my dad's logic is basically this: "you won't do this one miniscule thing for me and allow me to control you, so I'm not gonna give you this basic necessity (like food or a drink) lol". never heard of someone refusing someone else's needs because they wouldn't let themselves be controlled, especially not someone who's caring for an invalid like my mom.
on a slightly more light-hearted note I just found out that the Webkinz team did in fact make a Silver Fox pet but it was released in Aug 2020 (after they stopped making plushies) so no Webkinz plush exists of it. it's bad enough I have the hardest time finding a silver fox plush in general, anywhere on the internet, but now the Webkinz people are essentially saying "haha we made a silver fox but you can't have the plush of it so tough luck"
edit: okay so I found one but it's from Amazon Deutschland (Germany) and they do not ship to the US so I guess I won't be getting one rn :,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,)
but look how precious this boy is!!! I would protect him w my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!