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I got a double helix piercing yesterday and it is so difficult to put on and take off my mask. It always gets tangled and it hurts so so bad :--)
 
My dad saw me go out in the garage which is by his bathroom right before he goes to the bathroom, yet he still does not shut his bathroom door all the way. 🤢 Probably didn’t wash his hands. please don’t touch my kittens with those hands.
 
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feeling pretty stressed out right now. was scrolling on facebook and saw that my sister-in-law adopted a betta fish from a friend of hers. The fish is currently being kept in a fishbowl; no heater, no filter. The poor betta has already lost 90% of its color; no doubt that's why my SIL's clueless friend gave the fish away

I know she knows nothing about fish-keeping and is not doing this on purpose but it stresses me knowing that she likely won't be able to outright afford a lot of the stuff you need to properly care for a betta. I luckily have a 10 gallon that she can use but she'll need a filter, a heater, substrate, more fake plants (not gonna suggest live plants), a thermometer, higher quality fish food, a test kit, dechlorinator...

And this is all assuming she will not get offended when me and my husband approach her with this information.

I wish more people knew that fishbowls are downright abusive to fish. Fish deserve so much better. Especially betta fish and goldfish, who are probably the most abused pet fish there are
 
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feeling pretty stressed out right now. was scrolling on facebook and saw that my sister-in-law adopted a betta fish from a friend of hers. The fish is currently being kept in a fishbowl; no heater, no filter. The poor betta has already lost 90% of its color; no doubt that's why my SIL's clueless friend gave the fish away

I know she knows nothing about fish-keeping and is not doing this on purpose but it stresses me knowing that she likely won't be able to outright afford a lot of the stuff you need to properly care for a betta. I luckily have a 10 gallon that she can use but she'll need a filter, a heater, substrate, more fake plants (not gonna suggest live plants), a thermometer, higher quality fish food, a test kit, dechlorinator...

And this is all assuming she will not get offended when me and my husband approach her with this information.

I wish more people knew that fishbowls are downright abusive to fish. Fish deserve so much better. Especially betta fish and goldfish, who are probably the most abused pet fish there are
First I'm sorry this happened, wow. Bettas shouldn't be kept like that nor should any fish to be honest...

Also yeah if she will get offended she shouldn't keep any pets like that let alone bettas, they are definitely not something you just give away, damn.
 
Nintendo servers, why do we pay for literally the same crap we had for 3DS.
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First I'm sorry this happened, wow. Bettas shouldn't be kept like that nor should any fish to be honest...

Also yeah if she will get offended she shouldn't keep any pets like that let alone bettas, they are definitely not something you just give away, damn.
She didn't even know what a betta fish was, apparently! But otherwise she's been receptive to the info so far, hopefully she will read the links we gave her. She is a nice person so I think she will do what she can for it..

But yeah her friend gave the fish away because she was moving and I guess she couldn't take the fish with her???
 
She didn't even know what a betta fish was, apparently! But otherwise she's been receptive to the info so far, hopefully she will read the links we gave her. She is a nice person so I think she will do what she can for it..

But yeah her friend gave the fish away because she was moving and I guess she couldn't take the fish with her???
That's good, it read to me as she weren't but yeah hope it works out :)

And yeah not all places are suitable for animals so perfectly understandable.
 
I got a double helix piercing yesterday and it is so difficult to put on and take off my mask. It always gets tangled and it hurts so so bad :--)
I got my helix pierced in September and started opening my mask straps really wide when taking it on and off and that helped. I'd also do it slowly so it wouldn't jostle them too much, and now it's healed enough I don't have to worry about it too much. Good luck with it! I've been thinking about getting a double helix on my other ear at some point.
 
I guess today is one of my "lie in bed all day and don't eat at all or do anything fun bc I'm so stressed/anxious" days 😞
 
Bakugo decided to have an adventure with exploring the neighbors yard. He rarely ever does that because of the dogs in the other neighbors yards. It gave me a pretty bad scare not knowing where my little 2 1/2 pound bun is roaming around the neighborhood like that. Luckily I found him next door and he ran right to me when he saw me. I’m glad I have a good bond with my bun and he’s always happy to see me.
 
I was going to visit one of my moms today, but she accidentally drove into a pole. Thankfully she and the dog are fine. It just delayed the trip for a few days. Sadly her car will have to either be repaired or completely replaced…
 
I got my helix pierced in September and started opening my mask straps really wide when taking it on and off and that helped. I'd also do it slowly so it wouldn't jostle them too much, and now it's healed enough I don't have to worry about it too much. Good luck with it! I've been thinking about getting a double helix on my other ear at some point.
Yeah it feels a little easier to do it now than it did the past two days haha. You should, they look great 😌
 
I feel kinda crappy for no reason today :/

every time I speak to my parents over the phone, something always comes up about me being back for the Christmas break. Then my parents, notably my mum, always says something about me "not wanting to go back" when I have to go back home. On the inside, I'm like trust me, after 3 weeks of living back in my parents place, I'm definitely gonna want to go back. After last time being back there, all I wanted was out. I can't take the **** that goes on with my family like I used to. I've had 7 months of peace by myself, going back there was literally traumatizing. Just going to have to keep up the lie to keep everyone happy though 🙃
 
I’m having one of those days where I wish the people who hurt me genuinely apologized. Unfortunately, all of them have either ghosted me or abruptly blocked me. I can’t stand up for myself and say “I’m tired of being treated like dirt.” I would’ve done so when they were still in my lives, but I never notice their awful behavior until it’s over. Little comments like “you’re less charming over the phone” just don’t register right away. I wish I had the ability to speak up…
 
I think I fell asleep without taking my night medicine. Oddly enough my head feels fine though. Maybe the melatonin and long time I slept for was enough. 🤔
 
I just feel my anxiety rising as it gets closer to the holidays and my team leads leaving. I just want to be happy during the holidays but the last couple of years it has always been stressful with people leaving. I don't like not knowing what's going to happen. I'm going to be looking for a new job finally after this year closes. I don't want to be here for another year.
 
oof i really need to vent even though its not an actually serious problem but im stressed as hell... finals ar coming very very soon and even though i always turn in my projects in time, im having such a hard time bc im burnt out... and as an artist that doesnt help at all since it makes the drawing process extremely difficult (which is literally the projects). i have adhd so abiding by a schedule isnt at easy as it sounds idk i should just focus and do the projects but i genuinely cant 😭 i just want this month to end i need a break so bad. also my back is KILLING ME bc i spent so many hours drawing in an unconsciously bad position...
 
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