What's Bothering You?

[Chris]

Spoiler: Death

Still sad about my cousin who got shot 3 years ago and I witnessed it, but never told anyone. He didn't have any weapons but still was shot. I wish I had done something but it's too late now. That and being bullied for being black in 7th grade because I was in a mostly white school and that trauma kept me from joining the site in 2018, because I figured the bullying would continue, and that's also why my emotions are unstable

If that ever happens on TBT you are more than welcome to come to me. We don't tolerate discrimination on here and your school shouldn't have tolerated it either.

 

[Princess Mipha]

Currentlt waiting at the doctor, I think last checkup before the big day of birth. I'm just soooo thirsty and can't stand up, because I could get called in any second

Also I was literally alone and somehow I'm still waiting and he took someone else before me now? xD

 

[Princess Mipha]

I would like to say, that I have never felt that bad since I've endured the bullying in school 9 years ago.
So, after the doctor I had to see someone who explains me the anesthesie that you can get for birth.
Literally the only thing I asked of him is to speak a bit slower, so that I can understand, as it's obviously something important.
He immediatelly started to be tilted. Asked why the **** I even come to the appointement if I "cant speak french", why my partner
isn't there if I'm too dumb to speak the language, etc. I ONLY ASKED HIM TO SPEAK SLOWER. I DO SPEAK FRENCH. I DO UNDERSTAND FRENCH. I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE'S SAYING ESPECIALLY WITH THE MASKS IT'S EVEN HARDER TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE IN GENERAL. And then he literally ****talks my fiancé for being busy with work instead of coming to the appointement to "translate" for me.. like **** off? Guess what. I understood everything perfectly fine and could answer every question, even though I was already at my limit of holding back the tears. Once this awful appointement was over he went instantly to his collegue to ****talk me even more for being unable to speak french, that it's unacceptable to be like that, etc. I wish there was a way to report this doctor for his disgusting behavior. He literally made me cry for 30+ minutes in the parking, because I felt so bad about how much he decided to bully me and even commenting about my fiancé having to work instead of coming to the appointement. I am praying that I will never have to see this awful awful face of his ever again in my life.

 

[Chris]

...I wish there was a way to report this doctor for his disgusting behavior...

Do it. Speak to the receptionist/administrative staff that work there and find out how you can submit a formal complaint. That was extremely unprofessional and is under no circumstances acceptable for a doctor to speak to or about his patient in that manner.

 

[Princess Mipha]

Do it. Speak to the receptionist/administrative staff that work there and find out how you can submit a formal complaint. That was extremely unprofessional and is under no circumstances acceptable for a doctor to speak to or about his patient in that manner.

I didn't think that would be possible, but I will definitely try that. Thanks!

 

[Bloodflowers]

@Princess Mipha I’m so sorry that happened to you. Definitely make a formal complaint.
Stuff like this is why I dont trust doctors. Time and time again they’ve treated me like I’m trash because I suffer from mental illness. It’s not right. I’m sending positive energy to you and your baby

 

[Alienfish]

I never got into neopets but those kacheeks are absolutely adorable. I used to have a little green one I could clip to a backpack. now I want another one lol.


I didn't hear from my friend at all today, hope he's okay still thinking about him...

Yeah I like them but luckily I only had to do a close.up with its face... got a bit chubby but hope my collab partner likes it lol!

 

[-Lumi-]

Oh my tummy is upset again. It was upset for about a week and now lately it’s been upset in the mornings. It’s super lousy.

 

[TillyGoesMeow]

I'm not sure if I'm so bad at interacting with people because I use to have such terrible social anxiety & i'll just never really be use to being 'normal', or if it's something else. I act like such a robot when interacting with people I swear.

 

[oak]

Spoiler

So I have 3 weird lumps growing around my eyes and the doctor said it's not life threatening and most likely just fat deposits or due to a cholesterol problem, which I will be getting under control. The only problem now is that I need the growths removed because they are embarrassing and you can see them plain as day when you look at my face, but the goverment is saying the bumps are "superficial". This means canada's universal health care doesn't cover the cost at all and the procedure will have to come out of pocket. I shouldn't complain cause the cost will be max a couple hundred bucks but it still sucks. And having bad cholesterol at 27 is also bad lmao. It runs in my family and I'm fat so it's the perfect cholesterol storm. Damn u cholesterol

 

[a potato]

Packing makes me feel really sad. I’m excited for a change, but it’s so scary to deal with in the moment.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

really should talk to someone but I'm so embarrassed and nervous, im also afraid to open up to my mom.
idk what to do

 

[jiny]

i really wanted to try and stay friends w my ex but i don’t think it can work out anymore. he doesn’t put in the effort to talk to me, even though he said he would when we broke up. my parents have told me to move on but i cant. it’s really hard

 

[Foreverfox]

Currentlt waiting at the doctor, I think last checkup before the big day of birth. I'm just soooo thirsty and can't stand up, because I could get called in any second

Also I was literally alone and somehow I'm still waiting and he took someone else before me now? xD

Just want to let you know, if you don't have any or many friends with babies or kids where you live, you can always talk to me about "new mom" stuff I know what it's like not having any friends with babies or kids after having my son. It sucked and I wish I'd know someone I could have just asked if I was crazy or not for thinking something or another. I'll be thinking about you and hoping for a safe and healthy delivery! (also, sorry your doctor was so rude and unprofessional.)

 

[Dunquixote]

Spoiler

Just dealing with some swings. I’ll be fine for a bit, then waves of depression/despair, or annoyance hit me. Also becoming anxious about a garage sale my parents are having and my niece’s birthday party.

 

[jiny]

i really wanted to try and stay friends w my ex but i don’t think it can work out anymore. he doesn’t put in the effort to talk to me, even though he said he would when we broke up. my parents have told me to move on but i cant. it’s really hard

ok so like i talked it out w him and we decided it’s best that we’re not friends anymore, atleast not right now. he told me hes stopped having feelings for me sooo i need to move on and i think not having any contact w him would be best

 

[ali.di.magix]

The other day I wore leggings with a mesh strip around my leg to work, and the mosquitoes must've flocked to that tiny patch of skin shown and bitten me. I've got about 5 bites on each leg and they're so damn itchy and swollen

 

[Neb]

Whelp. The smoke from the forest fires have reached my city. I can’t even go outside without it smelling like a musty campfire. Sometimes the smoke will leak in the apartment and it makes it harder to breathe. I guess that’s the reality of living on the west coast now.

 

[Dunquixote]

Spoiler: kinda personal

Woke up to pain on left side of my jaw and also severe anxiety.
my cat kept spitting out her medicine a bit ago when i gave it to her.
my mom keeps coming in here and startling me. i have a white noise machine so can’t hear here approaching; not helping with my anxiety ><

i feel so crappy right now; stayed up too late again

 

[moo_nieu]

feeling anxious about life