I feel all of you immensely. I don't know if my words will be of any relief, but I'm also feeling bogged down myself, so I at least wanted to let the three of you know that you aren't alone. ❤ And the fact that your posts are right next to each other is especially telling of that! So I truly sympathize, and even empathize, with whatever you may be going through/feeling. Just know/remember that tough times are always temporary, even if it doesn't seem that way and like they will last forever. But they don't, and they won't. As the saying goes, change is the only constant. And I sincerely hope and pray that everything will turn out just fine for you three.
I'm sure they will! Things can only get better, no matter the time it takes.