What's Bothering You?

[pochy]

i hate relationships. the whole kissy touchy thing is so revolting to me, but whenever someone confesses, i just give in and say yes because they keep saying they're not happy with my answer. (i just tell them i don't wanna be in a relationship, then they tell me they're not satisfied with that and that we couldn't be friends after this ) i hate losing what little friends i have. why aren't people satisfied enough with my friendship, i keep losing friends

 

[Lady Timpani]

i hate relationships. the whole kissy touchy thing is so revolting to me, but whenever someone confesses, i just give in and say yes because they keep saying they're not happy with my answer. (i just tell them i don't wanna be in a relationship, then they tell me they're not satisfied with that and that we couldn't be friends after this ) i hate losing what little friends i have. why aren't people satisfied enough with my friendship, i keep losing friends

Sorry this keeps happening to you. :/ Regardless those people are taking advantage of you, and if they threaten to not be your friend anymore because you won't date them they were never a very good friend to you anyway. I think it's fine to distance yourself from a friend you have unrequited feelings for to keep things from being awkward/try to get over your feelings, but holding them emotionally hostage the way these people are doing you is awful.

 

[pochy]

Sorry this keeps happening to you. :/ Regardless those people are taking advantage of you, and if they threaten to not be your friend anymore because you won't date them they were never a very good friend to you anyway. I think it's fine to distance yourself from a friend you have unrequited feelings for to keep things from being awkward/try to get over your feelings, but holding them emotionally hostage the way these people are doing you is awful.

thanks for your reply, yes, that's exactly what i did in my last "relationship", i ended up ghosting him after i felt too uncomfortable after he kissed me without me wanting to it always feels terrible to distance, but i don't know any other way to do it other than telling him upfront and hurting his feelings (what makes it worse is this would be his first relationship)
i never saw it that way that they're taking advantage, but now that you say it, i think you might be right. he didn't really let me have an other option. thanks for opening my eyes on this, i'll try to avoid him and distance myself

 

[oak]

I just realized all my warnings on here expired and I feel like a free man lmao. Feels like a weight lifted off my chest no matter how lame that sounds.

Ok so I jinxed myself cause right after this I got 2 warnings in 3 days lmao. Luckily they were just reminders rather then actual infractions again.

I promise I'm not bad okay y'all lmao. I just need to think better before I post a lil bit

 

[Lady Timpani]

thanks for your reply, yes, that's exactly what i did in my last "relationship", i ended up ghosting him after i felt too uncomfortable after he kissed me without me wanting to it always feels terrible to distance, but i don't know any other way to do it other than telling him upfront and hurting his feelings (what makes it worse is this would be his first relationship)
i never saw it that way that they're taking advantage, but now that you say it, i think you might be right. he didn't really let me have an other option. thanks for opening my eyes on this, i'll try to avoid him and distance myself

Good luck! I hope things get better for you.

 

[Midoriya]

The funny thing is, I have so many bothers, some already mentioned here and that have gone untreated for awhile, that I ignore them completely and pretend they don’t exist. Every next day that comes makes me want to barf more and more. Don’t understand why so many efforts for good things have to be in vain.

 

[Clock]

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[DinosaurDumpster]

i'm procrastinating by typing on this forum, and there are delicious fries waiting for me in the fryer. I really need to finish my homework, but i'm obviously not doing a very good job at getting it done.

 

[_Rainy_]

I’m tired of being busy all of the time. I wish I had a day to myself once in awhile to just do nothing at all.

 

[Dawnpiplup]

i'm procrastinating by typing on this forum, and there are delicious fries waiting for me in the fryer. I really need to finish my homework, but i'm obviously not doing a very good job at getting it done.

Procrastinating team mate, let's start one on here lmfao. Also you tellin' me you got a deep fryer in your house like goddamn

 

[Clock]

Nvm, wanted to vent for a few seconds

 

[skarmoury]

I’m tired of being busy all of the time. I wish I had a day to myself once in awhile to just do nothing at all.

oh wow i really felt this.
i cant rest without getting anxiety every time because it feels like a sin settling down for even just a moment when i know i still have a ton of stuff to do. well uhhfhdjjrksjd it's not like i didnt sign up for post grad but it's whatever at this point

 

[xSuperMario64x]

so my heart is in an emotionally distraught place right now. my parents have offered to give me the master bedroom and allow me to love there rent free while I work and save up money so I can eventually get a house, which honestly sounds really great. but the problem is.... I would still have to live with them. in their disgusting house. with all the loud noises and yelling and constant swearing and heartlesness. I don't want to live there anymore. i hate it at home. it's really sad to say that but I'm dead serious.


I wish I could just run away and never return.

 

[DinosaurDumpster]

Procrastinating team mate, let's start one on here lmfao. Also you tellin' me you got a deep fryer in your house like goddamn

lol no, it's just an air fryer. But a deep fryer would be really cool and i want one-

 

[oak]

so my heart is in an emotionally distraught place right now. my parents have offered to give me the master bedroom and allow me to love there rent free while I work and save up money so I can eventually get a house, which honestly sounds really great. but the problem is.... I would still have to live with them. in their disgusting house. with all the loud noises and yelling and constant swearing and heartlesness. I don't want to live there anymore. i hate it at home. it's really sad to say that but I'm dead serious.


I wish I could just run away and never return.

That sounds like a hard decision especially if you're still in school. Even if you did move out and it became too much, it seems like your parents would welcome you back. You might really need to take that chance if the environment at your parents place is so bad. Of course the decision is up to you though. I hope the answer becomes clear soon.

 

[Zane]

I want a cobweb egg

 

[Cutesy]

Just general sadness. Also my birthday is coming up this weekend which is making me feel extra depressed

 

[MyLifeIsCake]

Not a big deal but....

I had a dream I found a Static plush at a thrift store and I wanted it soooo bad. I sub-consciously knew I was dreaming so I tried to keep myself asleep then my alarm woke me up I have dreams like this all the time where I find something cool only to wake up and find out it isn't real

 

[Seastar]

Not a big deal but....

I had a dream I found a Static plush at a thrift store and I wanted it soooo bad. I sub-consciously knew I was dreaming so I tried to keep myself asleep then my alarm woke me up I have dreams like this all the time where I find something cool only to wake up and find out it isn't real

I have dreams like this all the time too... Usually also about thrift stores.

 

[frogslime]

I just want to melt into a puddle until every problem magically fixes itself.
I don't want to sound edgy, really, but so many things would be better off without me lol