What's Bothering You?
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DarkDesertFox
Your Typical Trickster
I'm not sure how many people are religious on here, but I am asking for a prayer request for me. Just been going through a lot of heartache and pain lately for someone I really still love. I haven't been able to focus on work or eat very well. I need the strength to cope with whatever happens and I'm having a really hard time finding it until it does happen. This, combined with my work stress has just been eating me away lately. I want to feel happy again.
Definitely been there before. 2017 was the biggest it hit me too and I also juggled work, lost 20 pounds grieving in two weeks, couldn't eat anything just wanted to throw it all up. Heartbreak is no joke but I promise you, time really does heal you. It took me a while, probably a lot less of time because of support around me, but if you're dealing with it alone, just know that you'll be okay, just gotta push through the months. Take up some hobbies again and just keep moving forward and you'll see the days getting lighter. Just be patient and give it time.
DarkDesertFox
Your Typical Trickster
I got you, bro. I hope that it all works out and that you feel better soon.
Thank you so much... it really means a lot to me.
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Thank you so much for the encouragement! Time really does heal everything. The hardest part is this is someone I still want to stay friends with because I really cherish our relationship. So if she ends up with this other person it will be incredibly difficult for me to overcome those feelings. I may just need to spend some time apart to heal by myself.
I was actually trying to stay friends with the person too, I'll always say, it's a bad idea. From my experience, staying friends has done more damage than anything good, and imo, it's just the feelings of wanting them there in your life making you feel the need to keep a relationship with them. If they're going to be dating someone new, it'll definitely only be hurting you and on top of that, the relationship/friendship will never be the same, especially since they have their new relationship to maintain and prioritize. Just focus on what's best for you and what's going to make YOU happy. If they're not thinking about you and your best interests don't stress yourself with upkeeping them. It's all about you right now king.
Since my province is flooded, all the roads leading out of Vancouver are closed and we're basically trapped. Even all the ships at my work are idle. I went to walmart to get some stuff and the whole meat department was cleared out except one pork tenderlion for $47 which is insane. I ended up walking out with nothing. At least the pet food store was stocked up and I got cat food.
My country corruption is so bad but our voice as poor citizen re totally shut down and unheard. Now all the politician is tumbling the country with mass corruption but their main focus issue is some liquor name and and licensed gambling den as well as the benefit of their own race (actually nothing about the race is all politician benefit and stage show sound like it). Truly upset that nobody can do anything cause the one at top always win.
Hopeless Opus
diluc is my king
*ahem*
i'm traumatized, your honor.
i'm traumatized, your honor.
Millysaurusrexjr
standing on business
just feeling very stressed out and depressed. don't really want to go in to the specifics
ali.di.magix
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I was so sleepy when I got home from work and after dinner, but now it’s 1:30am and I can’t sleep 
it’s been like this for a while week or two now and I don’t understand why my sleeping habits suck so much right now
it’s been like this for a while week or two now and I don’t understand why my sleeping habits suck so much right now
Lady Timpani
sway
Been feeling really unwell the last couple days. I can't tell if it's work stress or something actually physically wrong with me, but it's been sucking.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Been kind of swamped with life. Haven't been too active, and this is one of the ongoing situations I've been dealing with, but my state is slamming me with a zoning violation. Some butthole neighbor complained how the firewood that I use to provide heat to my house hurts their Karen eyes.
But mine is not a violation and I'm trying to fight it because I need that to provide warmth to my house. It's insane because a bunch of other houses nearby also have stacks of wood for the same reason, but they're targeting just me. I asked them and they said it was because they just got a complaint on me. I could understand it if it looked trashy, but everything is neat and organized.
Winters are brutal where I live. I can't afford to just turn on the heat. People think the process from tree to firewood is easy, but it's a grinding and laborious task. I spent the entire year preparing it for the winter only to be told by the government I can't have it, I can't use it for heat, and they'd rather see me freeze. This on top of everything else I am handling is just too much. I really want to be more active here, because I like the place and you guys, but stuff like this is just sucking the life out of me.
But mine is not a violation and I'm trying to fight it because I need that to provide warmth to my house. It's insane because a bunch of other houses nearby also have stacks of wood for the same reason, but they're targeting just me. I asked them and they said it was because they just got a complaint on me. I could understand it if it looked trashy, but everything is neat and organized.
Winters are brutal where I live. I can't afford to just turn on the heat. People think the process from tree to firewood is easy, but it's a grinding and laborious task. I spent the entire year preparing it for the winter only to be told by the government I can't have it, I can't use it for heat, and they'd rather see me freeze. This on top of everything else I am handling is just too much. I really want to be more active here, because I like the place and you guys, but stuff like this is just sucking the life out of me.
Customers feel so entitled sometimes. It makes me happy my job requires no customer interaction at all. I don’t mind talking to people because you’d get the occasional extremely nice person who you’d remember for a long time, but those bad apples have to ruin it. It’s really not worth it, and dammit servers don’t get paid enough for what they need to deal with on a regular basis. I thought working for the unemployment company was bad. Pay was absolutely incredible, and you had to go through training, but it was mentally draining. People treat you like you’re **** when you’re only reading from a script.
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ali.di.magix
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I switched medications and my specialist didn't warn me of any side effects. I usually ask if there are any but this time I forgot. Now I've got quite bad stomach upsets and I hope it doesn't last too long and goes away after time 
