What's Bothering You?

[SmoochsPLH]

mother nature visited while i had no paaaads...

 

[Jam86]

i asked my sister if i could have a few of her amiibos and she said no (which was fine)
so i made them with those nfc cards and not even a day later, she gave me the ones i asked for
i can't sell them either because everyone is buying the fake cards atm
(to be fair i prefer to buy the fake cards too)

also i've officially deleted nookazon just because everyone on there was super annoying
i was using the last of my nook tickets to get a few villager photos and someone offered me what i wanted then messeged me saying they didn't have them but offered me lolly and bob's photos instead
i politely turned their offer down however they just kept offering me random stuff (pretty much everything other than what i asked for)
then started begging for me to give them my nook tickets

and other people make offers for things i sell then cancel not even a second later because "the seller was unresponsive"
like give me a chance to actually open the app

but yeah this website is wayyy better, so i deleted nookazon and i'm gonna trade on here from now on

 

[Chris]

hit with the sudden realization that majoring in something i was passionate about killed my passion and it's been almost a year since i graduated college and i haven't done said passion once in the past year.

I can relate to this. I've a BA in Filmmaking and Screenwriting and by the end of it my desire to create was dead and buried. I later ended up doing a second Bachelor's degree in a non-creative field (Biomedical Science) and in the later years of that my desire to write finally returned. Hopefully in time your passion will return too.

 

[Raz]

Heat. We're dealing with temperatures around 98C/100F daily, and I can't stand the heat. I hate summer

 

[oak]

I wish the submission for the writing contest was private cause I suck at writing. I don't think I have written anything since high school 10 years ago so the short story I wrote is bad lmao. I have the writing comprehension of an elementary school kid. This is a small complaint I know lol, but it's embarrassing knowing anyone can read it.

 

[Dawnpiplup]

College. A bit.

 

[idiotdoomspiral]

Spoiler: vent stuff

tw suicidal thoughts

writing all of my thoughts down about this might help
a friend and i started reconciling in september. its a long story not worth indulging in here but 2-3 years ago he was a very close friend of mine who ended up really hurting me. i was able to convey all of my thoughts and feelings on that in a letter of sorts and i sent that to him with the help of my other friend (now ex-friend due to some horrible things coming out about him) and from that we began to talk again. it was extremely difficult at times and bumpy along the way but i started to heal, eventually coming to forgiveness which is what i wanted to be able to achieve. he became of my closest friends again, something i do not regret. then the ex-friend whose actions were brought to light, instead of taking accountability, dedicated his "apology" to digging up dirt and calling out my friend, making our situation public to everyone. this was done completely out of spite and it backfired immensely, no one seemed to worry over our situation specifically though but it still deeply hurt the both of us. im so drained and exhausted from it all and i hope this era of my life is almost over. my friend has been unwell, his anxiety escalated rapidly within the past week to the point where hes having multiple panic attacks and breaking down. even though his own actions from the past are making him feel like this i still feel really bad for him. its not like he was evil or intentionally malicious. because of this hes decided to take a break from all forms of social media for a month or two, maybe less, maybe more, to focus on the real world and getting therapy. yesterday we had our final conversation addressing everything and saying goodbye and today he said a few more things and goodbye again before deleting the app. its going to feel so weird without him as we talked almost every day for the past 3-4 months, i have to keep reminding myself that hes gone and will be for a while. im going to miss him. im more concerned with the fact that he is afraid of having suicidal thoughts and if he will keep deteriorating. i wouldnt be angry at him if he acted on it but i would be completely crushed and devastated. ive been feeling suicidal myself but ive been able to keep those thoughts "dormant" for the time being, for the most part at least. this is going to be a test of my patience and hope

im just glad im not alone anymore. i have friends that i trust and love even if i dont talk to them every day. 2 years ago i didnt have that. i feel kinda dumb that bell tree was the thing that made me feel a lot better when i cried about it in this thread back then but it did show me how compassionate people on here can really be

 

[Xara]

snip

i’m really glad that you two were able to repair your friendship; i know how difficult it can be to tell someone how they’ve made you feel and forgiveness isn’t always easy but i’m proud of you both for doing that. i’m sorry about what your ex friend did; they didn’t have the right to do that at all. i’m sending many healing thoughts to you and your friend and hope that he can get the help that he needs. i’m really glad that you have other friends with you, as well; times are difficult right now but i genuinely believe that you guys will be okay. i know we don’t know each other but feel free to shoot me a message if you ever need someone to talk to.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

It's getting difficult to unload diy.

 

[Alienfish]

other people: "you should try to get along w your dad!"

my dad: randomly walks into my room to complain that there's a tiny bit of hair dye on the wall (which wilk come off easily with some soap) and I told him it's fine and he's like WE'LL WHEN YOU'RE NOT THE ONE MAKING THE HOUSE PAYMENT YEAH



like seriously chill the **** out my dude, it's a tiny bit of hair dye. so what? why the **** does he have to make a big deal out if something so small? this kinda bs is why I don't like him.

sounds like my dad too so yeah.
and i hate when people push get along with him when they obviously doesn't know about the thing and that psycho is nice to others

Post automatically merged: Jan 18, 2021

useless splatfest aside from the participation stuff

also really getting pissy at NH for the crap RNG and that trying to get spiny lobster/sea pig is like that bike mario party 1 game. no thanks i can be without completion... i kinda wanna reset a SH map but cba ****ing tut again.

 

[ReeBear]

Spoiler: TW Mental health/ableism

The disability benefits process is killing me. I feel so ill and anxious all the time and I don’t know how much longer I can cope with this. I need money for living. I can’t work. I can’t cook for myself and I can’t leave the house. But instead of using my little energy to try to manage my illness better i’m throwing it all at this stupid process where I get turned down again and again and it’s actually killing me. ended up having a panic attack because someone who was supposed to be giving me advice for the appeal hearing in a week instead told me I’m not disabled and I just. If the people who are supposed to be on my side won’t help then what am I supposed to do. Feel like this country just wants me to become homeless or die and not be a burden anymore.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

why in the world did I sleep til noon again lmao, ig this whole day is wasted

 

[tessa grace]

I had a really stressful dream where I was finally at school for second semester but I couldn't navigate any of my classes and my feet broke because I had to run the mile again... then I woke up so relieved but now I'm dreading school to start on wednesday D:

 

[Dawnpiplup]

New state, new environment. Moved into my college dorm yesterday. I'm not handling it that well.

 

[pochy]

Spoiler

these past three weeks have been really exhausting. i've had to stay up till 4am every night watching my sister sleep, and i have to study for my uni exams during the day. but i also feel like i haven't been productive at all in this time, it feels like i'm stuck, and i can't help but worry. i wish the doctors could finally diagnose what's wrong with her, her attack was on the 24th, it feels like it should've been figured out sooner

 

[piske]

Having a mild allergic reaction to something plus a headache >_>

 

[Raz]

Heat. This weather is unbearable. It's 11:42 pm and the temperature is still around 27C/79F. And we're not even at the peak of summer...

 

[Plainbluetees]

Spoiler: Sensitive Telemarketer story

I got a telemarketing call from... guess who... American Neo-Nazis??! What kind of world do we live in?
I mean... why? Why do people believe in things like this?!
It’s so strange to see people dead serious about something that seems so... wrong.

 

[ali.di.magix]

The lack of communication and understanding of each other between members of my family is infuriating my head literally hurts

 

[SmoochsPLH]

my stomach's being a butt lately. i'll be hungry and then as soon as i get food my stomach suddenly is like "i hurt D':"