enough anymore

 

[LuchaSloth]

I think I broke my foot like a month ago, and just...didn't realize when it happened, I guess.

I don't know. There is is no "event" that stands out as having done anything to my foot...and it's not in any sort of extreme pain. But, it has the strangest dull pain when I turn it a certain way, and it's just been like that for at least a month. I've sprained my ankle plenty of times...so I know it's not that kind of feeling. It's just really hard to explain. But...oh well. It really doesn't hurt that bad. I'm just intrigued by it. Lol.

 

[King koopa]

My neighbors are having a cookout (in the middle of the night) and their blasting music! At 12am! As much as I like music, even i wouldn't blast it in the middle of the night, waking everyone up!

 

[Shawna]

We had to get McDonald's for dinner because of a power outage preventing us from cooking dinner, and oh man, I'd forgotten how awful this food was?? After a large order of fries, I still feel like I haven't eaten anything, but also I feel vaguely sick now too, as a little bonus. Blegh.

I would have loved to trade with you. I love McDonald's!

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Anyway, my neighbors keep setting off firecrackers. I am trying to enjoy a quiet night, since I rarely get those (my brother is usually blasting music and talking amongst himself to his friends on XOBX during the night), but noooooo! My neighbors thought it would be cute to do this a day early. I kinda have to agree with with @-Lumi- about how only companies should be allowed to by fireworks, and how they should only set off at public displays.

And I am very jumpy too. Like, it will be all quiet, and all of a sudden...**BOOM** **BOOM **BOOM**

 

[Neb]

I’m really tired of being heckled whenever I wear a mask during my walks. Sometimes it’s nasty people I went to school with and other times it’s just nasty couples that dislike mask mandates. My noise cancelling headphones make it impossible to hear them now, but I still feel the glares…

 

[Dunquixote]

i’m feeling a little better. still bothered by so many things, but am honestly too mentally exhausted and don’t want to actively think about it.

Feel bad for not coming out much today and how I acted anxious when my family were doing some small fireworks for my nieces. i had a trade to do right at that time. thankfully the person I trade with understood and were patient. My sister and her husband are going home tomorrow but my nieces will be here a few more days I think.

 

[_Rainy_]

Never mind

 

[_Rainy_]

Doesn’t matter

 

[Chris]

@Vrisnem Yikes, that sounds painful about all those extra needles and the such. I read a comment of yours here about being too tired to get out of bed. I am guessing that is because of this. Hope you can feel better as quickly as possible.

I wish it was just tiredness! I've intense muscular pain in one calf and any movement makes it spasm. Today is the third or fourth day I've been mostly confined to my bed and I'm already bored out of my mind. Need to somehow make it to the local doctor's surgery tomorrow for more injections and I've no idea how that's going to work.

I think I broke my foot like a month ago, and just...didn't realize when it happened, I guess.

I don't know. There is is no "event" that stands out as having done anything to my foot...and it's not in any sort of extreme pain. But, it has the strangest dull pain when I turn it a certain way, and it's just been like that for at least a month. I've sprained my ankle plenty of times...so I know it's not that kind of feeling. It's just really hard to explain. But...oh well. It really doesn't hurt that bad. I'm just intrigued by it. Lol.

If you had broken a bone in your foot you would have been aware of it when it happened, if not shortly after. Even if it hadn't bled there would have been a noticeable immune response leading to heat, swelling, and pain. Even if it seems minor it's worth getting checked out. Dull aches can be indicative of a whole range of problems - some serious, some less serious. e.g. the arch of my right foot occasionally spasms when I'm trying to fall asleep at night and turns out that it was an indicator of a vitamin deficiency.

 

[-Lumi-]

Had a terrible dream. Sometimes I have weird dreams or slightly off dreams but that one was bad. I’m so tired it feels like I didnt sleep. And my shoulder still hurts. I’m just grumpy

 

[Alienfish]

me never learning not to eat fatty food combos ... and i'll not go into the details here but i slept for like max. 4 hours and rest was in the bathroom. LOL.

(feelin better now though but gdi lol)