What's Bothering You?
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Been kind of swamped with life. Haven't been too active, and this is one of the ongoing situations I've been dealing with, but my state is slamming me with a zoning violation. Some butthole neighbor complained how the firewood that I use to provide heat to my house hurts their Karen eyes.
But mine is not a violation and I'm trying to fight it because I need that to provide warmth to my house. It's insane because a bunch of other houses nearby also have stacks of wood for the same reason, but they're targeting just me. I asked them and they said it was because they just got a complaint on me. I could understand it if it looked trashy, but everything is neat and organized.
Winters are brutal where I live. I can't afford to just turn on the heat. People think the process from tree to firewood is easy, but it's a grinding and laborious task. I spent the entire year preparing it for the winter only to be told by the government I can't have it, I can't use it for heat, and they'd rather see me freeze. This on top of everything else I am handling is just too much. I really want to be more active here, because I like the place and you guys, but stuff like this is just sucking the life out of me.
But mine is not a violation and I'm trying to fight it because I need that to provide warmth to my house. It's insane because a bunch of other houses nearby also have stacks of wood for the same reason, but they're targeting just me. I asked them and they said it was because they just got a complaint on me. I could understand it if it looked trashy, but everything is neat and organized.
Winters are brutal where I live. I can't afford to just turn on the heat. People think the process from tree to firewood is easy, but it's a grinding and laborious task. I spent the entire year preparing it for the winter only to be told by the government I can't have it, I can't use it for heat, and they'd rather see me freeze. This on top of everything else I am handling is just too much. I really want to be more active here, because I like the place and you guys, but stuff like this is just sucking the life out of me.
Customers feel so entitled sometimes. It makes me happy my job requires no customer interaction at all. I don’t mind talking to people because you’d get the occasional extremely nice person who you’d remember for a long time, but those bad apples have to ruin it. It’s really not worth it, and dammit servers don’t get paid enough for what they need to deal with on a regular basis. I thought working for the unemployment company was bad. Pay was absolutely incredible, and you had to go through training, but it was mentally draining. People treat you like you’re **** when you’re only reading from a script.
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ali.di.magix
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I switched medications and my specialist didn't warn me of any side effects. I usually ask if there are any but this time I forgot. Now I've got quite bad stomach upsets and I hope it doesn't last too long and goes away after time 
Not a good day today. Slept through my alarms and was late for work 
I hate to leave a bad impression and I feel like its going to result in me being scheduled less mornings now. I would much rather do mornings though, when I work in the evenings I dont get to see my partner at all.
I hate to leave a bad impression and I feel like its going to result in me being scheduled less mornings now. I would much rather do mornings though, when I work in the evenings I dont get to see my partner at all.
My 3 daily crafting villagers, Kapp'n bottle, beach bottle, amiibo camper request, HHP bottle, and HHP Chef DIYs were all repeats... Every DIY besides the chef recipe were also common pre-2.0 DIYs...
It is a weekend, so I would have had plenty of time to host recipes, too...
It is a weekend, so I would have had plenty of time to host recipes, too...
I'm ****ed at my mom, sometimes she's so stupid. Like, I thought I was stupid, but in this situation even I have more common sense then she did.
If your child tells you there is a 'crazy drunk lady somewhere outside' and that they are waiting inside their place of work rather than the café across the street, wouldn't you think to pick up your child INFRONT OF THEIR PLACE OF WORK so they didn't have to walk father and avoid possible danger?
Well apparently not, to my mom atleast. I literally said in my text that there is a crazy drunk women outside and she decides to still have me walk all the way down the plaza and across the street to pick me up in my usual spot. At the end of the plaza there is a restruaunt with a BAR that I have to walk past to go to my usual spot. What if that drunk person wasn't alone and had friends there who were also drunk? What if they saw me come out of work and decided to gang up on me? But no, instead of just pulling up infront of my job she decides to pick me up across the street. So ****in stupid.
Then when I get in the car I start telling her how what she did wasn't safe for me and she tells me she gets it cause she wants me to stop telling her it. Like, REALLY. Are you that dumb and that stubborn to not pull up infront of my job so I can avoid possible danger? She's so ****in lucky I hold my tongue so much around her cause I could have went on and on about any horrible stuff that could have happened.
If your child tells you there is a 'crazy drunk lady somewhere outside' and that they are waiting inside their place of work rather than the café across the street, wouldn't you think to pick up your child INFRONT OF THEIR PLACE OF WORK so they didn't have to walk father and avoid possible danger?
Well apparently not, to my mom atleast. I literally said in my text that there is a crazy drunk women outside and she decides to still have me walk all the way down the plaza and across the street to pick me up in my usual spot. At the end of the plaza there is a restruaunt with a BAR that I have to walk past to go to my usual spot. What if that drunk person wasn't alone and had friends there who were also drunk? What if they saw me come out of work and decided to gang up on me? But no, instead of just pulling up infront of my job she decides to pick me up across the street. So ****in stupid.
Then when I get in the car I start telling her how what she did wasn't safe for me and she tells me she gets it cause she wants me to stop telling her it. Like, REALLY. Are you that dumb and that stubborn to not pull up infront of my job so I can avoid possible danger? She's so ****in lucky I hold my tongue so much around her cause I could have went on and on about any horrible stuff that could have happened.
i feel lonely and bored constantly. i'm 28 and i still find it impossible to make friends or talk to anyone. i feel like i always say the wrong thing or do that wrong thing even when i'm trying so hard not to. it feels like nothing i do can ever be right and that's just how it'll always be. no matter how much i try to talk to people or how much i try to relate with someone or at least be there for someone it's never enough. i'm always going to be the outsider. it's just getting more hard to deal with lately.
Hey, just wanted to say I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I’ve been there (and am still kind of there). I wouldn’t mind talking to you more as a friend though. Usually the only times I’ve lost friends were from the other person leaving me. It’s never the other way around, so I doubt you could say anything to upset me. If you want to talk, let me know.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Hey, I know I'm not here much and we haven't really talked and stuff in quite awhile. But, just wanted to say that I hope things work out. Giving you a hug.
Yup that's why you don't do it :]this "figuring out identity" and "growing up" stuff is such a hassle
Also wow cinderace is ****ing useless unless u teach it flamethrower lool!
Psydye
music junkie, bookworm and Metroid fanboy
The fact that I'm a failure. I'm on disability for Asperger's and I just feel ****ty about it. I feel like maybe I could've done more w/ my life. I hate feeling like a leech. God, kill me, PLEASE!
