saw a post thay basically says "yall can't expect us to tiptoe around your triggers all the time you need to sort that **** out yourself, it's not our responsibility to know and avoid your triggers" but like, allergies are triggers? could you imagine someone giving everyone the same plate of food and being like "sorry if some of yall have a food allergy, you need to deal w that yourself" like how inconsiderate could they actually be??? it's really not that difficult to ask about triggers and you don't have to "tiptoe" around them, just make yourself aware of them apologize in advance if you think you may affect them. it's not that ****in hard to have some compassion lol.
(and if you don't want to help then let people do what they need to do to help w their triggers without fear of being judged or ostracized)